Weird Requests

Thisismybot8 · 2018-12-24T05:45:07+00:00

Yeah it's pretty clear she's not right in the head. I'd reply with "come over and find out". I don't waste my time on the phone with sluts.

Musicgoon · 2018-12-24T05:49:12+00:00

That's a red flag buddy. She's starting a Gaslighting campaign. Never apologize for stupid shit.... You'll fall into her frame. Look out for ,"you", statements: You are abusive. You think you can cook me. This is what you do...ect...

That sounds like a cluster B personality disorder statement.

BurnieSlander · 2018-12-24T07:19:56+00:00

Bunch of idiots on here who think they are psychologists diagnosing mental disorders. It’s just a shit test dude. She’s testing your frame by trying to pull you into hers (where you are nice to her because it’s your job to please her).

“No” is the correct answer.

alpha-zach · 2018-12-24T14:13:28+00:00

I’ve seen bpd’s do this, but you def can’t call someone bpd based on this.

This is her way of saying she wants to make up without saying she’s sorry. She’s too prideful to admit she wants you more than she wants to be right. It’s classic among women because taking responsibility for things is incredibly emotionally difficult and painful. Read up on “the hamster.” To avoid the emotional difficulty of admitting she likes you enough to come back first she rationalizes she that she is being generous by giving you a chance to commit to being nice.

Once you have a girl heavily in your frame she’ll find secret enjoyment out of saying she was in the wrong, but you aren’t there yet.

Need way more details to really help here. No is better than yes, but still very low level. A pressure flip would be much better, “are you going to be nice?” Her answer will depend on her feminine strength and craftiness.

If she is weak or in your frame, she’ll say yes. If she is strong, she might pressure flip back with a question (“well are you not going to do the thing again”) Never respond to a question of a question, with women or real life. You’ll have to respond with your own question but you can’t just copy cat her(“are you gonna not blow random crap out of proportion?”). It’ll become a battle of wits and you must beat her if you want to have any chance at bedding her.

Bpd would blow up in your face, cause drama, make scene, and hang up. Then find a way to destroy your reputation.

Auxfite · 2018-12-24T04:11:45+00:00

Sounds like BPD.

She basically wants to control and dominate you and make you the bitch. This is what we call in the spiritual world “jezebel spirit” look it up.

Title	Weird Requests
Author	RuleTheOne
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	December 24, 2018 4:04 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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