Virgin Girlfriend

always-be-closing · 2016-06-02T22:59:24+00:00

She is a virgin (I have felt her hymen)

Irrelevant.

That she hasn't physically been penetrated roughly enough to ensure her hymen doesn't persist is hardly what anyone could principally seek under the premise of a girl being a 'virgin'.

Don't let this mindfuck you.

Says she is afraid of the pain

She's saying that because she wants to have some level of "reasonable" thinking that is not you-centric which gives her plausible 'reasons' to not fuck.

losing value to me and in her own eyes

Coo softly in her ears and tell her a truly valuable 'virgin' wouldn't do anything sexual until she'd been married.

jk, don't do that.

me getting bored of her

Bite her earlobe gently and promise you'll stay interested even after 50 years of her shit.

jk jk, don't do that, either.

I have confessed to her that I have cheated once before, but would never do it again

Yeah, don't do this shit, because it's like handing her a blank check to emotionally manipulate your ass, or go fuck around on you later and throw it in your face.

How do I proceed? Wait?

Escalate.

Always, always, always escalate sexually, especially when she's getting into it herself, particularly as she's said:

numerous time she wants me to take her V

Has come to the point a few times, asked me to, changes mind last minute as I put it in

Keep bringing it to that point, basically, and never ever ever make her think she's doing anything wrong.

You want to be like a rollercoaster.

Rollercoasters are selling the sensation of falling and not dying, flying without effort, being in danger, but not really.

There's an inherent self-deception we all undertake when we buy a ticket for a rollercoaster, where we know it's all just a mechanical contraption meant to play around with our body's sense of balance and acceleration and interact with a part of our evolution that doesn't know about Six Flags and safety waivers and metal shear tolerances, etc.

But who thinks about that in line?

Don't be a roller coaster attendant that talks about risks, and don't talk about how it's just a simulacra of danger.

Be the rollercoaster attendant that simply tells everyone to get ready to have some fun!

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2016-06-02T23:35:42+00:00

First gf was a "virgin" took about three months to get it in. Afterward it was all the time. I met her almost 10 years ago and I know if I hit her up now I could get her to come out. This girl is already mentally putting a lot of stress on herself. Just keep escalating in that direction and eventually she'll break.

killthehamster · 2016-06-02T22:53:09+00:00

It will hurt no matter what her first time. If you are man enough to get through it, just do it. She may not enjoy her first time, taking a woman's virginity is an extremely powerful thing.

Ricardo_Machista · 2016-06-02T22:59:00+00:00

Dating HB8/9, 18 yrs old

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Virgin

Pick one.

I have felt her hymen

Lol. You know that shit grows back right? BJ's are sex. She's not a virgin.

Has come to the point a few times, asked me to, changes mind last minute as I put it in

ASD you dummy. She's playing games. Make clear what you want, if she doesnt deliver then downgrade.

RPShitlord · 2016-06-03T10:55:49+00:00

Keep this one for BJs, and start seeing other women. Tell her exclusivity is impossible but she can still suck your dick.

Title	Virgin Girlfriend
Author	RPRob768
Upvotes	1
Comments	17
Date	June 2, 2016 10:38 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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