Hey guys, I generally have a lot of people that like to be around me. I started working out really hard and I start to see my body changing, it is such a good feeling! The only thing I found myself struggling is in the Interaction with girls I see as interesting. It seems like I struggle to make some kind of connection.

Whenever I have a girl over it is another story and I am able to escalate, but this only happened with girls I knew for a long time.

To give an example where it goes wrong: I am in a group for my study and we see each other very often. I found myself being able to connect to the guys very goodly and quickly but to the girls not that much. I mean they like my humour but it is not like I establishment a personal connection. It also does not feel like I put any less effort in getting to I know then than with the guys.

Any tips on making that connection quickly when meeting someone? Thanks in advance