"We moved too fast" shit test.

itsawomensworld · Sat Aug 27 20:00:16 2016 UTC

First of all how long have you been dating her for? how many nights a week? How many times have you had sex? Seems you're developing the ONES

I assume had sex just once. Now onto the answer. I would respond with dread. Dread is effective because you let her know your time is valuable? Basically right now she is putting her pussy on the pedastool. Why shouldn't you have it again and again? Like why would she fuck you then say now she doesn't want too?

It's contradictory and you may already be dead.

Women deal in subleties so unfortunately you're going to have to start gaming other chicks or at least make her think you are. Right now she's showing you that she knows you're a beta bitch.

I'd ignore this text completely. Follow some dread for 3-4 days then invite her out.

raisins3142 · 2016-08-27T22:00:45+00:00

This seems to be anti-slut defense. If you already nailed her, still give her tingles, and escalate; she'll still have sex with you and forget about all her resistance in a week or so. I would only slow down in that I wouldn't try to screw her the minute she walks in the door or make her feel that the relationship is all about sex. Go do something with her and then get to a private place and one thing will lead to another. It seems she just wants to feel valued outside of sex and that you aren't with her just for sex.

Toddbaker6 · 2016-08-27T19:36:05+00:00

Do you want a relationship where she chooses the conditions?

Fully ignore that. You can say "ok", and continue doing the same shit.

A&A works great here. "Yeah, we will go share a milkshake and eat the same spaghetti dish tomorrow night together."

bonerdude420 · 2016-08-28T00:10:12+00:00

'yeah, you're right'

then continue as you were, forgetting the conversation.

Apexk9 · 2016-08-27T19:54:04+00:00

Ignore. Hang out escalate.

Women say one thing but in the moment emotions take over.

yellowmonkeyzx93 · 2016-08-27T20:38:33+00:00

Say.. "I understand where you're coming from. I'll think about it."

You acknowledge her and you give a vague answer (and don't give a bloody response btw Show it through your actions). Then you move on from that topic and continue as you usually do (hang-out and escalate as pointed out by Apexk9. I don't agree with just plain ignoring though..). Acknowledging something is not the same as accepting it. It's like you can acknowledge a political view you do not accept. Something like that.

Usually.. when people ask me something.. I'll say.. "I'll think about it." This means I acknowledge them but it doesn't hell mean I will agree to do what they want me to do.

SexySmexxy · 2016-08-27T21:58:39+00:00

Soft next

Title	"We moved too fast" shit test.
Author	bwaway
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	August 27, 2016 7:33 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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