I've already come to terms with the fact that marriage is the equivalent of putting 5 bullets in a six shooter, then playing russian roulette. Not to mention the fact that my parents were divorced (VERY nasty, one of the few situations were it was almost entirely my fathers fault, Bipolar and violent) and going through that makes me fear the idea of me being a similar father.

I really don't feel as though I am (or ever will be) interested in raising children without a loving wife that I can relax around, even though that is nigh impossible now as even I can see. In addition I don't want to get stuck in a maury situation of raising some sluts kid that isn't mine, and havjng a vasectomy, along with the medical docementation, would be a big step towards ensuring that.

If I go through with it I will put some swimmers on ice in case I chage my mind in the future.

TL;DR: Don't want kids, probably never will, vasectomy would help with all the bullshit in regards to worrying child support/raising another dudes kids. no?