What am I doing wrong?

pinstrap · 2015-12-01T00:23:32+00:00

How do the girls act when you're gaming them (be honest)? But more importantly, how are you acting?

FrameWalker · 2015-12-01T01:55:58+00:00

1.) Good on you for trying cold approach. It's hard as hell for lots of reasons. It's really hard to say what's going wrong. I've hit bad streaks too.

As far as the girls seeming interested, everyone likes attention. The only way you can find out if they're actually interested is to escalate physically.

Ideas for things to try: go for the insta-date immediate coffee right when you meet them. Ramp up the sexual tension as much as circumstances allow

Idea for things to examine: How well dressed are you? Do you look like the most successful man in the area? The hottest? How much do you weight/how tall are you? If you're game isn't the greatest, adding muscle mass will compensate

slerpaderp · 2015-12-01T05:45:36+00:00

Honestly I'm having a similar issue. I typically go with the 2 day thing, and have not been having a lot of success, despite knowing they're definitely interested when I'm talking with them in person. Gonna follow this post.

I think it comes down to making a stronger and longer in-person impression with them. It's a bit of a big step for a woman to go out and meet up with basically a stranger of a man she met for only a few minutes, even if he's high SMV. I'm gonna start going with the instadate and see how it works.

medik13 · 2015-11-30T20:55:19+00:00

Your not outcome independent

Title	What am I doing wrong?
Author	thelifeofthefan
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	November 30, 2015 8:03 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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