What does she mean ?

AlfredApple · 2016-07-27T04:26:04+00:00

I'd say that's a good sign. You had definitely want to make a sexual move next time she is over to "cuddle" though or she won't see you as a potential sexual partner anymore.

chooseaburner · 2016-07-27T06:23:40+00:00

Could mean anything. Don't over analyze. Words aren't terribly important, look at behaviors and actions.

Flipped on it's head, if she said she was uncomfortable around you, that'd mean she doesn't like being around you.

trpthroway123 · 2016-07-27T12:48:09+00:00

we watch movies and cuddle

There's a thousand opportunities to escalate if you're already cuddling. Grab her butt, rub her leg, brush the hair out of her face and kiss her, whatever.

Not even trying sends a strong signal that you're not a sexual option. It's likely to increase resistance the next time you see her and try to escalate, since the precedent was already set.

she told a mutual friend she feels comfortable with me

She likes you. She wants to see you again. She doesn't feel threatened by you.

But, you're on a slippery slope that ends with you as an orbiter. Don't let that happen, escalate next time.

oldredder · 2016-07-27T13:39:01+00:00

not enough info to know. Most of the communication is tone of voice, placement of hands, arms, look in her eyes, that actually shows her real intentions / desires.

Danedina · 2016-07-27T14:02:03+00:00

I think that this is exactly why we tell newbies to escalate. Because now you don't know. If you'd escalated then you'd know where you stand. Now you're just guessing.

Probably it's good, but you're leaving the door open for Chad to swoop in and give her the boning she was waiting for. Get her over again and turn things sexual before she has a chance to settle in and starts seeing you as a brother figure.

brooklynisburnin · 2016-07-27T15:24:45+00:00

Read the fucking side bar, watch what they do, not what they say.

we watch movies and cuddle

Cuddling is a reward for a good performance in bed, you just gave it for free, so yes, you are an orbiter.

Title	What does she mean ?
Author	drunkenmix123
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Date	July 27, 2016 3:52 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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