Very confused after reading:

oytrp · 2018-08-29T17:46:06+00:00

You're probably a coward.

If you are remotely attractive, and approach women that you are attracted to, you will eventually have sex.

Stop being afraid. Is rejection really worse than taking your life?

LMonkInfo · 2018-08-29T16:45:53+00:00

Common, unchecked cases of mental issues are diet and sleep.

For your circadian rhythm to be synced, you need to block blue light (signals that it is daytime) for 2 hours before bed with blue-light blocking glasses. You also have to have stimulating light at the right intensity and distance for an hour after you wake up, which means a SAD therapy light or Re-timer glasses (what I use). Have a fatty breakfast that includes protein right when you wake up. Wake up at the same time every day, and have 2000-4000 iu of Vitamin D.

That's the basics of good sleep hygiene, and can be the cause of depression, ADHD and anxiety for a lot of people. Then just sleep the right amount of hours.

For diet cut out sugar and carbs. Both of these took me from suicidal for 10 years to perfectly healthy.

Finally if virginity is such a big deal hire a prostitute or try to get a ONS on tinder or something and get it out of your system.

abudun79 · 2018-08-29T16:23:31+00:00

I cannot tell you what exactly you are missing. And I don't want to guess or play Q&A on that. But I want to say this:

It's not that you only need to have a check mark on every item on your/the RP list and then you're guaranteed to drown in money, pussy, and high value friends. Missing some positions on that list might be okay, but missing some specific will make your life feel miserable. But, still, having them all checked doesn't mean you're having the life you want.

When the goo between your ears doesn't function the way you need it too, or others expect it to, then no status, no confidence, no 9" dick no nothing will make your life the way a reader of this sub dreams it would be. But you can make it better and better over the years.

But someone's got to be in Pareto's 80%, and you might be one of them. I don't know, you don't know. It doesn't matter, because all you can do is to keep improving yourself. And by doing so, you can get closer and closer to Pareto's 20%, which is still way better than most.

I think you need to pay attention to your social skill the most, that's the only guess I'm gonna make. Have you tried that mission in life stuff? I think it's crap, but there are people out there who actually benefit from that crutch.

Good luck man!

NotaNPC · 2018-08-29T16:24:36+00:00

Are you trying at all to have sex?

Title	Very confused after reading:
Author	platinummattagain
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	August 29, 2018 3:33 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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