So last night, my ltr and i hung out with her cousin and his friends at a bar. these guys she is close with and knew before me, they seemed chill whatever.

The first thing is. after we got to the bar, after a while my ltrs cousin and his friends started shit talking my ltrs ex in front of me. for like a solid 20 mins they just talked about how small his johnson was, his sex game, etc all in front of me. i laughed a bit, then the whole time i was just on my phone, obviously im not gonna get involved in that weird ass discussion. they started trying to get my ltr to say details about his dick, like extremely detailed but i tried to act like i didnt hear shit. went to the bathroom for a minute then came back. they and my ltr asked me if i cared they were talking about that and i said no you guys do whatever. eventually someone there said stop talking about jt because i was there and it was rude, so they did but the topic came up multiple times later while i was there. like there was no other time to talk about it? i didnt want to say anything and come off as butthurt, i just kept my cool and didnt say shit. im not beta looking either. im 6’2”, muscular, nice hair cut, attire, beard, tan.

then we go to her cousins house and all hangout. her uncle and his wife are there too. she gets shit faced off a few drinks, as does everyone, and starts facetiming her friends, and she tries to hook them up with one of her guy friends there. then the guy starts acting weird and saying “i got a huge cock blah blah” right in front of everyone there, along with the uncle. this guy no joke whips out his flaccid and we all see it, right in front of my ltr holding the camera to show her friends. the uncle was laughing his balls off. it was so fucking weird, but i got pissed that these people have no respect and he did this shit in front of me and my ltr. maybe im being overdramatic. my ltr’s cousin and his gf were also in the room but they didnt see anything.

anyways, i didnt say anything but laugh. it was 2 in the morning, i told my ltr we had to go and after 20 mins which she didnt listen, i got pissed and calmly told her im leaving come or not. told her i was tired and went to sleep, took care of her hungover ass. did i react right? whats the right way to react in this weird situation.

Yes. this all happened.