What does an ex want?

The-Ban-Hammer · 2016-02-25T10:06:00+00:00

What could she possibly want?

Dick and/or commitment.

She also has a boyfriend.

Yeah they don't really give a shit about that.

[deleted] · 2016-02-25T11:07:13+00:00

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wanderer779 · 2016-02-25T15:06:29+00:00

If you want to get rid of her, just tell her you can't stop thinking about her either, you know she is the one, you are so sorry about everything, you are miserable without her, and you want to get back together.

DemonConsulting · 2016-02-25T11:45:08+00:00

Could be a number of things ....validation, casual sex in hopes of commitment, to see you suffer ("closure" in hopes of seeing your life being shit, maybe having you crawl back to her), something better than her boyfriend because she got bored with him and now she wants you back ("I think I still love you, never stopped thinking about you"...) , she realized you were better than what she can get right now...

What ever it is, the common theme of all the possibilities is that it's nothing good for you so avoid her at all costs, maybe flat out tell her that you're moving forward and want nothing to do with her.

thiasus · 2016-02-25T10:31:55+00:00

What could she possibly want?

A known quantity. A guy she thinks is a sure thing. Validation, for sure, then whatever she feels like is appropriate in the moment depending how your interaction goes.

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-02-25T16:27:25+00:00

She wants validation from you. She doesn't want dick, because if she did, she wouldn't have asked her friends to contact you. Realize this, please, because this is one of those times where you can't think with your penis. Don't give her the validation she is seeking. Whatever past things happened, happened. Maybe she wants your forgiveness for moving on with her life and finding a 'great fiance', who knows. Time to be selfish and ignore her.

But I will say this: if you are the cause for the breakup, it is in your interest to allow her closure. Just don't expect anything else.

Gunsgoblazing · 2016-02-26T06:12:44+00:00

I just want to say thank you to everyone here. This is a great community to get actual advice. Since finding TRP, I have managed to spin 2 plates (although they ended after a couple of months each). Nonetheless, I am constantly learning from this community and improving myself everyday. I am in better shape than ever thanks to lifting and have nearly achieved most of the goals I set out for myself when I found TRP a year ago. Thank you everyone.

I shudder at the thought of asking this same question in askbetas or r/relationships. It's good to be unplugged.

-The-Pussy-Whisperer · 2016-02-25T15:14:14+00:00

She's reaching out her arm to grab a branch.

RedBigMan · 2016-02-25T18:17:32+00:00

She wants the D. She just wants you to make the first move so she has plausible deniability with her current BF. You know how most women trip and magically land on a dick.

Kudos on ignoring the bitch. Most ex's are ex's for a reason after all and even if she dumped you 2 years ago you can probably look back at that relationship and come up with a dozen reasons you should have dumped her ass after being exposed to TRP for a while.

FakeGuru · 2016-02-25T10:47:56+00:00

My guess would be that she wants to manipulate you in one way or another.

That you are even thinking about her shows you who is better at this game.

RichieFinn · 2016-02-25T13:25:38+00:00

Possibly means shes done having her fun and wants to settle back into something shes comfortable with.

TheBadGod · 2016-02-25T20:15:57+00:00

What manner of resources can you pull from this chick?

drqxx · 2016-02-25T14:44:03+00:00

What does an ex want?

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Your dick in her pussy.

Title	What does an ex want?
Author	Gunsgoblazing
Upvotes	13
Comments	28
Date	February 25, 2016 9:42 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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