I started to take the pill in 2019. I got into an LTR and went back to being a bp beta bitch. We broke up a few months ago and I started to get my head right, rebuild my smv, start dating and decided I wouldnt lie anymore. I ended up fucking my exs best friend. About a week or two later my ltr ex asked if I wanted to get back together and still having oneitis for her. I said yes. Two days into being in a relationship she asked if I fucked anyone. I knew she had fucked about three new dudes. I said yes, two people and thats all I want to say and I want to move on and we dont need to know about each others pasts. She asked constantly. I finally told her in the morning while we were in bed and she jumped out and lost her mind. She doesnt believe I would do this and who would do this. Yet she tried to fuck her exs (before) bestfriend when we first broke up. I told her this and she said it was different (AWALT). Anyway thats over. I'm on the fence if I should have been honest or if I should have just said Im not talking about it and its staying in the past and I guess honestly that would have been holding frame if I had said that. My real question is what is the groups view on lying? not just to a plate but lying in general?