I was curious if anyone had any thoughts upon developing an abundance mentality without gaming women. I realize the cliche red pill answer would be to do exactly that. However over the past two years I've been with 50+ women and it actually ended up seeping into a recent LTR relationship I had and was ultimately detrimental. By further extension is was detrimental to her psyche.

The whole culture of casual sex has taken away from any real connection that a person can have and I'm not necessarily interested in having casual sex as a means to becoming emotionally void as an answer to the harsh reality of living.

Furthermore, I think that an abundance mentality and outcome independence are the most valuable things that a person can have while getting into and maintaining a relationship. Hopefully someone has ideas on how to develop that beyond the standard answers of hobbies and friends.