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How do the lot of you manage so much dating on a budget? 1: Never eat out on your first date. Coffee or tea. 2: Never underestimate the power of the greasy spoon restaurant.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:31 AM
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Then what's the problem?
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:27 AM
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I'd accept that if they don't understand what you're doing, they're not going to understand you. I wouldn't concern myself with the opinions of plates and thots but if you're ignoring all good advice and doing the LTR thing you'll have to think outside the box a bit.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 06:24 AM
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You really need to find a way to spin your lifestyle as the old, 'work hard / play hard' paradigm. Be like Buddha- rigid self denial didn't grant him enlightenment. What he discovered was that somewhere in between self denial and mindless self indulgence was the enlightened path. Now, granted, you probably don't have a religious reason for doing any of this, but the old saying about apples tasting sweeter when you don't gorge on candy still holds true. The nice things in life are better when the…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 06:04 AM
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Game is in simple terms the process by which you meet and acquire women friends. If you can't pick up any women one night, you are said to have 'bad' game. TRP 101 is developing your game.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:24 PM
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1: Talk to a good lawyer. 2: Make sure you have a decent amount of money set aside as physical currency. It's not at all unusual to discover your accounts completely depleted by her first chance she gets. 3: Start making plans for all that free time you have now. 4: Live well.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 05:50 AM
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That boat has sailed because i fucked up but what are some things to do to improve my game outside of just reading the side bar? Everyone has that person they can't get. Part of being an adult is recognizing that you can do nothing wrong and still lose.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 07:36 AM
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I held frame while she preceded to tell me that she’s a traditional girl and has never had that happen to her etc. and I just told her that I don’t pay for girls I just met ....tradition girls on a website for hook ups. Right.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:00 AM
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To be honest I'm already fucking up with grades badly I really don't see my self in college. Thinking of dropping out and doing my shit. If you want to drop out of high school you should be getting a GED earlier than if you'd just stayed put and flew by on D's and C's. It's much more eye catching for employers to have someone who wanted to graduate early and hit the job market than if you dropped out and don't secure that GED till four years later. I mean, I get it, high school sucks. The classe…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 03:23 AM
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1: Hit the gym. If you can't get a gym membership, your school probably offers a weight training class. Take that. If not, swimming is perfectly acceptable. Avoid sports that do not have as strong an emphasis on full body workouts (track and field, for example, or golf). 2: Clean up your diet. Start cooking your own meals. If your parents are like mine you need to be forceful about helping in the kitchen. Cleaning up your diet and cooking your own meals is a huge money saver and generally improv…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 03:04 AM
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One of the earliest pills you can swallow is that high school really doesn't matter. It will save you time- about a year and at least 100 grand- if you're college bound and know exactly what you intend to do in college but otherwise high school does not matter in the slightest. The only courses that are important are English (because you need to not sound like an inarticulate boob), math (because math teaches logic) and science (see above.) If you intend to get into a trade, your GPA doesn't mat…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 02:47 AM
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And don't live in countries like France where paternity tests are illegal.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 02:35 AM
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The guy says he realised theredpill wasn't for him because of how you guys all targeted people of colour You're a special kind of pathetic blue pill if you think that the reason you can't win is because of black people. The minute you stop expecting politics to help you- and yes, race relations is a form of politic- is the minute you start to mature.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 04:08 PM
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Fluff- Light Easy Reading. Fight Club. A decade before TRP was even beginning Chuck Palahniuk wrote one of the first wake up calls to the modern man and made fat youtubers blubber about how it's clearly an allegory for fascism. What you get out of it will depend on what you put into it- people thought it was about a gay man struggling to keep himself in the closet, really- but it's an easy read and if nothing else follow the movie almost 1:1. Great Gatsby. American classic, cautionary tale not t…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 01:52 AM
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Mystery is a joke out of the PUA community that relies on form over substance to essentially dupe women. If you know what you're doing you can apply his methodology better than he does and have repeat customers- they're called plates.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 01:38 AM
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It's more of an introduction than anything else but you need to remember that the author is coming from a very specific place that isn't- strictly at any rate- red pill material.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 01:37 AM
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On the one hand, if you don't have a good idea of what you want to do after high school, you're right. Grades are not important. Two years of community college will clean up your academic record no matter how badly you perform in high school if you have the gumption and the intelligence. If you intend to sign on for a trade, they want a high school diploma, not a specific GPA. On the other, if you know you're college bound and you already have a firm idea of what you want to do? Take your academ…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:15 PM
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Hit the gym. Work out. If you have a firm idea of what you want to do in college, focus on your grades. Getting A's isn't hard- it takes effort, mind you, but it is not hard- so take any AP courses offered. If you take your studies seriously now you save yourself in the long term, both time and money. On the flip side if you don't have an idea- and this is perfectly fucking fine- take high school seriously enough that you graduate. Trades don't give a fuck as long as you have a diploma, communit…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:09 PM
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Now, sometimes this is just her playing hard to get. She wants you to be the one to initiate, she wants you to be the one to express interest. But if it is months later? You were not the first choice. Someone else was higher on her fuck list. As long as you weren't pining for an LTR she sounds like good plate material.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:04 PM
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It's worth remembering that Hollywood is a cesspit of vice. If it isn't sexual predators going after women, it's kids getting Spacey'd.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:02 PM
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Yes. It sounds like most of it isn't on you- your dad's a smoker- but it is still important. Your place shouldn't be immaculate, but you should demonstrate some basic order in wherever you live for your own benefit- forget picking up women. Carpets should be vacuumed about once a month at least. Your kitchen should generally be clean- no dishes piling up in the sink- and orderly. Surfaces should be dusted and clean. Sweep your floors at least once a month. Don't let laundry pile up. Do not use a…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:01 PM
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You made three topics within an hour of each other with identical headers. No, lets not bullshit, being short is saddling yourself with a huge disadvantage. But, like any other issue, it can be worked around. All the aesthetics in the world wont fix a broken personality.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:57 PM
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Your friends are losers. Go watch Rick and Morty- the first two seasons at any rate. You know the character Jerry? His reproductive strategy was literally to be so pathetic that women feel sorry for him and fuck him. That's your friends. How to meet high value people? When in Rome. I recommend sports. Actual sports- swimming, track and field, football, basketball, weight lifting, wrestling, boxing, MMA, etc. Political clubs are hit or miss- especially in high school- but at the college level the…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:54 PM
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So you're a douche, your gay friend hooked you up with some rando and she came to the conclusion that you're a douche. This is like a very particular style of gambling strategy- always double down. But in this case instead of actually doubling down you only say you are. If she accuses you of being a douche and you agree with her, she will never respect you. While being thought of as an ass isn't a good thing, you can still come back from that. People don't respect people they think are doormats …
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:47 PM
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She wants you to break up with her so that she can feel validated in her feelings. Drop her like a fat ogre shit. She's trying to emotionally blackmail you.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:44 PM
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Well, people talk. And even if it's completely false, accusations will follow you around. And what's more, it really only takes someone seeing you in a compromising position once. This is one of those cases where the only winning option is simply not to play.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 04:32 AM
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It sounds like your circumstances are not yours by choice. All you can do is soldier on until you actually have the ability to do something like tell your dad to fuck off, sober up, go to the kitchen and drain all his hootch to make a point. All getting emotional about it will do is distract you from what is important and interfere with your ability to perform. I'd say brush up on your stoicism but it sounds like you're already slammed for academics.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 06:01 PM
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If it's just for easy thrills- IE: getting plates- then it really doesn't matter. Don't commit to an LTR with more than maybe 5 sexual partners, at most though, and fewer is better. Statistically women are less able to commit to monogamy as they pick up more sexual partners.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:57 PM
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You don't. You learn to accept that other people have their own lives and everyone's has it's upsides and downsides. High value women have the opposite problem of men: too often they have plenty of choices for who they want to date but only about 5% are worth a shit, and most of them are not interested in any sort of commitment.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:55 PM
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Recognize that she won't respect a doormat. The problem isn't being an alpha jerk but in finding ways of marketing it. Half of this is really just charisma, part of it is learning to be a second father- knowing when to steer her away from shit because it will not make her happy, she will not be better for having engaged with it, and it will only, at best, waste her time- to her without actually coming across as a parental figure because you want to fuck her, part of it is learning how she behave…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:49 PM
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Start looking for another line of employment. Tons of older women want to live out old fantasies of fucking the mailman while her husband is off at work. And yeah, I get it, you're not the mailman, you lug medical packages around. Doesn't matter. Remember Blues Clues? That show for young children? Host got bombarded with risque fan letters from stay-at-home moms.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:40 PM
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I can see you’ve never read the book, because it’s not like that at all. Your interpretation is a reflection on how you think and doesn’t really depict any viable value, but whatever opinions are opinions. And I’m not asking for convincing on anything, I’m asking about how to move forward when you have self defeating thought patterns. I did read the book. Self defeating thought patterns are you failing to convince yourself. As for before I was a typical kid who played sports and video games, I h…
/r/askTRP28/10/17 07:20 PM
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What if my boss understands the issue but, in order to give her a "shoulder", he starts taking things from me, like authority, autonomy, and so on? Then he's a shitty boss who would rather hope things die down than address an obvious problem. This isn't a situation you can win by doing anything other than your job.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 07:15 PM
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The alchemist ...is a shitty book written to dupe narcissists into thinking their importance is self evident. Alpha status is self-sustaining. If you're doing it right you don't need to convince yourself you need it. It's like blowjobs. As long as they're done right you don't need to be convinced you want one after the first. If you really need help convincing yourself you can always ask yourself about what you were doing before the change. Surely you don't miss weekend nights spent trawling the…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 10:02 PM
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It's not purely about the money. It's the court proceedings, and the kids. And if you put your money in a trust, you can't access it either.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 07:06 PM
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Clean up your resume, do your one year of work- always spend at least a year with any company you're not explicitly working at as a temp- and start applying elsewhere.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 03:36 AM
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Furthermore, should I look for a new job at this point? Are you actually doing your job?
/r/askTRP26/10/17 10:20 PM
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Keep your hand close to your chest, try to avoid office politics. If your boss understands the nature of the work environment, you have nothing to fear and trying to gab at him about it will only make you look like a whiner. If he doesn't and fires you, you were not going to be able to stop him anyways. Incidentally, this is the exact kind of reason you want your resume cleaned up every six months or so.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 10:19 PM
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You're mutual plates. Get used to it or get out.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:17 PM
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'Just be you!' ....said every fat, dumpy man and woman ever.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:16 PM
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Reschedule. Life happens, she was thoughtful enough to call in advance instead of standing you up or straight up ghosting.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 12:42 AM
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If a girl is into you how do you even start the conversation making her come home with you. Get her to talk about herself. What she's studying, what she does for a job, what she does for fun, what kind of music she likes, what she wants to do in the future. Avoid politics. Finding common ground is key. That, and accept that you don't always win. You want sex, but don't give people the impression that you feel entitled to it. People will start thinking you're a sexual predator, people talk. My cr…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 12:39 AM
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Having a nice apartment and nice car don't mean you spend money like a 10 year old. Spending an extra 500, 600 bucks a month so that you can live in a luxury apartment instead of one that does everything the same, but maybe it's 20 years old and the complex has a laundry room instead of a washer/dryer in each unit, is spending money like a 10 year old. I'm not saying, 'oh, you should live in a mold infested dump on the bad side of town!' And LOL at driving around in a Honda Civic so high value w…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 06:34 PM
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nice apartment and car and it will be easy to find out what i do for a living so they will figure it out early on. Don't rent apartments you don't need. Depending on where you live this can mean spending as little as 500 bucks a month in rent. You don't want to live in a dump but you don't want the luxury apartments either. Don't buy expensive cars. Toyota Corolla, Toyota Camry, Mazda 3, Ford Focus, Subaru Impreza, Subaru Forester, Ford Explorer, Honda Civic, Hyundai Elantra. These are the kinds…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 07:29 AM
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Women- and increasingly men; I've seen a 100 variants of this story from 20-something men who are all more or less in the same situation- have two problems here: 1: Over inflated egos that are so fuckin' big they can't allow you to be wrong. So even with the fluffy, high paying job you fundamentally do not deserve but because gubbament you got, they'll still feel unfulfilled and act like South America is going to go disappear in 5 years so they need to quit their job now and travel. 2: Women are…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 07:25 AM
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Just be polite, courteous and don't be a fucking slob. Seriously, the easiest way to not make someone hate you is to clean up after yourself in common areas. Don't leave dirty dishes in the sink, sweep the floors once a month, vacuum the carpets in that same interval. If she doesn't want to talk, she doesn't want to talk.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 06:06 AM
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Embellishing isn't the end of the world, but never lie on your resume or job applications. If you're caught you wont just not get the job, but it isn't unusual for companies to talk.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 06:04 AM
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Wasn't as bad as I was expecting.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 06:02 AM
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If there's a market for it and you're not selling snake oil you may as well try to make some beer money off being what is essentially a surrogate father for the thousands of young adults and 20-somethings who never had one. We're not talking about some 100 buck an hour shrink who just tells you its because you're too angry.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 05:59 AM
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And it's dickish to your dog. Plus if you buy some breeds of dogs- especially the toy dogs; sorry, I love pugs too- it does end up emasculating you a bit. Chad with his German Shepherd or his chocolate lab sends off a different vibe than Chad with his poodle or his Shih Tzu.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 05:57 AM
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You got a few things going on- 1: Beta dads that were taught to uncritically give their daughters everything they want, spawning spoiled princesses. 2: Women who learned from a young age how to manipulate men into giving them what they want. 3: Women who were thrown everything they wanted from a young age. The only way women get hyper confident from fucking Chad is if they themselves were high value to begin with. Anything else is self indulgent narcissism as they ignore why they have to keep lo…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 05:52 AM
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Thee threads all about the same topic posted to the same board in under six hours.... asking if you should flick her hair. Yeah, you might be 18 but you sound like a 10 year old who just discovered masturbation.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 04:57 AM
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She's getting upset because you're telling her that she needs to actually work at the relationship to make it work. And while that alone is kind of dickish, if you offer to go to the gym with her and help clean up her diet and she still balks at the idea, just turn around and run.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 04:55 AM
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If you've known a woman for 7 years and she hasn't thrown attention your way, she's not going to unless you're the bottom of her fuck list. Ghost her, don't wait 7 years to ask someone out next time.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 04:53 AM
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Even then, a lot of what he described doesn't work the same muscles as the overhead shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 09:07 PM
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Did two CS classes, everyone's autistic, met a few alright ones That's the whole point. Give them a closet, some money and a computer and you do the talking.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:36 PM
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I would disagree as I can bicep curl 50 to 55 pounds, I can generally bench 240 five times before maxing out. And can deadlift 600 pounds 8 times. I can also deadlift 800 pounds twice before I probably shit my pants. Either you're lying or your got some fucked up muscle focus. Of course, overhead exercises are also not the easiest thing to do. All the squats, bench presses and deadlifts in the world wont help you with an exercise that involves completely different muscle sets. See what you can d…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 06:35 PM
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It's more like.... 1: Be rich 2: Wear your income on your wrists so I can brag about it. 3: Be generous with your income, but only for me. If I had the kind of money to casually buy sports cars I wouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 06:23 PM
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Juggling a law degree and full time apprenticeship work will be hell. I'd ask if you're even up for it. That said, if you are, two years of shit for experience in software development and a law degree will pay dividends later.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:20 PM
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Women get two chances if they're new. There's such a thing as life happening but after being told, 'oh gosh something came up!' for the second time in a row, they're done. It's disrespectful- especially if they weren't upfront about how their schedule might change- and it's a waste of your time.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:19 PM
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Sure. But, again, an economics degree isn't that valuable, while a CS degree is. And even if you intend to self-teach, the people you meet in your CS classes would be more valuable than the football players sleeping off a hangover in econ 101 while the professor explains the concept of diminishing returns on value. EDIT: And yeah, maybe they didn't get a degree in CS but they all had a degree in something that was fairly heavy. Like math.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:14 PM
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Work out. I won't say, 'hit the weights' but you need to do something. MMA and swimming are the two big acceptable replacements in my eyes. And both of them do spend time hitting the weights anyways so... Clean up your diet. Decades of doctors saying that some food groups are not associated with certain skin issues are kinda full of shit. Cut milk from your diet, limit dairy. Avoid cheap junk food, favor a whole food diet. Get at least some tan. Get a hair cut somewhere from once a month to once…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:16 AM
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While women do tend to flock to high value men, they will also fall back onto deeply flawed men because of the perception that they can't judge them for X. Either that or they seem themselves as godsent redeemers there to fix the man's problem. She likes him because he can't judge her hootch habit. It's not that different from the women who flood the mailbox of convicted serial killers.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:50 AM
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I'd study CS and learn economics on the side. If nothing else, you'll meet a lot more people you want to remember in a graduating class of computer science majors than you will from the economics department. Especially if your end goal is CS. While you can find a gig being a programmer or a coder with no college background it is much harder to pull off if your aim is computer science. That's the difference between the Torvalds, Knuth, Gates and Dennis Ritchie and.... Zuckerberg.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:49 AM
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Get more plates. It's hard to take a relationship seriously when you fuck another chick the next night. Either that or go to the opposite end and start getting sharp at evaluating women's worth and dropping any who don't meet exacting standards like you're a venture capitalist who just got told he has to liquidate the firm's assets that aren't strictly profitable.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:43 AM
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Well, you can tell him that from where you're standing she's prostituting her company for free meals and movies she may or may not be interested in. In truth I doubt he is either self aware enough to handle reality, or he knows but somehow doesn't care.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:41 AM
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Well, Israeli law school may be different. My comments about it reflected the US- first year of American law school is typically brutal to weed out anyone who isn't serious about it.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:39 AM
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Computer science isn't purely about programming.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:38 AM
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1: Law school is expensive, the first year of it is brutal, and there's no guarantee you'll actually make good money. Repeat after me, 'lawyers do not typically make big money.' The ones that do are maniac workaholics who slave away for big law firms. Plus, the industry is in the middle of a shrinking trend- with the advancement of computer technology and search algorithms much less time is actually spent in discovery, which means that one lawyer can handle far more cases than they used to. You …
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:47 AM
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It's the most stubbornly unfilled sector of the labor force in the US. Basically, there's always more money to be had if you have a novel software idea. Shit, people still throw money at companies like Twitter even though they've never turned a profit.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:40 AM
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A finance degree is like learning Mandarin Chinese. It seems desirable until you interact with the industry. Many finance side jobs are the kind of thing that will burn you out hard as you realize just how much of a bunch of crooks the industry is.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:39 AM
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Even the most undesirable rat race job will give you the kind of financial ground swell that if you ever feel it necessary, you could roll over into a freelance job. That said, finance has a bad reputation as far as degrees go. Sure, it's a step up from a business degree or some door hanger liberal art, but it's still not on the right side of the STEM curve.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:34 AM
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should i sleep with a girl i find very attractive (and slept with in my past) that is a red flag (alot of red flags like all of them), she seems to be into it (i knew her before i went hardcore loser),and i haven't had sex in 2 years, and my confidence is so low i doubt ill get another chance soon. You could fuck 100 women and not fix your confidence problem. Don't base your success in life based on whether or not you get your dick wet- that's how hundreds of broken households start. People plac…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:46 AM
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If you're trying to fuck a woman do not waste her time- do not waste your time- with frivolous small talk. She can get that from her friends, you can do that with your friends. Don't beat her over the head with it a'la, 'aay gurl u want sum fuk?' but have a very obvious chain of events in mind. Ask her if she's going to a party, as her if she wants to go to a party, etc, etc. If you're not fucking her, and you do intend to fuck her, you should always have an immediate goal to try and escalate th…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:37 AM
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I mean, it's your life, you can gauge your own risk and act accordingly. Odds are you'll be fine if you're honest about what you do. But there's still always that one chance that the one newbie who maybe doesn't understand that she can't handle her hootch very well drinks herself stupid and decides the next morning in bed with you that it's a no-go.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:22 AM
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and getting women out of the banquet room is tough because there isn't much I can come up with to give her plausible deniability while other professional women are watching each other with eagle eyes, lots of reputation on the line. Don't shit where you eat. "Oh, but I don't work there!" Well, that still applies to you as a consultant. If an employer would fire you for fucking a coworker they sure as shit wont pay for you if you fuck their employees.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 01:37 AM
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Yes. If nothing else, dating a wide variety of women makes you understand how to spot the loons and the dumps and makes you appreciate the ones with any redeeming qualities.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 01:34 AM
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Why are the lowest tier men usually the most opinionated, annoying, dickish, rude, etc.? Rather than accept their failures and take their lumps their egos are so fucking huge that it wont let them be failures. That, and they realize that if they behave badly people will capitulate because they don't want to put up with that shit.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 07:21 AM
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Either you initiate or concede that it was a one night stand that happened to ruin your bed sheets.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 07:18 AM
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1: Let your kids make their mistakes. 2: Push your kids to excel in school but don't be the one playing goalie for them. As a rule of thumb B's should be expected, A's rewarded and C's and below should lose them privileges. Rewards and penalties should be clear, too. Don't make it a guessing game. Kids like to equivocate about poor performance, too, when they typically know exactly why they fucked up. Point them in the right direction, be willing to work with them in terms of, say, administering…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 11:35 PM
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I don't know what advice to give you if she doesn't see it as a problem. There is none. People either indulge in these narcissism simulators or they don't.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 03:21 AM
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Well, that's why they're plates.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 03:20 AM
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Masculinity is coming home after a day as a fire fighter where you had to save a pet shelter from a fire, saving half the population and having the screams and howls of the ones you couldn't in the back of your head, stepping inside covered in soot, eating dinner, and then telling your wife you're going to step into the shower. Masculinity is the ability to control your emotions, channel them as needed, and to have the physical strength to act on them as you want. Or, to be really blunt since yo…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:12 AM
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I can't move. I can't talk. Sometimes 45 min go by and I'm in the same place, with a fucking knot in my stomach like a beta bitch, incapable of fucking blurting out a "hey" to some HB4 because she's so fucking pedestalized in my mind that I can't possibly be enough, or because my fragile ass ego is too scared to take a hit, I don't know. Aside from the obvious- do not go to loud clubs to pick up chicks- the kind of approach you use there is completely different from how you do it on, say, campus…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 06:49 AM
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1: The more you focus on having sex the more of a boat anchor it becomes. It's like golf: trying to hit the ball harder tends to make you miss the ball. Get your form right, have a good swing, do proper follow through and you'll find that while you might not score holes in one every fucking time, you're at least hitting it in the right direction. The more natural you seem, the more likely you are to pick up women. Not every woman wants to fuck you- that's just life- but almost none want to fuck …
/r/askTRP13/10/17 06:45 AM
2

There's always a looming debt crisis. The global economy fundamentally relies on the fact that someone owes someone money to keep palms greased and cash flowing, even when there isn't any actual value backing it. The net result of this is that at any given time there's some country out there with shit finances or some company or some group of companies flirting with shitting the bed so hard that they plunge the world into a recession. A bunch of banks in the US did it once. China, Japan, and a h…
/r/askTRP11/10/17 01:01 AM
2

Netflix. Home cooked dinner and a dollar theater movie. Basically anything you can do to test if she's just going to prostitute out her company for a free meal.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:56 AM
4

The truth is objective. How you explain it to people is subjective. If you get flagged as a chronic liar, you're fucked though. Even a sleazebag is thought of better than a liar.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 08:13 PM
1

Don't waste any more time than you absolutely need to with people who don't have their shit together.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 08:07 PM
2

There's a difference between lying and simply marketing your truth in a way that's palatable. And your comfort zone isn't things you like, it's things that make you comfortable.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 08:04 PM
2

Fuck morality, I wouldn't do it because it leaves you vulnerable to other bullshit. If they get a divorce and your name comes up in the proceedings, your name is now public knowledge as that dude who fucked the husband's wife.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 08:03 PM
3

You need to consume a caloric surplus to build mass. If you're at the gym five fucking times a week and you only pack down 2000 calories a day your body is just as likely to hit your muscles as your fat to tap for energy. Plus you need to pack down about .8 grams of protein per pound of lean body mass. Truthfully, depending on the nature of your work outs, you may actually be best served by dropping a day at the gym a week. And just for future reference, height and weight are not significant, bo…
/r/askTRP06/10/17 05:48 PM
1

If you try to lose weight exclusively by fasting, you will be a bit disappointed. In reality weight training is going to be your best bet for weight loss. Cardio has it's perks but it's not a good means of dropping weight.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 05:44 PM
6

You'd only be able to walk away from a four year relationship and feel nothing for her if you were a sociopath.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 03:55 AM
2

If you can get her to be direct and honest about what she wants- you can do this with some women- and what she has to say is what you want to hear, then yeah, I'd tie the knot. The problem is that women- especially in their 20's- are often prone to getting baby rabies. And you, having dated her for four years- dude, way too long- are part of the problem because it's not unreasonable for her to assume you want something serious from her at that point. I'm not even sure why I want to be with her, …
/r/askTRP30/09/17 01:45 AM
2

People who have to ask rarely are looking for a healthy relationship with a drug. If that's you, you were not asking people for advice or approval to begin with.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 01:37 AM
1

No, we don't do 'crushes.' You ask someone out or you don't. If you're attracted to someone, you ask them out. There is not stuttering here either.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:54 PM
1

Never let yourself- or at least learn to hide it physically- be intimidated by someone who's significantly more attractive than you think you deserve. On the one end, there's nothing less attractive in a man than the appearance of lacking confidence and on the other end if all you do is drool about how attractive and well built she is, it'll weird her out. And that's at best. If someone else finds it funny she has to bend over to kiss you, that is their problem.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:53 PM
2

I have friends who smoke and they seem happy although they're not successful by any means but then you got successful people who do smoke. Idk guess I really just miss the high and the lifestyle. They're happy because they're kept in a near constant state with that drug that makes them OK. The thing about weed is that it makes you OK with being bored. It's not red pill, but if that's what you want, go for it. Just don't bitch when you discover it is at odds with what you really want in life. Ain…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:50 PM
1

I mean, on the one hand I want to say its a great way to learn frame, but on the other you're exposing yourself to a very real danger by continuing to work with him. Construction sites are dangerous to begin with.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:48 PM
1

1: Learn your goddamn limit. Never drink yourself to the point where you're tipsy. Enjoy alcohol for the sake of alcohol, not because you need it to cope with reality. 2: Every grown ass adult needs to know how to handle themselves in a bar fight. If you weren't already get your dumb ass to MMA classes. And always remember that the point isn't to win per say, but to ensure that you don't get your ass kicked. All winning the fight does is leave you liable to suits.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:45 PM
1

If you really need to call someone out on their bullshit the way you do it is in private, just between the two of you. It makes them less defensive and makes it seem more like you're concerned than predatory. 99% of the time you're best served to just let it roll like water off a duck. You're not holding frame, you're throwing it in the dryer to see what happens.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:40 PM
7

MGTOW is for people who have played the field and at the age of 40 or so discover that them willfully making an effort wasn't working out for them so they stop making women an interest in their life. Unless you're about to tell me you're middle aged you still need TRP.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 08:47 PM
9

Unless this can be corroborated with another person this is just a shit test. The correct answer is, 'why would I pay for something I get for free?' incidentally.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 08:55 PM
8

Mistrust assumes you trust them to begin with. I don't expect anything from anyone, least of all a complete stranger.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 03:26 AM
4

Its your choice, really. Sugarcoating TRP and softening it's language is like putting lipstick on a hungry bear. You feel threatened so you conceptually take women down a peg. TRP is just realistic about everything. Being naive about what women really want is an invitation to get hurt. Many people in TRP know that first hand- hence the rough language.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 01:05 AM
4

Women wear their husbands.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:59 AM
0

What should you do? 1: Stop fucking your ex. Move the fuck on unless you enjoy being treated like a man slut. 2: Lay out a career. It can involve a plan B and a plan C, but part of TRP is learning how to maximize your later-life value as much as chasing pussy today. The easiest way of doing this is building a career that affords you a significant degree of financial security. Chad doesn't work retail and his aspiration is not to become the store manager so that he can proceed to work 60+ hour wo…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:58 AM
3

There is always a pecking order. The guy who demands to be at the top of the totem pole 24/7 is a pain in the ass- at best exhausting- to be around. You do not improve your status by being more sociable- although being charismatic is important for it's own sake- you gain status by doing. Even the most alpha male has some subject where they are the student and someone else is the teacher.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:57 AM
1

MGTOW is what you do when you hit 40 and you're tired of playing the dating game and chasing after women. If you haven't played the field, and then adopt MGTOW the term for you is, 'coward' unless you're about to tell me you became a priest or a monk or something.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 03:00 AM
8

How do I do what I actually want TO DO in life? How do I found out what I want?? You don't. It finds you. If you keep trying new things you will eventually find something that clicks and actually pays for itself.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 02:54 AM
3

16 is high(ish) for the western world. And the eastern one too. You have to balance things- on the one hand it makes sense to criminalize the act when you consider, say, the 35 year old sport coach fucking their 16 year old athlete. That's gross, that's beyond what is even acceptable in the sleazy Quagmire sense. Yet at the same time by legislating the idea that teenagers are too dumb to think for themselves you have them become adult children. Kids don't grow up if they're not forced to account…
/r/askTRP30/08/17 02:52 AM
2

More or less. Telling your friends when they're being cheated on is a great way to test what they actually think of you too.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 12:19 AM
17

Video games are fine- everyone needs a hobby that lets them unwind- but there's a few things to be aware of. 1: Video games will still be there in 30 years. 2: Your health wont. 3: Don't play video games that are addictive by design. No DOTA, no League of Legends, no MMORPG's. Unless you're with friends you should never play a game that won't let you pause, or punishes you for quitting the game.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 06:41 PM
2

It'd be one thing if she was the one initiating and he'd been hitting the bottle pretty hard. It's something else when he's actively predating on women he knows are dating you. Not eating where you shit applies to friendship as much as work.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 12:53 AM
2

Flakes once for a valid reason- I say work is always fair game, everyone needs to make money- and they get a second chance. Reschedule for a day when she doesn't have work.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 12:50 AM
2

Depends on the nature of the laws you intend to break. You break the law when you murder someone, you do time. You pay a fine when you're a corporation and you get lazy with, say, environmental standards.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 12:48 AM
1

Getting to around 12% and maintaining it isn't that life consuming. Oh, it can be. I've seen the far end of food addictions where someone completely lets themselves go to the point that they can't even do common exercises like push ups because the pressure from their fat is forcing the air out of their lungs, but I've also seen the anorexic woman who would literally line up her meal- peas, to be specific- and count exactly how many she was eating. She'd stop at about fifty?
/r/askTRP04/08/17 12:38 AM
1

Fuck running. To elaborate, cardio is smart. Running is not. Particularly for the obese. Taking people who clearly do not have any interest in restraint, pacing or self control and putting them on an exercise regiment where if they lack these things they can give themselves a heart attack quite easily is not wise. Plus, running is hard on your joints to begin with. Throw 100, 200 extra pounds on that chassis and you have a recipe for all kinds of problems. If you want to lose weight, the place t…
/r/askTRP19/07/17 08:25 PM
4

I need advice on how I don't let this consume me and how I can instead use it to get better. 1: You don't need to get jacked. A lot of people don't understand that it's really not in the cards for them, and think that by simply trying hard enough they'll get what they want. That ain't life, and the damage they do to themselves in this pursuit can end up fucking them over worse than if they just had the body of a couch potato. You don't need to look like you stepped off the set of a photo shoot- …
/r/askTRP19/07/17 08:16 PM
1

How badly do you need the job? What're the chances you'll be working in that field in 5 years? If the job's just a pay check your dignity in a sack is still only worth an empty sack. In some cases your boss will actually respect you more for standing up to him. In others it's better to be fired for a moment of catharsis than it is for being fired because you did your job.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 07:59 PM
2

I wouldn't be that wrapped up in appearances. I can have entire bookshelves of books, or I can have a single tablet. Unless you're actually old no one is going to think you're cultured.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 05:46 PM
2

Gym, no cardio only, weights are a must (4-6 times a week, 30-90 minutes a day), most preferably before your day starts You don't need to do weight training- some people simply can't, and for others it is just unwise- but you need to do something physical. If it's not weight training it's something like swimming. You don't need to look like you just stepped off the set to a photo shoot but you do need to look like you're in shape, rather than being a shape. Plus, you do want some cardio. Meditat…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 05:45 PM
1

You tell them because you would want someone else to tell you in that situation. You trust that they're actually friends and will appreciate, if begrudgingly, that you treated them like adults when no one else would. And if they take you out of their lives, they did you a favor anyways.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 05:28 PM
6

I will add that it helps to know what states are good and terrible to be married in. Unless something has changed, as far as I am aware the most fair state in this regard is Nevada. States like Colorado- lifetime alimony for any marriage lasting more than 20 years, plus the 40/50 award- and New York- they don't have no-fault divorces which means you get to waste time (lawyers charge by the hour) convincing a judge that you should really-really-really be divorced- not so much.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 06:33 AM
19

1: Many states have 'equitable' standards for divorce proceedings. Even the most air tight prenup can't contest this either; if she's been out of the labor force for over a decade she's entitled to something like her quality of life she's enjoyed during it. 2: A prenup that is deemed too aggressive gets thrown out, and it looks bad for you.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 06:29 AM
3

Honestly it really is just a question of doing it, and trying different methods till you find something that sticks.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 04:15 AM
1

If you're in peak physical condition, you're not homeless, and your testosterone isn't fucked up the only things that can be going wrong for you surround your personality. Either you're a complete wacko- writing posts that read like something I'd see on 4chan and using bold text to indicate emphasis tells me that you are exceptionally high strung- or you are impressively awful at picking up women because hundreds of thousands of men with no beard get laid every day.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:18 AM
1

You don't need to know people, but knowing people and getting those recommendations saves your time and money. If you don't know people the only jobs you will ever be trusted with either involve someone watching you every hour you're on the job, or involve little or no practical responsibility. No one's going to pay you peanuts for either of those kinds of jobs. If you do your job and perform well, it'll probably lead to something, but it'd take longer than if you just had an in with someone.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 05:29 AM
3

So in what ways does life get easier? You're not worrying about your predisposition to vascular diseases. Or at least, not as much. You don't sweat like a pig when it's 75 degrees out because your body doesn't have twice the insulation it needs. You can walk a mile and not feel like you need to sit down. Two flights of stairs wont wind you. You save money on health costs. You save money on food because you learned how to cook your own. You don't smell as bad because there's less surface area on …
/r/askTRP26/05/17 05:24 AM
3

If I'm a broke-ass artist and I marry a girl with her own house and loads of money. Could I take half? It would depend largely on what state you live in and the quality of your lawyers. Some states hold divorces to the standard of what the courts feel is equitable. So if you marry into money and divorce a year later, it isn't equitable for them to give you half the shared wealth because you were a starving artist. Similarly though, were you a starving artist, married into money, became a stay-at…
/r/askTRP26/05/17 12:09 AM
8

What I would ask of ATRP is how did you deal with similar situations? Grieve. Check with his family, make sure they're OK. You're allowed to be sad, your best friend just killed himself. There is no big boy pants to put on here, there's no reason for anyone to tell you to not be a leaky faucet. Life won't wait for me to deal with this pain... He made his choices, but you still have your own life to live. Again, you get to grieve. Take a month off or something, try and get some closure. Was there…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 04:37 PM
2

Dude. You're ridiculous.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 04:04 PM
3

I thought this sounded oddly familiar. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePill/comments/6d668b/makes_me_fucking_cringe_when_rtrp_tries_to_act/ https://www.reddit.com/r/beards/comments/6d5ms8/leg_hair_transplant_to_facial_hair/ https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6d5jm8/what_to_do_if_genetically_i_cannot_grow_a_beard/ https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6d2ai4/how_to_fix_a_long_feminine_baby_face/ Four topics in the span of 12 hours. Your problem isn't a lack of facial hair. If I had to sta…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 02:52 AM
2

Faith can be powerful when it doesn't wrap around and fuck you in the ass for holding it. The stereotypical white knight acts as they do because they've been raised a certain way, and the notion that such a way was wrong has never properly blown up in their face. There's just enough women who will give them just enough treats down the chute that they'll keep pushing the button. Similarly there isn't nearly enough women who will tell them to fuck off and let them make their own mistakes and that …
/r/askTRP25/05/17 02:35 AM
2

I've seen all of this- perhaps on a worse scale- before. Your parents can't dictate how you live your life anymore, and frankly it's in poor form for them to try. They can't take responsibility for you anymore and there is going to be a day- maybe soon, maybe in 30 years- where they're dead. You will still have a life to live past that point. If they can't accept this, they have problems they need to sort out.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 02:26 AM
1

No, that is an apt description of what the federal government does to your pay check.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 09:52 PM
3

You'll find white knights anywhere.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 08:41 PM
3

State income tax. The fed's still dry humping your paycheck.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 08:40 PM
1

Really comes down to pay relative to the cost of living. You could double my pay and fail to convince me to move to some places because of how obnoxious the housing market is. Broadly I'd avoid living in the middle of an urban center like LA, Chicago, Portland, Seattle, San Francisco, etc, but even then you can usually find a place that's nice to live in about an hour out.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 08:40 PM
1

Well, bulking and cutting cycles are supposed to be something you fiddle around with till you figure out what duration works for you. I'd say starting with 6 month cycles of bulking and cutting would be a good place to start. More broadly, the answer to your question is, 'yes.' You can't really build muscle without consuming a caloric surplus. Trying to intentionally build large amounts of muscle on a low calorie diet is a recipe for disaster, and at the bare minimum- the most likely outcome- yo…
/r/askTRP24/05/17 08:25 PM
1

However, is getting fatter normal? Given I have a thin build, should I stop once the "fat" gets noticeable? Bulking is supposed to be cyclical. How many months have you been doing this?
/r/askTRP24/05/17 05:23 PM
2

I ratted on him for the stuff he said about the bosses and about the fact he acted like a bully to certain people. He got fired eventually. You're not ratting on someone when they're introducing non-productive elements to a workplace environment. There is no world in which gossiping is beneficial to the day-to-day work flow of a company. If his activities ended with someone getting fired, the company would be liable, and in this litigious society you can bet your ass the company would be getting…
/r/askTRP24/05/17 05:21 PM
2

How do I get my parents to see things from my point of view? I feel even more of an outsider than I did before with their current bombardment of emotions. You don't. They will either come around, or they don't see you as an adult. The tricky part about dealing with family is learning to accept that sometimes they really are just bad fruit you need to cut from the tree. Sometimes the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb, as it goes. At best your parents are struggling to ac…
/r/askTRP24/05/17 05:12 PM
1

Hedonism says the purpose of life is to find pleasure. It's inherently nihilistic. I believe this to be true. Hedonism is complicated. Your average teen or 20-something is going to read it and think it's great because it arms them with moral justification for getting dead drunk every weekend and fucking chicks- or getting fucked- every night of the week. Any real approach to hedonism, however, understands the concept of diminishing returns. Apples don't taste sweet when you live on candy, as it …
/r/askTRP24/05/17 04:59 PM
3

Considering that I've seen fat slobs with semi-attractive girlfriends, it really is just you. People can figure out fairly quickly if someone is just a bundle of raw nerves. And yeah, if you're convinced you're a normie you should probably avoid writing posts that read like something people on /r9k/ would write.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 04:54 PM
2

First, everyone should read Catcher in the Rye. Always have the ability to lighten up and separate ideals from reality. I would like to know some red pill movies, shows, series to watch. Fight Club is a great litmus test. Both the book and the movie are interesting not because of the messages they present but instead what people think the movie and the book are about. Some people- per Chuck Palahniuk- thought that the book was about a guy struggling with coming out of the closet. Some think it's…
/r/askTRP24/05/17 04:48 PM
1

Don't fuck immature women. If she's an adult, behaves like an adult and wants to engage in adult things, she's fair game, but if she's not she has some formative moments she's been fraudulently denied- by her parents, school, friends, whatever- and will probably have to learn the hard way. But there's no reason for you to be the one who puts up with that. If everyone involved is an adult, age is just a number. People bitching about 40 year olds picking up 20-somethings are more jealous than anyt…
/r/askTRP18/05/17 06:30 AM
1

If you want to do it, you will do it. You made a correct assessment that most homework in high school constitutes busy work that, without it being mandatory, a good half of your class would have failed. The only downside to this is that you most likely did not take AP courses and did not get a shiny 4.0 GPA, the lack of which means that you lost out on a ton of free money between being able to graduate sooner and qualifying for grants and scholarships in college. The difference between the kid w…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 06:56 PM
1

Like any other men, Asian men will peak depending on what they do for themselves. There's a curve between doing absolutely nothing and destroying yourself and burning the candle at both ends to the point that you've destroyed yourself anyways. As long as you don't lose genetic lotteries and take the act of self improvement seriously- which is to say you don't ignore your health and similarly don't overwork yourself to the point that it's destroyed anyways- you will age well. In those cases? You'…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:32 AM
1

Have a general impression of what you eat, talk to your doctor. You could have anything from a mild food allergy- lactose intolerance for example- to a reasonable mild form of anything from GI obstruction to Crohn's or Celiac's.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:08 AM
4

I mean, I'd chase women with less baggage, but as long as it's not something you'd take a date to do, and not something her LTR would be a better pick for, it's plausible. Don't claim you're fixing the mechanic's girlfriend's car. Don't claim you're fixing her computer when he works in IT. It'd help if you had common hobbies- I don't know, do you knit? Gym? Wine tasting?- that would justify an hour or more away from the house that doesn't involve work or commutes.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:05 AM
2

Statistical anomalies exist. Get enough alcohol flowing and anyone will feel entitled to butting into a private conversation being held between complete strangers. Ended up with us trying to leave because of last call and her friend throw a cigarette at me which landed on my shoulder to which I said wow, real mature and kept trying to walk away, as my friend walked out she poured beer on my friend, and then the feminist bitch ran up and grabbing me trying to push me out of the bar, to which I as…
/r/askTRP14/05/17 03:32 AM
8

Unless you look like a horse stomped on your face and then took a fat dump on it, or you lose some genetic lottery, generally, yes. None of this is unconditional, of course. Plenty of men completely destroy their market value because they get complacent. They don't grow, they don't build their resume, they're not chasing logical career advancements, they don't work out as much- or work out too much failing to appreciate that they're on the other side of that curve now with age- they don't pay mu…
/r/askTRP14/05/17 03:22 AM
2

Anything ranging from putting a bun in her oven to moving in with her to getting married. Either that or she was just fishing for you to give her more attention. It's hard to know what I'm basing everything off second hand knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 03:11 AM
1

She's gone dude. If you want to stomach the abuse, be my guest. Maybe she'll turn over a new leaf. Probably wont. People buy power ball tickets too.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 06:42 AM
2

She was expecting you to escalate further, you didn't, she decided to look for greener pastures. Either that or she was just looking for an emotional tampon for herself.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 06:29 AM
2

So the question is, how to maintain common decency while still slaying strange? Become the diplomat. A diplomat is a man who always remembers a woman's birthday, but never their age. Being ahead of the curve doesn't mean beating everyone around you down, it means striving for the best in your own life. When done right, people will actually flock to you and help you. Treat everyone around you poorly and karma will get you. And you're right, it's not easy. If being fit was easy, no one would be ob…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 06:27 AM
3

Did I royally fuck up? Yes. Never do anything serious with a woman who's just broken up with someone they've been dating for 3 and a half years. Personally I wouldn't want anything to do with someone- and this applies to either sex- who doesn't grasp what the problem with mixing anti-depressants with alcohol is. At best they're irresponsible and at worst they're an emotional cannon ball that doesn't give a fuck about what they do to people around them. You don't deserve to have to deal with some…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 06:21 AM
1

How does one stop her from texting me? You don't. Give replies to questions of actual substance, but otherwise only text to coordinate.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 06:16 AM
1

I worked out, but with less intensity. I rationalized "Well, I don't want to hurt myself or be in pain as I get older". This isn't actually bad advice. We have an entire generation worth of idiot cross fit people being trained in fly by night crossfit boxes that are going to make chiropractors filthy rich in 20 odd years. I traveled less because it was winter, cold, and I "should really focus on work". The only times to not travel usually revolve around holidays and the broader travel season. In…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:19 PM
1

Honesty is great, when people phrase it as being 'blunt' they're usually implying they want to get away with having no social filters. Being honest is great, knowing when to be diplomatic is better. Play your cards right, and some women will fuck you. Play your cards right and be honest about your intentions and some women who aren't looking to get taken for a ride will be more open to it. Play your cards right and be a dick about it and you'll probably be paying someone for a handy.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 03:38 AM
1

The first rule of picking up women is that some you're going to lose. A lot. Even a paragon of TRP is going to hit a brick wall with someone eventually because they're not chaste enough or too chaste or too attractive or not attractive enough. Since she mentioned BDSM and 50 Shades Darker.... A: It's possible she was specifically using that to fish to see how much of a pervert you are. Leading comments are a very common shit test and it's not always clear they're a shit test till you've already …
/r/askTRP17/04/17 05:31 AM
2

If she's become hysterical to the point of putting someone in serious risk, sure.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 05:11 AM
4

Nope.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 05:08 AM
1

You don't, you move on.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 05:01 AM
1

what would you do fellow redpillers? A friend who will stick through you through thick and thin is a rare, precious thing. But by odds, 9/10ths of your friends are people who you mutually co-occupy space with and little more, and at worst a boat anchor keeping you from what's important in life because what they really want is an emotional tampon for themselves. If they'd abandon you the minute they got a girlfriend they either have awful taste in women- which isn't a deal breaker up to the point…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 05:01 AM
2

I like the idea of being Machiavellian, but because it is decidedly unnatural for me most of the time, will trying to charm people be reaction-seeking? Almost no one is born that way. There's such a thing as being bad at it, but in broad language there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to learn how to leave a favorable impression on most people you meet, even if most of them you'd probably never see again and wouldn't be bothered to never think of either.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:55 AM
2

Women do not want to be single mothers, even in the west, but moreso in more traditional/conservative countries. Everyone who's been in a relationship at some point is totally convinced of their ability to raise a kid alone. There are a lot of single mothers who are absolutely convinced of their ability to do it too. I don't know about the UK, but in the US there is a lot of oxygen wasted lionizing the single mother.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 01:35 AM
1

I want to be a therapist which only pays 48k a year on average. Some websites say more (80k), some say less (25k). There's no such thing as bad pay. Five bucks an hour is fantastic if you live in some parts of south east Asia. 48 grand might not sound like good money, but if the job's cushy, or it's got a hell of a lot of soft benefits- like a good boss- I'd hold it down even if you could make better money. Plus, if you live in a place that hasn't jumped the shark in land values- somewhere like …
/r/askTRP22/01/17 01:31 AM
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Tech field has tons of jobs that are effectively Red Pill branded. If you live in the right parts of the US, and have either the degree and experience, or just the experience, you can work freelance as a programmer or a coder and effectively pick your own hours. Ones where there aren't generally female leaders, jobs that improve your body and don't soak 100% of your free time leaving you with time to lift or spend more time having sex? People working 60 hours a week still find the time to lift a…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 01:26 AM
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I'm impressed anyone can stay sane holding down a call center job.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 01:23 AM
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At this point you could write a book, but the quick answer? The enthusiast press surrounding video games- not to be confused with journalists; people who are professionally trained journalists carrying journalism degrees rarely work in the games press; they can actually get better pay elsewhere- has been shitting on their consumer base for years. A seemingly unrelated event involving an ex boyfriend making a tell-all blog talking about his manipulative, abusive ex girlfriend, an indie game dev- …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 01:17 AM
1

As with any addiction if you are not planning how to replace that void your life now has, you're planning to become an addict again. Maybe not to the same thing, but to something. Many people who get their stomachs stapled as a last-ditch to make them lose weight, for example, fall into alcoholism because the underlying issue was never addressed. Nofap is like virginity. The perception is worse than the reality, the more self conscious you are about it, the worse it becomes. Nine times out of te…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 07:10 PM
1

Skin disease, premature greying/thinning hair, below average D size, don't have masculine facial features/cheekbones, etc. Just bad genetics overall. What skin disease specifically? Are we talking about small pox and leprosy?
/r/askTRP02/01/17 12:29 AM
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Instead you can find hobbies or use Internet to run away from the shit you don't want to do. Part of being an adult is learning that no one knows what the fuck being an adult actually means, but the other part is learning self actualization. You wouldn't be here if you thought your life was perfect and the direction it was headed was A-OK.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 12:26 AM
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And it isn't productive. There's a difference between ~10,15 minutes a day to touch base with people and spending..... 4 hours a day on it. You should absolutely use social media if the setting suits it- you almost need it if you want to meet people in any urban city- but it should never be treated as a surrogate for actual interaction. A ton of conversational hooks can be picked up from simply keeping an eye on their facebook / instagram / whatever, even if a lot of it is just protracted narcis…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 05:32 AM
2

Could someone explain this to me? You get treated to a highlight reel of another person's relationship. Spanish men- and Italians for that matter- have a reputation for talking a tall game and booking it as soon as marriage discussion or pregnancy comes up. This also crops up in a lot of central and Southern American countries. If you don't have money the best way to get access to women is to market yourself better. It's not on accident that the stereotype for a Spaniard man is someone who's fai…
/r/askTRP27/12/16 05:27 AM
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"Well, you don't seem like it.", in front of everyone. It rendered me a as a needy virgin, even though i am not. I felt somewhat crushed. I said NOTHING in return. Being perceived as a virgin is worse than actually being a virgin. Unless you have some witty comeback like, 'oh good, so you did remember last night' avoid sex as a group topic. Women don't want to hear about your sexual escapades kind of like how you don't want to hear theirs. You didn't lose frame, she took it from you and fucked y…
/r/askTRP27/12/16 05:23 AM
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What kind of fucked up shit is this? You were never challenged growing up and need someone to more or less impress order on your life. You lack discipline and because of that you lean on motivation which is a fickle mistress who will come and go at a moment's notice. Life is full of shit you don't want to do, but choose to do anyways. Buck up or get used to being an unremarkable blob of a person.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 05:14 AM
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It's also worth remembering that Durden is a sociopathic entity created by the split personality of the narrator. It's only self improvement if you don't think you deserve to be there. It's only self improvement if it isn't means to an end. And yeah, this is Brad Pit telling you that self improvement is masturbation.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 12:39 AM
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My question is, how do you begin implementing TRP principles in an LTR if you started the relationship acting like a complete Beta? There's no special rules here. You do what is recommended. Get used to the idea that if your girlfriend doesn't like the changes, that she doesn't actually like or respect you. She picked you out like how humans picking out dogs settle on the cute, low maintenance toy dog like a pug.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 12:54 AM
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Marketing is important but being blunt and being honest usually works best. I mean, women won't go for the, 'ay gurl u want sum fuk?' approach but if you're honest that you're looking for sex with no strings attached- the big thing to remember is that while women want sex they despise the idea of being judged for it- you're remotely competent and you give a fuck about your physical appearance, you should be good to go. If you look decent, you're not a lardass and you're not straight up bullshitt…
/r/askTRP03/12/16 12:52 AM
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This is why stoicism- although you can find much of what's in stoicism elsewhere including Buddhism- is recommended. People want confident partners. Women who don't want competent partners should in itself send up red flags as she's looking for someone who's not really going to push her own boundaries. She's shopping for a boyfriend like a person shops for a pet dog. If you can't do something dumb- dumping a cup of hot coffee on your pants, land ass-first in a puddle, mispronounce a foreign word…
/r/askTRP01/12/16 11:44 PM
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Do you guys know how to get the control back? Cut the bad fruit from the tree. I tend to avoid fucking women who are already in a relationship- and for her to go back to her boyfriend really sends up red flags. You're just sex for her. Her boyfriend is her emotional tampon. She can get sex from other people but finding someone who can be that emotional tampon? That takes some effort. I had her wrapped around my finger and now I feel the tables have turned. People who haven't been in a relationsh…
/r/askTRP01/12/16 11:37 PM
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I think she is a little embarrassed by it. Having to work for your younger brother could be seen as humiliating. If the money was good I'd sure as shit work with family but I can see why some people would treat it as a knock to their ego.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 11:26 PM
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Point still remains even if she initiated it. A complete flake is one thing but she if she's still driving a vocal interest with you there's no reason to not at least humor her.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 11:24 PM
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Family will absolutely drag you down if they know they can. If I had to guess your sister feels entitled to something because things are going well for you. Depending on what your relationship is you could either drop her like a rock if she doesn't drop the attitude, or I'd recommend you try and steer her towards something that is either productive or at least fulfilling. House wives have plenty they can do- especially with the internet today- but if they don't have the initiative they can stew …
/r/askTRP28/11/16 08:11 PM
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Not drinking alcohol is stupid. I get wanting little to do with it because of a bad family history, but you are your own person. Now, granted, making an event out of drinking yourself under the table is worse, but alcohol on it's own isn't really that big a deal. If it's offered, drink a beer. A beer. Just one. Know of a few good cocktails you can sit through that aren't girly shit. Gin and tonic is pretty straight forward. If you like ginger beer, you'll like a Moscow Mule. And yeah, for the ne…
/r/askTRP28/11/16 08:07 PM
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Should I even waste the effort, or try again? Treat is as a clean slate. If she just ignored you that'd be one thing but she bothered to both get back in touch and attempt at making new plans with you. Plus it's not exactly cold feet to not meet you in 45 minutes on a cold invite like that.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 07:57 PM
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I wouldn't flake, even with a plate. If I say I'm going to show up, I'm showing up. If you feel like flaking will draw out whether or not she's into you, you got much more base line problems going on here. If you feel like your commitments with Sally Saturday and Selena Sunday are making you sacrifice too much of your own time you need to stop making those plans with Sally and Selena. And yeah, if it's the platiest of plates I'd have to ask why you're even doing anything with her if you think no…
/r/askTRP28/11/16 07:54 PM
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Social media is useful if you're connecting with people and communicating. Everything we see today- Facebook, snapchat, etc- are all just extensions of what used to be called instant messengers. It's a problem when you start using is all as a surrogate for actual human interaction.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 12:11 AM
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Virtue signalling is a pattern of behavior- things you say, pictures you've taken ect- where one demonstrates their virtue to the masses even though in reality what they're actually doing amounts to a fart in the wind. A really obvious example of this right now is all the cities and universities all saying they will shelter undocumented immigrants, which is really a nice way of saying that they will go from doing nothing on the matter to doing nothing on the matter. People living vicariously thr…
/r/askTRP28/11/16 12:09 AM
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Never gotten laid. Being an adult virgin is less baggage than the stigma you place on yourself for being one. Your shadow isn't going anywhere but if people keep watching you look over your shoulder they're going to think there's a problem. You're a virgin. Big fucking deal. If you're really that arsed, go pay for a prostitute. Hell, if you got the money, go to Nevada, buy a professional. You're probably going to have a more memorable first time than most people. If you don't want to do that, yo…
/r/askTRP27/11/16 10:24 PM
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how would others see me? Nothing changes. If they liked you over him nothing changes, if they liked him over you, nothing changes. Really comes down to how much of the picture someone had. For HR to have fired him after a transfer it couldn't have been just you.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 10:13 PM
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Is it just the physical thing aka sex? I don't think girls act like that. It needs to be something stronger. Something emotional. I don't see hypergamy as the root as a guy who does not commit is out of relationship game. Do they just feel pleased in pleasing a man? How can that yield satisfaction? When you're an upper teen, 20-something, who's never been taught the value of loyalty the ability to function like a Bob Dylan style Rolling Stone is rich. Belonging to nothing means you sacrifice not…
/r/askTRP27/11/16 10:08 PM
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I feel they are threatened by me and I no longer fit in the 'clique'. I think the academic phrase is in-group preference? You're no longer considered part of the group. Changes for the better force those around you to be critical of themselves and recognize their own short comings. This makes a lot of people uncomfortable. This happens all the time. I'd say they've done you a favor but if you really want to be the better man you'll start inviting them to the gym when you're going, that kind of t…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 09:59 PM
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A: Odds are starving children in Africa would either be insulted, or killed by whatever junk food you're eating. You can forget about it eating a standard American diet, but it's a normal bodily response to vomit sugary foods when you're not consistently weened on them. B: Don't waste food by planning meals better.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 01:27 AM
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If the logical conclusion of TRP for you is to become a bitter cynic, you did it wrong. TRP plays a long game with happiness by rejecting cheap thrills for long term goals that give you the kind of satisfaction that has you saying, "Why yes, I do find staring at walls to be uninteresting."
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 02:53 AM
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and yet they ended up with their muscles turning into fat because they couldn't find enough time to exercise. Muscles don't turn into fat. You get more fat relative to your muscle mass because you continue to eat at a level your body can't deal with, so all that spare energy ends up being fat while you lose muscle. It's also called, 'eating like a teenager when you're not a teenager.'
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 09:18 PM
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That is pretty normal. Focus on your studies. Socialize with people within your major- you should be making meaningful research into what you want your degree in, some really do take 4 years to get, and pinning down a major by the end of your first year if you haven't already- and worry about fucking women later. College can be a mine field if you start projecting the impression that you'd date a moose if it let you.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:18 AM
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1: Stop buying it. Flush what you have left. 2: There is no 2. Weed has been proven to diminish your willpower to do things, not your actually ability to do them. Put on your big boy pants.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:08 AM
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Most people who would fall into that category- MGTOWs- wouldn't actually call themselves the term.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 03:31 AM
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You don't stop caring, you get better at doing. Not caring is when you've hit the exact opposite end of what we aim for here- its called Nihilism and it's meant in the pejorative sense. You so entirely reject the world that you lie to yourself and put up walls, convincing yourself nothing actually matters because you'd rather walk away from it all instead of confronting anything. my family wants a warrior but they tryna keep me locked in the cage...the whole bitch ass family of fucking females t…
/r/askTRP15/10/16 03:29 AM
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Contrary, what is TheRedPill's stance on using Social Media as a platform to solely help you boost your SMV? It can't give you what you don't already have. It's useful to network with people. Don't use it for anything more or less. Why are we dismissing this tool that could potentially make us more connections and open more doors in every area of life? We're not. We recognize that it's excessive use has it becoming a shallow surrogate for actual human interaction. Boots on the ground are more us…
/r/askTRP15/10/16 03:19 AM
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We're not your doctor. It could be anything from dead skin to pimples, to whatever they call those things some people get on their dicks to STD's. Go to a doctor.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 03:17 AM
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For fuck's sake, don't lie about it. She's going to figure it out one way or another. How can I salvage this and bang her a few more times? Be honest. This isn't complicated. You were nervous, you know there's a huge stigma towards adult male virgins and you didn't want to get treated like a charity case. The real issue is that if you're going to lie to protect your ego it follows that you'll lie about a lot of things. And yeah, being blunt and honest is what you have to do. You have to embarras…
/r/askTRP15/10/16 03:15 AM
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do you think it's beta to open up? Keeping it in your head is a bad idea. It's actually worse than being an emotional pansy who needs to break out the worry beads and heads to confession every time they have a semi-personal conversation with someone. The dam always breaks. When you feel like you have something you cant share you need to rewind a bit and ask yourself how you reached that conclusion in the first place. There's a difference between not wanting to tell gram gram about your dating li…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 08:40 PM
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Acting out of my own interest here, is there any way to calibrate leading her but leaving her confidence untouched? Not really, no. It's like asking if an animal can keep it's ferocious demeanor after you've domesticated it. Yet, kind of like how many dogs that don't necessarily have utility are still fun to keep around because of their personality and behavior, you can still find a role that isn't strict leadership both fun, and even enjoyable. There are many things I'd prefer to leave to a wom…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 08:34 PM
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In college you do need to be focused on your studies so that you can have a career after college instead of a barista uniform, and it is highly unusual to maintain close contact with friends post-college, but friends are important to an extent. You don't need a stable of friends, but you do need friends. Freshman year I wouldn't worry too much, especially first term. It's all a bit artificial that early on. Make a conscious effort to meet people in your major.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:43 AM
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A: We don't hate porn. We just recognize that there's a difference between a few racy pictures and working the crank a few times a month in a dry spell because you don't want to wake up with creamed underwear, and the modern standard where its shot at you out of a cannon, appealing to any taste imaginable, and is endlessly replenished to the point that people really to yank their crank twice daily. I mean, no, the exemplars of no-fap are selling you bullshit. You're not going to walk on water be…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:39 AM
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Wtf... Am I gay? Bi? Straight? Sexual preference is a spectrum and using rigid terms is often a bad idea. As a rule of thumb if you don't feel yourself sexually attracted to, say, male body builders, or male celebrities or gay bears (think lumberjacks)- people who embody the idea of the perfect male form- you're not gay. At best what you're describing is bisexuality, though what you're describing isn't really a woman with male traits, you're just describing a woman with traits. Unless you're hit…
/r/askTRP07/09/16 03:41 AM
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Protectionism is typically bad on all fronts for an established economy, but only when comparing like economies. The US economy can be compared to the European economy in terms of culture and standards. It cannot be compared to, say, China, where workers have virtually no rights and environmental standards are all but nonexistent, and the government doesn't bat an eye about protecting blatant copyright theft. If the alternative is Chinese labor in sweat shops afforded no protections, the US shou…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 01:41 AM
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You do need to be more cautious than usual because college introduces a huge number of Ms. Perfects to the mix whom can never do any wrong, so naturally if you have sex with her and she regrets it later, you obviously raped her. Practice common sense and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 01:36 AM
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Well, league of legends is a transparent skinner's box designed to keep you playing, but in broad terms I wouldn't swear off video games. Anyone would be better served by uninstalling it even if they had no intention of dropping a gaming addiction. I just wouldn't play games that exist to keep you playing. Games exist to entertain, and unwind. League is designed to stress you out and keep you playing to recreate that one game that went perfectly for you. I mean your life already sounds like it's…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 05:56 PM
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I asked for a salary raise, and i got it. I didn't get how much i wanted but still got a big salary raise, but that didn't make me happy. It's actually pretty rare to get the raise you ask for. It's almost standard procedure for a company to give you less than you ask for. Always ask for more than you actually want, assuming you have that ability. The boy doesn't die. He grows up. Life is a constant struggle up the hill towards maturity. It's not the difference between life and death, it's the d…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 05:48 PM
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Do the thing. Get used to the idea that no one will tell you anything. Get used to the idea that your parents can be wrong. Get used to the idea that there's no more training wheels. Work out. No, you don't need to lift, you don't need to look like a body builder, but you do need something physical. Eat well. Learn how to cook. There are only three reasons to eat out- to eat out at fine dining, you're on a road trip or something and don't know what's in town, or because its 2 AM. Read. Read thin…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:29 PM
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If you feel she's LTR material, and you want an LTR, do the LTR. If not, I'd just be honest with her. Dating plates that don't want to be plates and instead want to be more don't tend to end well. It's like dating a fixer upper. These are not the easy kinds of questions and you have no idea- after having only plated her for two months- what kind of person she really is. Maybe she's legit- I've personally ridden unicorns, trust me- or maybe she's a box of rocks.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:24 PM
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If you're being prescribed a fairly potent stimulant- granted, Adderall isn't meth, but it's no cup of coffee- to treat a behavioral issue without having at least tried non-invasive means is a bit unethical. It's outright quackery to prescribe it with no sort of end game in mind. You don't prescribe people medication you're not planning for them to be off of unless there is simply no way off it. So why does this matter? Because you're being taken advantage of by adults. Plus, mood swings, anxiet…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:04 AM
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Did they ever try to do any sort of therapy? Or did they just diagnose you with ADHD and cut you a prescription? How long have you been on it? Any indication from them that you'll be off it?
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:37 PM
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Well, it's perfectly reasonable to feel a bit confused after someone who's supposed to be family beat the shit out of you for no reason. Do you not have a physical hobby? In my experience simply working myself to the point of exhaustion tends to drive the anger out when its just boiling over. Helps keep everything in perspective, remind me about how whatever I'm anally blasted about isn't too important. I am also taking an AddErall (prescribed) but it's surpassing the effect of the meds. What we…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 05:58 AM
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Oh, no, the problem is when you start bringing something absurd into the picture like this. Or that entitled attitude of, "I only deserve the absolute best because I'm a unique and beautiful little snowflake." Insecurity really doesn't have anything to do with it. I could fuck you with a bowling pin if I wanted to, doesn't mean it's a good idea. You can fuck yourself with an extra large shampoo bottle. Doesn't mean it's a good idea. The implication is that when you have toys that are thicker tha…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 05:45 AM
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As long as you're not becoming some size queen who can only get off on horse cocks carving out the inside of her anus I don't really think there's a problem with having a healthy attitude towards masturbatory toys. There's an underlying expectation that everyone masturbates at some point in their life. if you are in a LTR with a woman and there is trust between the two of you and you are open etc., are you creeped out upon finding out that she reads erotica (there's more than Fifty Shades out th…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 10:22 PM
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With thread titles such as, "i think im just gonna commit suicide? ):" I can see why they wouldn't want anything to do with you. Oh, no, let me step back. This looks like a burner account- where that's a pejorative- and it looks like you've made twelve threads in four days. If I was modding that community I'd suspect you're either spamming or trolling.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 07:46 PM
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You do hit a point where due to how much weight you put on, there's no way to recover from the physical damage done, but a simple google image search will tell you that there are success stories that end well.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 07:43 PM
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I had severe anxiety from 15-17 if that matters. You're an introvert, and you overcompensate for it by, in your words, playing cocky. Believe it or not you don't need to be the life the party. You don't need to be Don Juan. Looks are important for picking up women but even plate material don't want to give someone who comes off as either inexperienced or arrogant-without-substance the time of day. Relax. Learn to hold your breath, learn to keep your mouth shut. Someone who's quiet isn't generall…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 06:32 AM
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If it's not a point of physical record- documents, recording, video, etc- you may as well treat it as something that doesn't exist.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 05:49 PM
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Self sacrifice is a commonly held virtue by the public even though it does very little to actually improve your station in life. Never assume someone else has your best interests at heart, never assume that something you give with an implicit idea that it will be repaid will be honored.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 07:17 PM
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Even after I rented a 1-bedroom apartment on the less desirable part of town, used an assumed name, bought a junker car, bought used clothes at Good Will, took dates to a hole-in-the-wall ethnic restaurant she tracked me down via a photo she had seen of me in a trade magazine and found me via google images search! -- She then opened the next conversation with, "Why did you lie to me?" -- My answer to her was, "Because you are a GoldDigger. Looking me up proves it." I don't know what bothers me m…
/r/askTRP06/08/16 04:31 AM
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I want to know if you would consider this girl a slut, or would you wife. I think I can forgive a past with 1 guy, especially considering there was no sex involved. Your holding a land mine and asking us if we think it's dangerous. I don't know, you're the one holding it. You tell me. Virgin women who make it to adulthood could be unicorns or they could be utter ice queens. Whether or not she's a slut is hardly the only consideration for whether she's wife material, and being religious- I'm draw…
/r/askTRP06/08/16 04:25 AM
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She either shows up or she doesn't. Even if it's a hole in the wall that's easy to miss or get lost going to- in which case give better directions- you never want to follow up.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 04:13 AM
2

Same general rules still apply then, except instead of finding Japanese chicks in San Francisco you're looking at Poles in London or North Africans in Paris. Of course, Europe is a bit more dynamic than the US. Going from Munich to Berlin might not change too much, but going from London to Warsaw or Budapest would definitely change things. Made the clubs in my hometown feel like grandma gatherings. Americans do have a reputation for being....aggressive party people. Especially if you're talking …
/r/askTRP06/08/16 04:11 AM
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I have to assume they do background checks. Armed forces get choosy during peace time.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 04:06 AM
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An apprenticeship where you're working.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 04:05 AM
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However there is a chance I could get work in my old job (factory) so I could at least start earning, but I am still stuck as to where to go from there. Take the job unless the work is just unbearable. Never take a job you wouldn't be comfortable holding down for at least a year- unless the term of the job is just less- even if it's just a McJob. Otherwise without having a general idea of where you live- somewhere in Europe- it's hard to give advice. Armed forces are definitely an idea, and some…
/r/askTRP05/08/16 07:37 PM
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Bigger cities provide more opportunities. Cities on the coast and cities closer to the borders do tend to bring in more diverse offerings. If you're looking for, say, a Japanese chick you're going to have better chances in California than Maine. If you're specifically trying to pick up a Cuban chick you're probably going to want to go to Florida and not Montana. If you wanted to pick up a farmer's daughter you're probably better off looking in Nebraska than Massachusetts. Every city really has i…
/r/askTRP05/08/16 07:30 PM
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When was the last time you heard of a responsible drug user? And as I keep repeating myself, I don't really care about what you want to do. Go do it. You're not hurting anyone besides- maybe- yourself right?
/r/askTRP05/08/16 12:37 AM
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Well, no, the police don't care. MDMA is classified as an illegal substance at the moment so whether or not he feels it has a positive role in his life is of no consequence. And MDMA started life as a clinical drug.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 08:47 PM
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So with porn you are basically train you brain to expect much greater number of beautiful women that you will ever get. When your expectation won't meet reality you get sad. Everybody does. So, think about how many girls you actually need (I bet, the number is totally lower 50 a year;)) and how many of them you can get given you current situation. There's nothing wrong with having high expectations- as long as you're being honest with yourself- but the real issue is that pron doesn't even give y…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 08:04 PM
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She wants your attention, she likes the role you play in her life as a male figure- I don't know if you're fatherly to her, I don't know either of you- and dislikes that you having a girlfriend gets in the way of that.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 07:56 PM
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You don't. There really is none. You approach women. Anyone who isn't bolted to the floor, drunk, too young, or unconscious. If you can pick them up, congratulations. If not, analyze your approach and see what went wrong. When in doubt, consult.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 07:53 PM
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If you can be a responsible user- you magnificent unicorn, you- there's no reason to not continue. That's the end of the conversation. If you really feel MDMA has a positive role in your life and that it enhances it, that's really all there is to it. Cops would argue differently, but that's all I can really add.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 07:51 PM
0

I hope for anyone who does this that you're right.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 07:45 PM
1

Then yes, TRP is a good idea.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 05:24 PM
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Gifts are an easy way of reminding your LTR of why they're with you and not Joe Somebody. If you're not cosigning for a loan or paying her rent, you're fine. Just remember to never spend money you'll later miss.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:58 PM
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Coffee has it's uses, but much like how no one uses tobacco responsibly to deal with stress, most people do not use coffee responsibly to deal with sleep deprivation. It becomes a habit because they never get enough sleep. Everyone at some point has a late night, everyone has an early morning, but it's become a joke in America that you're not actually awake until you've had your IV drip of coffee. FFS, even Garfield makes the joke. For folks who actually live responsibly it's use is a bit like a…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:54 PM
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If you want to weigh your life down with it, be my guest. There's only one person here who has to live with the fact that you used MDMA. Drug use typically- lets assume someone wasn't drugging you- indicates a deficiency or a coping mechanism. Tobacco is used because it's a stress reliever. Speed is a stimulant. Alcohol is a relaxant. Every recreational drug falls into one of these two categories. And you know what, you're right. One night of it won't ruin you. But you're not making it sound lik…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:50 PM
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I don't plan on stopping until I am 180lbs. You never stop. You maintain. Otherwise, not everyone can look like they'd walk off the set for a photo shoot. Get used to it. Improve your game.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:44 PM
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Get back on the bus dork. And don't live in a small town. Move as soon as it's an option.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:42 PM
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I'm 16, she's probably 17, we both go to community college which started last monday, she started this monday. she was homeschooled up until now. She is extremely shy and I'm having a hard time getting her to open up. You're dealing with a landmine. You have no idea what kind of person she is or how she will react and she's putting up strong resistance. If you're really interested in her, keep up with the idle conversation. But that's about it really.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:40 PM
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Ah.... sometimes it does. If you're stupid freshmen, yeah, sure, but when you start getting into more and more exclusive degrees- especially if you're in something like law school- it's generally a terrible idea to date within your class. Because you're stuck with them for the next 3 years.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:35 PM
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Social media, like everything else on your computer, is supposed to be means to an end. If you're using it to connect and contact people, great, that's what it's there for. It's a convenient message board style communication tool. If you're using it to seek validation and engage in narcissism....well, maybe you need to grow up a bit. Nothing wrong with it, we're all teenagers once.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:33 PM
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So you're balding. You can look good with a balding head, but I've never heard of a good looking fat guy who was balding. Otherwise, no, it's not about whether or not trp is 'worth' it. It's about whether or not you want it. If you think you can live with lying to yourself, continuing to lie to yourself, and doing it all while your quality of life quietly checks itself into the local dumpster, hey, be my guest. Because there's only one person who's ever going to live with the consequences of you…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:28 PM
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Sorry for the long text and I'm kinda worried about what will happen, so fellow TRPers, what do i do? I'm really at a loss right now. Break all contact with her. Save everything you can in terms of texts. It's a little late, but download an app that records phone conversations, record every conversation you have with her. While I'd normally say, "block her number" but you need to keep talking with her specifically so that if she tries to accuse you, you have evidence to protect yourself with. In…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 05:01 AM
1

The methodology could be better, but what's really chilling is a few specific lines. Debra Hauser, president of the US non-profit organisation Advocates for Youth said: “It is fantastic that young people have the opportunity to make informed personal decisions about their sexual health an well-being. This slight decline in sexual activity among young adults is accompanied by information from other studies that more young people also report their first sex being wanted sex.” They really think tha…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:55 AM
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The kind of women who obsess over status symbols can make for good plates- provided it's within your budget and you're being realistic- and tend to be fairly easy to pick up. As long as you stay outside of that spectrum in between them getting to be promiscuous, and them being prudes where they think you think they're a slut, you're (proverbially) golden. If it's just to get some pussy wear your income, within reason. You don't need to wear some 1000 dollar blue jeans bullshit or clothes with go…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:48 AM
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If men and women are equal why women take half of men? Why no one say no to this? Why there are "women in some mechanical engineering or shit" conferences? Why the fuck they are being worshipped as if they worth it? Comparing to men, they are more close to blood sucking leaches who intrinsically manipulates men. I'm not going to ascribe it to a particular group but there's been a vested interest for the past 40 years or so to give women an unreasonable amount of power in response to perceived de…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:14 AM
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Something this big is never going to be tied to one thing. I'm not convinced that it's a decline in average testosterone that's causing this so much as an aggregate of things that all lead to declining testosterone. It's a symptom, not a cause.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 11:40 PM
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Team hero arenas and MMORPG's feed a lot of needs that society was content to deny these people to begin with. Titles like League of Legends actually use golf psychology- having a good game in league is like hitting a perfect game; it'll happen once in a while and then if you're not really good you spend most of the year trying to recreate that magic- against the player base to keep them playing. Games like World of Warcraft give people the means to live vicariously through their character and i…
/r/askTRP03/08/16 11:37 PM
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What to do? Mix it up Don Juan. If you do the same thing every time it's going to get boring no matter what you're doing. Communicate. You're in an LTR so with sex it starts being more and more important that both parties are enjoying it. If she isn't pleased, you're not doing enough / doing the right things for her. I've considered withdrawing all affection but frankly, it seems petty and somewhat childish. Never reciprocate negative behavior in a relationship with the exact same thing. Her bei…
/r/askTRP03/08/16 08:21 PM
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It'd really come down to the situation. There's a difference between a woman who has had 5 sexual partners in 5 years and one who's had 50. There's a difference between a woman who's had 50 sexual partners, each one of whom died in a statistically improbable series of lethal events which she was in no way related to, and a woman who's had 5. Similarly a woman who's dated no one could just be an ice queen, or later turn out to be a turbo slut once you pulled the proverbial cork out of the dike, l…
/r/askTRP03/08/16 08:17 PM
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The only real choice is Trump. Because of how the election is designed while my opinions align more with the libertarian ticket, voting for them is voting for Hilary Clinton who, between her and Trump, is the worst possible candidate.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 08:13 PM
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What about being an electrician? I have a buddy that was an electrician but now is a manager in the same company. He could probably hook it up. The pay's good, but it takes an investment of time. The advantage is that once you've jumped through all the hoops you have a job that's in demand pretty much anywhere you'd want to live. Just stay the fuck out of Illinois, especially Chicago. If your friend can hook you up, I'd say go for it.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 08:09 PM
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If she says, "maybe another day" always follow it up with a, "oh, next Friday then?" type response. Sometimes she really does have other plans. Other times she's just non-confrontational and can't seem to use the word, "no."
/r/askTRP03/08/16 04:26 PM
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Jesus, you got a degree in film. 1: Move to a state that's affordable to live in. Google it. States like California are politically diverse on a geographic scale. Get out of the cities, especially LA and San Francisco, and you hit conservative territory. It's the same story with Oregon. Drive an hour out of Portland or just across the freeway in Eugene and you start seeing the Battle Flag of Northern Virginia. Will probably have to pay to go back to school (how serious are employers about degree…
/r/askTRP03/08/16 04:24 PM
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Looking at her texts it seems she wants me to absolve her guilt. Please tell me guys if it’s anything otherwise... If you're looking for an excuse to take her back, if you really do just have an Achilles Heel for her, knock yourself out. Personally I'd plate her ass. Make it clear that she went from marriage material to having been emotionally manipulative, abusive and just wasted over a year of your life playing at the idea of relationship material when she was willing to leave for some Johnny …
/r/askTRP03/08/16 04:11 PM
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Women, especially if we're removing LTR's from the picture, are not attracted to men, they're attracted to the idea of men. Some intersection between what either her father was, or was supposed to be in her mind, a set of physical attributes like height, hair style, and age, occupation, and exceedingly vague expectations for personality all converge to build the idea of what she's attract to. She's not attracted to Jimmy, she's not attracted to Jammy. She's attracted to Jimmy, the 6'1 doctor wit…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 04:29 AM
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WoW is actually ostracized within nerd communities for being too mainstream. Without knowing how much of a presence it has in your life it's hard to say how much of a problem it is. Video games aren't bad if they retain the core points of why you engage in a hobby- they help you unwind, relax, and have fun- but past that point, where you can somehow justify 4 uninterrupted hours of 'unwind and relax and fun' time then, yeah, you'd be in betaland. Whenever I do this after a long day and my girlfr…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:31 PM
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Has anyone managed to make such a woman blossom? Or is it not worth and I should just carry on spinning plates, MGTOW and focus on awesome life, because SMP is a bitch and my desire to have kids is stupid? You know what? If you want to invest the time and effort to improve her- she has to want it, remember- do it. Just don't be surprised if the male attention she gets makes her next you. The problem with inexperienced women is that you never know how they're going to react.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:27 PM
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What you're describing isn't antithetical to self help. A very real component of self help and TRP is taking a calculated arrogance on your own behalf. Of course this means butting heads against people. Of course this means being an ass sometimes. If the status quo, which for the average human involves non-confrontation, was wired to make you happy and realize your own potential, you'd never need TRP. And yet here you are.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 04:56 PM
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Women who aren't raised in an orgy of plenty- many western countries, the US, China, Japan, etc- tend to be better LTR material. If you have the money and are legitimately sick of the US, moving to a country like Vietnam and going local isn't the worst idea if you're dead set on raising kids. You just need to be aware of how immigration laws work, and you'd actually need to like the idea of being something of an expat. A country like Vietnam will absolutely let you bring money in, but it's virtu…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 04:52 PM
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Eh, I can perfectly understand a guy going after a sufficiently convincing tranny if they've had enough bad experiences with women. It's that same, "of course he's gay! Did you see the troglodyte he was married to before!?" reasoning.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 04:42 PM
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I don't dislike MGTOW in concept. It's supposed to describe someone who's played the field, made it to their late 30's, and decided that they're done chasing tail so they're going to focus on themselves. If women come to them so be it, but they're no longer making women, courting women, and aiming to get the house, have the wife, and have the 2.3 kids running around while owning an economical econobox and something in between an SUV and a minivan in the driveway a priority. In practice, MGTOW en…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 04:31 PM
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Life happens, plans have to change, but when this comes up normally the polite thing to do is to communicate with people it affects as soon as you're aware. She's not interested in you anymore, so she's dropping whatever icing she used to put on her relationship cake. Next her. Never get into LTR's with someone who's willing to flake on you.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:22 PM
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It's always a 1:1 ratio. You call her, she doesn't answer, leave a message. She texts you back. Hey, that's reasonable. I don't answer calls from numbers I don't recognize either if I'm not expecting anyone to call. That's 1:1. You can text her back once, or call her again. If she doesn't reciprocate, that's the end of it. She didn't answer but texted me back later apologizing and said that she did not know what time she got off cause her work schedule is random. This is incredibly common in ret…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:19 PM
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Could have just left it at, "he writes for the Huffington Post" to be perfectly honest.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:12 PM
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I have interest and talent in music and art but neither seem profitable also 'following your dreams' is very BP thinking. With stuff like Patreon, if you like drawing or music and it's fun for you, you should absolutely do it. On the side. As a hobby. There's nothing blue pill about making money off something as long as you can establish that there's money there. Every last band that made it big on some level only made it happen because they got filthy rich. Every last Eric Clapton or Muddy Wate…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 04:40 AM
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Wasn't suggesting you would either, but I could see some Don Juan's getting oneitice and getting butt blasted that she wont throw her life away for them and threatening to blackmail her.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:30 AM
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She flakes to mess with me, and I'm cool with that, I do it all the time as well. This really should be the end of the conversation. She's flaky, she's not reliable and she's not interested in showing you basic respect. Forget the shit tests, why are you still talking to her? If nothing else she's valuable to keep around because she will absolutely kick your ego in the nuts and you'll just thank her for it and ask her to do it again.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 03:01 AM
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Depends on what you're trying to do. Is there a scientific consensus? Is a strategic mix of the two viable? Really comes back to whether or not you're doing the exercises properly and sufficiently capitalizing on your time. Machines don't leave much room to fuck up, but they can be limited in nature if you don't incorporate other exercises into your routine, and similarly you can completely defeat the point of free weights if you don't know what the fuck you're doing.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 02:58 AM
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As long as you have no common social ties, and get used to the idea that she's absolutely going to treat you as a plate, it's fine. You always have to remember that married women who are looking to fuck someone on the side are always treating you either as an escape from a shitty married life, or because you offer something her husband simply doesn't. When that luster wears off, she'll absolutely be looking for someone else to replace you. Threatening to blackmail her can backfire if she just st…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 02:55 AM
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If you really wanted a first rule of TRP it's that people who don't want it, won't be interested in it. If you're living TRP principals out, living a good life and making a good impression on those around you, they'll come to you, not the other way around. Like I said in my own response, we're no cult. There's no bible of TRP to evangelize for. This isn't something we'd want to make easier for you.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 02:49 AM
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What led you to deciding to take them? Did you try other options first? A brief point on this, if you're getting medical help with depression or anxiety or anything else that may involve antidepressants, you should never take a prescription for it if your doctor hasn't explored methods- therapy- that doesn't involve pills. If you are being prescribed them, your doctor should provide you with a time table as well. In medicine it is highly unethical to prescribe a patient with pills knowing full w…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 11:05 PM
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I think it reduces my libido. Decreased libido is a common side effect of anti-depressants.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 11:01 PM
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Read the sidebar. Go to the main TRP page and read it's side bar. TRP isn't a cult. We don't have rules to decide if you're really TRP material. Other than to weed out no effort / low effort posts and tolling, there is no gate keeping here. Everything about TRP starts and stops with you, you can accept that society's fucking you in the ass and has the audacity to laugh about it while insisting you're super fucking privileged, or you can reject it and wake up tomorrow like nothing happened. The o…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 10:59 PM
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I use to have problems with speech when I was young. Went to speech therapy. It does help.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 10:52 PM
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The idea isn't to bring her along every time, in fact you're expecting her to say no. You're reinforcing the idea that you're expecting her to do something.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 10:51 PM
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Two of the most important skills you can learn from TRP are patience and pacing. You don't fix years and decades of damage done to yourself- at a mental level as well as a physical one- in a matter of weeks and months. If you over do it, like a kid trying to run a mile at a consistent speed having never been taught how to, you will burn out. It's good to be enthusiastic about weight loss, building muscle, ect, but if you overdo it, and fuck up you're going to discover that you do all of that rem…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 05:52 PM
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Women can be tolerable- my last year of college I was splitting an apartment with a woman, she was actually reasonably clean, paid her part of the rent, and wasn't whiny. Most, are not. Especially when you're talking about college. You're caught in their paradox where they want to show how strong and independent they are and how they don't need mommy and daddy anymore but the moment things get a little rough, they suddenly really need you to be their parent. They want you to clean up after thems…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 05:49 PM
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It's not exactly dread, but if you're working out, invite her. Keep inviting her every time. If she goes along with it, she's worth keeping. If not, not so much. There's a special kind of narcissism required to look at something you know improves your quality of life and to say, "no, stop being judgemental." when asked to do it.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 05:44 PM
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2500 calories daily is a cut for you? Otherwise, yes, inducing a caloric deficit will make your body function differently. Without knowing what your diet- micro-nutrients specifically- looks like, I'd have to say you're consuming far too many carbs relative to fat if you're consuming that much protein.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 03:30 PM
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Well, I'd hope you managed to be successful because you are clever, not because you're strong. If your heart condition is genetic, there's no shame in admitting you got shit genetics. It's the hand you were dealt at birth, many would accomplish far less and have far less to show. We're not saying you're a retard, we're saying you need to be realistic. Regardless, if your heart problem- you called it heart disease but is it something you grew up with, or was it just from a lifetime of bad habits …
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:52 AM
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I wouldn't smoke weed- especially if you don't live in a legalized state- but if you're insistent then just don't smoke yourself to the point of being incoherent. it's obvious if they suggest that, attraction + free drugs + sex are almost 100% guaranteed Never assume. Way too many women- and men- will trot out the, "I DIDN'T MEAN IT LIKE THAT DUDE!" pony as soon as they realize someone else really wanted to fuck them. I don't see it as a bad deal, but how to avoid rape accusations when drugs are…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 12:43 AM
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They are a freshman.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 12:39 AM
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What college feeds into a septic system?
/r/askTRP31/07/16 08:50 PM
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With the UVA rape hoax you had a case where a woman brought a vague story of generalities to campus rape prevention resources and was told emphatically that she'd been raped. It was later found to be the case that not only was there nothing substantive to the accusation, but that The Rolling Stone magazine who had run the article basically didn't give a fuck that they'd slandered an entire frat and subjected them to the fallout of the accusation.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 08:49 PM
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Every time I think it doesn't need to be said I find another story about someone who's now trying to explain it to a judge who doesn't care that they got sperm jacked. I can either state the obvious or watch someone get locked into an 18 year commitment with a vampire who's going to raise that kid to hate him, and about 300 grand in costs to raise that kid to 18, a lot of which I have to assume he's paying for.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 07:14 PM
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NoFap is complete cultist garbage There's an odd middle ground that makes the most sense. NoFap is nonsense and it's proponents only hurt their cause by acting like you'll walk on water if you give up masturbation and never beat the meat again, but on the other hand when we live in a world where beating it twice a goddamn day is considered a normal, if guilty pleasure, and the wider porn industry is constantly evolving to cater to increasingly specific tastes, I'm not convinced it's a bad idea. …
/r/askTRP31/07/16 07:10 PM
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1: Don't fuck drunk chicks. 2: Don't drink yourself under the table. If you don't already know your limits with alcohol, learn it at home with your parents around. I think they'd appreciate your honesty as to why you're raiding their booze. Most parents are familiar with at least one story of a kid who doesn't know their limits, drinks themselves stupid and then either ends up dead, or hospitalized with potentially permanent consequences. 3: Have a sober wingman if possible. 4: Do not bring her …
/r/askTRP31/07/16 04:32 PM
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I'm needlessly putting them on a pedestal and subconsciously think I don't deserve them. No, I think you're just concerned about rejection. Or you're unwilling to put yourself on a pedestal. Fuck yes you deserve them. All they can do is say yes or no.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 04:15 PM
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Isn't there surgery for that? Even if you discount the aesthetic issues I have to assume the decreased space in the chest cavity causes problems.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 03:16 AM
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Should I be approaching 18 year olds or is that gonna be considered creepy? It's only creepy if they're not reciprocating, and if you have no interest in women at your age, and assuming they're adults and not sheltered adult children. Once they hit 18 you really need to start looking at things other than their age. It's juvenile to fuck women who are 18 and still prioritize getting wasted every weekend. It isn't if they're mature and recognize what's going on. It's juvenile if they're telling yo…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 03:14 AM
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No matter what your goals are- unless your goal is to be a worthless piece of shit- lifting is either the most efficient means to that end, or a very useful ancillary job. That, and no matter what else is going on in my life, the iron never lies to me.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 03:08 AM
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I hear peanut butter can get you fat. Peanut butter is considered one of the better bulking foods because it's calorie dense, and has a good balance of macro nutrients- carbs, fat, and protein. As long as your macros are being kept in some semblance of balance- consuming too many carbs floods your body with insulin and when done repeatedly opens you up to diabetes later in life if you don't maintain a lifting lifestyle, consuming too much protein in excess of fat and your body will start convert…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 01:21 AM
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Would you guys recommend getting out with a medical discharge for depression or possibly an administrative seperation for failure to adapt or something worse? Long term, it looks bad on my resume and background check, but I'll never involve myself with the government or feds ever again because of this experience. Honor your word. The only thing that the degenerate masses would look down on more than a marine is one that dropped out over mental health issues. Vets are already treated as public as…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:57 AM
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Whenever I take a "selfie", my cheekbones look way too wide compared to my jaw, my eyes look red and tired and my strong blue eyes don't pop at all. Camera distance is important. Selfie sticks were invented to indulge narcissistic buttholes for a reason. Close up shots put more detail in the shots but will manipulate the field of view as well. Every last imperfection is magnified, and when it isn't a view someone typically sees- when you have a close up- it tends to hit that uncanny valley of un…
/r/askTRP30/07/16 09:12 PM
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inexpandable Something that expands, grows. What skills should I get in order to get a relatively well payed job for an 18 year old in London while being less expandable. I'd get the fuck out of London before anything else. I don't know what things are like in the UK, but if you're a student and juggling three part time jobs, you're probably not living in some sort of income adjusted housing. If I didn't have that kind of government subsidy working in my favor- no shame in tapping into them when…
/r/askTRP30/07/16 09:05 PM
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What are some good things to do on "beta" days to pull myself up out of a rut? Get back on the bus. There's really no other way to describe it. You can take a day off from doing 100% but you always need to be realistic about where you're going with this. Maybe your cage really is comfortable enough.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 06:17 PM
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But my question is this new mentality toxic in any way? I literally just tell myself "I am better than you" before a social situation and just dive in. I have been telling myself this less and less as I am actually starting to believe I am the shit that needs to be respected and listened to. A sense of self importance without any substance to back it up is at best delusional and at worst narcissistic.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 06:05 PM
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Eh, you can get pretty lazy with a slow cooker.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 04:58 AM
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You're dealing with back-to-back-to-backish generations of people who were raised to become narcissistic buttholes who never had to really struggle for anything in life. That and mainstream society is deeply cucked at this point and willing to tell itself sweet lies to avoid harsh truths. I think Maddox's video that compares the Disney version of the Little Mermaid and the historical version by Hans Christian Andersen. Everything is white washed, and everyone is dumb and happy and nothing is lea…
/r/askTRP29/07/16 11:27 PM
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Because you're cooking your own food as opposed to engaging in the vanity that is fast food- take out, whatever, if you can operate a stove you can make anything they can make in the same amount of time it takes to actually get it- you're saving money. Because you're cooking your own food, you're eating healthier- people are a lot more conscious about what they cook for themselves than what they pay someone else to make. Because you're eating healthier you feel better. Because you feel better yo…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 08:41 PM
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I've heard collagen protein helps with the loose skin, how true is that? The only meaningful solution to loose skin is plastic surgery, and even then, even with a good surgeon, there's going to be some scarring. It varies from patient to patient but when you get those 400 pound truck tires who come in and have bodies that look like roast beef carved off the slab who have 10, 20 odd pounds of loose skin that need to be removed there's no avoiding looking like you got a skin job from some horror m…
/r/askTRP29/07/16 04:19 PM
1

Define 'fattie' and define 'dryspell.' Sometimes naming your left hand Lucy and letting her have a go at the baloney pony rodeo is a bit better than going to the horror show. This won't fix your pride either, it'll just give you nightmares.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 04:07 PM
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Marriage is one thing- you can actually get out from under it relatively safe if you know how to navigate the tangled web of divorce law by state (hint: Live in Nevada if you can, don't live in New York or Colorado). Kids complicate it.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 05:09 AM
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If it's not strictly for making money- or, say, education- screen time always needs to have an end to it. If it isn't the relax and unwind or simply kill time, I wouldn't do it. 9 PM and you're unwinding alone? Yeah, video games won't hurt. 9 AM and you've done your morning routine? Maybe not. Screens are nice because they let us be productive- even if it's plodding away at a game on your phone as opposed to doing nothing while you wait for the train- but it can also become a boat anchor draggin…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 05:02 AM
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There are some other factors to putting on weight- sleep deprivation and food additives- along with general exposure to modern day pollutants- have both been implicated in obesity- but yes, you get your abs in the kitchen. All the exercise in the world wont help you if your calorie intake isn't letting you dip below about 10% body fat necessary to make the ab muscles visible. As long as you're being realistic- and honest- about your intake of junk food you should be fine. A bowl here and there d…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 09:36 PM
1

In terms of cost / benefits, no. If you have to ask, if you have to be told, the answer's always no. Are there women who can do the red pill alpha game? Absolutely. Are they rare? Yes. If it were common that women made for good friends, we wouldn't be having this conversation.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:06 PM
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You need to stop surrounding yourself with people who are more interested in dragging you back into the bucket than seeing you succeed- and yes, this absolutely can include family. If your friends treat a conversation as a reason to talk about everything going wrong in another person's life, find new friends. Otherwise, have you taken a vacation recently? Sometimes a week of doing nothing to unwind is necessary.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:04 PM
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And similarly I've seen far too many people who exaggerate the extent to which a woman is rejecting them. If you have to ask, I'm going to tell you no every time.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:02 PM
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Never fight bureaucracy, never leave the impression that when left the opportunity, you'll do HR's job for them. Never do anything that would give HR a reason to pay attention to you. You will save yourself hours of stress and time wasted in F.U.N. brand meetings by keeping your head down and focusing on doing your job to the letter. If there's one thing I've learned in my time at my current job it's that HR can fuck up spectacularly and never get fired for it as long as they're not breaking any…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 03:52 AM
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Feminism empowerment happened in China during communism and cultural revolution. women hold up 50% of the sky Mao would say. As China liberalized its market to be more capitalist, those old behaviors and attitudes still remain. Women don't know their place. This type of incident at the zoo would never happen in Japan. China- Japan for that matter- has some pretty anti-feminist stances. Women who don't have kids are mocked by mainstream media. It wouldn't happen in Japan if only because while the…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 03:41 AM
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When you don't feel like a deer caught in the headlights. Or, you know, when you feel nothing. You approached, you initiated, she didn't want it. It's no different than offering someone tea and them saying they're fine, they don't want any.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 03:34 AM
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Whatever you say, champ.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 01:21 AM
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She doesn't strike me as LTR material. As long as everyone is being perfectly honest about what they're getting out of the relationship, you're fine. The flip side of the coin is that I am almost certain I am her safe pick, her nice Beta she wants for LTR. I am pretty certain that LTR is going to be a disaster with her. This is a very reasonable assumption.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 01:21 AM
1

I won't be able to game at all until I go back to school. You can game right now. I've worked on my mindset and I think I can handle rejection. No you can't. If you make enough of an issue to even bring it up, you're still feeling that sting. It's fine, but until you get to the point where a woman can virtually shit her pants over the idea that you'd even conceive of breathing the air she breathes, and you merely shrug and find someone else to talk to, you're not 'handling' it. What did the earl…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 01:17 AM
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No means no. Too much can go wrong from being overly assertive and unless you knew for a fact she specifically has a fetish that involves rough sex where she's resisting you- hey, some people are into that, I don't judge- if she doesn't want it, she doesn't want it. Sex tends to be shit when one party isn't terribly interested- incidentally, this cuts both ways. If you don't want it but go through the motions she's sure as shit noticing it- in it. Do what you want, just don't be butt bothered th…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 01:06 AM
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Personally wouldn't have the patience to deal with someone like that. The only way to make a narcissist sexually attracted to you is to represent something they can't have that interests them. Problem with a narcissist though? You never know how they'll deal with crisis.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 07:21 PM
2

What should I say? I am not giving you a script. This is something you need to figure out on your own. If you really think she's LTR material and you want to improve the bedroom situation that's something you'd actually be doing with her. You have to own this shit, I can't do it for you. Just always keep it in your head that you're not doing this- not completely at any rate- for yourself. If she's not enjoying sex, you're not enjoying it either. But I don't know her, and I don't know you and I w…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:38 PM
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You sure you don't have a cuckoldry fetish? Or do you just have a strong sense of inadequacy? I don't think the problem- just based on what you're writing- is hypothetical women dating hypothetical black men, I think the problem's with you. You're afraid- nervous, something- that someone else could provide something you couldn't hope to provide. Oh, and this? First off, I want to clearly state that I am not racist. Many of my good friends are black guys. Never preface a conversation that involve…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:33 PM
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Escalate. If you're not having sex, and you want to have sex, always escalate. If she says no, she says no. If she says yes, that's an invitation to bring up the fact that she's a dead fish in bead. If you like her, and she's willing to fuck you, there's no reason to try and bring an element of fun into the bedroom. Sex is good, but you don't get great sex unless both parties are enjoying it. Dead fish don't leave anyone with the impression they're having fun. Dunno about you, but dead fish are …
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:28 PM
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Lifting is recommended because it gives the best benefits, can be done anywhere and can be done on a near-destitute budget. People have made weights with a piece of rebar and some concrete. The point isn't to lift but to get in shape. If hiking is your thing, that's fine. If swimming is your thing, that's fine. If you want to power lift and look like you wrestle bears and punch trees for the logging company for a living, that's fine too. The problem isn't whether or not you lift, it's whether or…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:19 PM
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Ooh dead fish syndrome. Was there a question in all of this?
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:11 PM
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I'd discourage taking out student loans, especially when you're just starting out. It may be wiser to start with a trade just because of your life situation. If you do intend to go to college, carpet bomb the scholarship market with applications. Write the shit out of essays for them. Anything you can qualify for- and everything that doesn't explicitly state you can't apply for it- you should apply to. Get every last penny of free money you can manage. If you're getting A's there should be tons …
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:04 PM
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If you want a degree in finance there are actually better choices than one specifically in finance. I've had this explained to me before but if I recall correctly the recommended one was statistics? A degree in statistics is more valuable than one in finance, and has applications outside of banking.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:59 PM
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Could mean anything. Don't over analyze. Words aren't terribly important, look at behaviors and actions. Flipped on it's head, if she said she was uncomfortable around you, that'd mean she doesn't like being around you.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:23 AM
2

Jesus dude, if you're starting out you should work out 3-5 days a week. Give your body time to recover. If you need guidance just go with either starting strength or strong lifts.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:22 AM
1

Ernest Hemingway. Chuck Palahniuk too. Or at least per his writing. Can't say I know the man but his writing does tend to have a finger on the pulse of modern society. Theodore Roosevelt too. I mean, you probably wont be president but his life otherwise is worth emulating.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:19 AM
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If you're not absolutely certain of what you want to do in college, it should be mandatory. The amount of responsibility foisted on you when you turn 18 is massive, and no one affords any effort to actually explain the weight of these responsibilities even if the government has decided you're legally liable for them. Especially college. A degree can cost tens and hundreds of thousands of dollars, and may not even make financial sense, but many university types will sell you the moon on their ben…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:08 AM
1

smart but even in my school work I'm lazy and do the bare minimum to get A's. If you're effortlessly getting A's you're in a good position for now, but building yourself up to fail in college. You really have to fight for your marks in college and unlike in high school, people ain't falling over themselves for you. If presented with the opportunity many professors will absolutely not lift a finger to help you. Some of the most profound college failures are people who didn't have to work hard for…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:02 AM
3

About to go to school for business to an awesome college. Unless you know you have a job lined up after college, don't get a degree in business. A minor in it isn't a bad idea, but your college degree needs an actual thrust to it. Programming, computer science, physics, engineering, accounting- I'm actually a bit hesitant to recommend it, statistics, software engineering, etc, these all have a thrust. Business isn't a thing. Everything you'd need to know from a business degree, you don't need on…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 12:37 AM
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Find a better living situation. That's all I can come up with for now. Some people are going to drag you down no matter what you or they do.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 11:17 PM
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Some do, some don't, most will probably get about half way. The aggregate of psychological problems, life style and habits it takes to eat yourself to over 300 pounds isn't easily discarded, especially when you consider that it's probably got a lot to do with reinforcement from outside sources. So you're not merely fighting yourself, you're fighting your family who does not want someone rocking the boat, whom you're probably dependent on because, hey, you're a fat piece of shit.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 11:13 PM
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Am i relying on alcohol too much? Yes. Yes you are. Tell the truth, be direct, and sometimes, yes, be blunt about it. The problem isn't whether or not she rejects you- yeah, it'll happen some times, get used to it- but in how well you can navigate her slut gauge. The more she thinks you think she's a cheap slut, the less likely she is to go along with it. It's weird but women tend to like sex that is either no-strings-attached, or the kind of stuff that reads like a bad romance novel, but everyt…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 11:08 PM
1

She's playing on your instincts to protect someone who's vulnerable. Next.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 10:59 PM
1

If she flakes once, she's a little careless. If she flakes twice, she doesn't respect you. Don't date flakes. I mean, it'd be one thing if she called you up front and said she had to work longer than expected- hey, that happens- but if she can't be arsed to treat you with some basic respect, she's already envisioning either nexting you herself, or lording over you. Either way, fuck no.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 10:53 PM
1

Hell no. Dating someone who's cheating on their LTR is no different than fucking a married woman. Whatever fantasy you're providing that their husband or boyfriend can't, she'll start looking for in someone else when you become 'normal' for her.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 10:45 PM
3

1: Get the fucking grades. If you're in high school there's no excuse for not having A's other than the occasional teacher who's just a piece of shit. 1.25: No one is going to fight for you. Everything you get in life is something you take because someone else wasn't as good as you. 1.5: AP classes save you a ton of money and time if you intend to go to college after graduation. 1.75: Life might be a competition, but it's not a race per say. Pacing yourself is important, try to accomplish too mu…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 09:17 PM
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That being said, I think his programs are better suited for someone who is more interested in strength than aesthetics. He is a strength and powerlifting coach, not a bodybuilder. It's worth saying that either end goal is fine as long as you're realistic about where you're going with all of this. Bear mode has it's own aesthetic even if it isn't someone you'll see walking off the cover of a fashion magazine. Body building is fine too. It's better to be in shape than to be a shape.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 06:53 PM
1

It's almost like it was made by people with limited web design experience or something.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 06:51 PM
1

Agreed. Hitting the gym is useful. If you're starting out the act of going to the gym is more useful than actually getting a full work out just because it's getting you in the habit. But if you're going to then workout and do it half assed? Wouldn't matter what you're doing if you break something or pull a muscle. Slow gains are better than nogainz. When you're stuck with a cast, you're nogainz. Plus you in 30 years will thank you when your back isn't shit.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 06:14 PM
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At home, my grades came before my well-being and happiness. If you're setting happiness on the opposite end of a scale with grades something is fucked up. Grade school is not hard. Middle school is not hard. High school is not hard. It is not hard to have straight A's. You will still have free time too. You can find happiness after you've moved out, but having shit grades is going to be a very real road block to that.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 06:10 PM
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It's not a bad idea to keep an element of variety in your program, but you should really only have a singular drive at any one time. Do too much and even if we discount the idea that you get bored, or frustrated or otherwise fall off the truck, you're still diluting the thrust of each individual goal, which is odd because the end game of all of this still converges on a singular point. Working out helps you pick up women. Learning how to manage a diet and cook helps you work out and produce mean…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 06:01 PM
1

As such, we have a MGTOW flair here on the forum and I consider them just as much brothers as anybody else here. If there's a flaw with MGTOW it's that it's even more predisposed than TRP to get populated with people who are looking for an excuse to check out on life. Except, where TRP becomes a self masturbatory exercise for these types of people, MGTOW is a complete lifestyle. There's a difference between the MGTOW who's played the field, and after maybe a decade or two of chasing tail is done…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 05:53 PM
1

I really don't have the energy as I did when I was 25. It catches up to you fast. Clean up your diet, work out, get enough sleep each night. You start to really appreciate just how much the three can affect you when you're not a kid anymore. My biggest worry is just 'how do I pay for this shit'. These days you can actually test out of classes for credit. I'd look into CLEP style methods as well. They were originally made with military personnel in mind who don't necessarily have the luxury of 4 …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 05:46 PM
1

So you want to fuck your mother?
/r/askTRP23/07/16 05:33 PM
1

You don't next someone you live with. It's not physically possible.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 05:23 PM
1

Yes, remain on good terms until the divorce is complete. Do not let an unethical quack for a lawyer spin you up because they charge by the hour, don't let hers do that to her either.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 05:21 PM
1

Media has a vested interest in the status quo. If it's not an event they can control, they're liable to not give it much reporting. How many news stations gave breathless coverage to any of the attempted Trump assassinations? Rioters waving communist memorabilia around? As for education facilities, its because they want your money. Aaron Clarey said it better- youtube him, he's pretty smart when it comes to money- but the modern college exists as a means by which older generations can bankroll t…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 04:33 PM
2

You don't. They either want it or they don't. Introductions to Red Pill tend to start when they're willing to bury their pride and ask you how you're doing so well. TRP isn't a product. You're not a marketing agent. You're not trying to convince people they want your sliced bread. If you live according to RP virtues and you master your life, they will be the ones coming to you for advice.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 04:27 PM
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Writing on paper is a much more deliberate effort- think about it; when you learn to type quickly on a keyboard it's done in a way that stresses you not really thinking about each individual action, those same actions would make your written notes illegible gibberish- which is why it is generally considered better to write notes than to crunch them out on a keyboard. Plus there's less temptation to go bring up something else. Can't boot up a video game or go fire up YouTube from your notebook an…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 04:09 PM
1

You have to live in the right states, but you are correct that overly lavish retirement packages are only for the elite anymore.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 02:10 AM
1

Economic Correction can be thought of as a rubber band releasing all built up tension. Some times it's really easy to predict- people were calling the housing bubble and subsequent recession 2 years before it happened- that an economic correction would occur. One occurred to cause the Great Depression- people were investing money they didn't really own, effectively gambling and hoping that the investments would return favorably. They didn't often enough that many banks were taped out, causing Bl…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 01:24 AM
1

Work in a trade. There's a huge variety of jobs that'll pay about 15 an hour starting, take about 3 months of training and only require that you're not a felon to qualify. There's a huge variety of disciplines people don't typically think of when you say, 'trades' either. Obviously there's electricians, mechanics, etc, but you can make good money for the skill grade necessary to service and repair refrigeration units, or ovens. Not entirely sure where you see your AS in accounting going since yo…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 01:23 AM
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It's never too late but you do need to be realistic about the debt. a lot of my community college classes were just as difficult as the university ones. A lot of college towns that also have a CC- and this is California you're talking about; they sent IOU's to professors because the people apparently have no problem letting a bunch of degenerates run the state- will have junior professors and other low level educators working at both facilities because up till the point you hit tenure, you're tr…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 01:18 AM
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Hillary and Trump are both controversial enough that whomever wins wont be the most popular but instead the least unpopular. There are just as many people of all political leanings that just cannot stand one of these candidates, and typically both of them.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 01:10 AM
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Shamelessly quoting myself, probably quoting someone else. There's a certain vanity to being willing to fork over money to pay someone else to cook your food, but then going and buying... Subway. Or a burrito. or that burger. And they're loading it up with some combination of salt, fat, and / or sugar to make it appetizing to fit the needs of some bullshit focus group. Yes, eat out, order out by all means, but that should be an event or a, "I overslept and needed to get to work before I could pa…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 10:17 PM
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A few points since I finally took the time to read all of this. Learn to manage your money. KILL AND AVOID DEBT ASAP. Either be responsible with credit cards or don't get one at all. (I finally cancel my credit card after running it up to the max way too many times. Nearly spent all my savings.) Debt is something you take on that you can't afford. Loans are something you can. When you're signing up for a loan, it's an honesty check- you're either lying to the bank or yourself- about your ability…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 05:46 PM
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Having a family is great and all, don't get me wrong. But a lot of parents lose their sense of identity. It all becomes about the children. You wouldn't have the same amount of freedom to pursued your dreams and ambitions. To do what you want, when you want. This is how you raise narcissistic buttholes. Obviously for a span of time it really is all about the kid- from birth till they're about 7- because they're physically incapable of even basic self-sufficiency, but past that point you really c…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 03:38 PM
2

See, there's two kinds of problems. Whining problems, and privilege problems. If it doesn't immediately effect you as a member of a protected class, it's automatically perceived to be whining, wailing adult children. Even with the statistics in their favor the MRM has been utterly unable to gain any traction with communities that would normally give voices to the voiceless and fight for equality. Which is weird, because in principal the MRM and feminists should be in lock step, but in practice b…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 05:47 AM
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Lifting is Red Pills most straightforward basic advice. If you can't get your ass in the gym a minimum of 3x a week and implement the most basic advice chances are pretty high that you won't be able to implement anything else to a substantive degree. I'd argue there's no point. Exercise is the most basic element of all of this and if you can't even make that effort, nothing else printed here will even matter. If you're fat, there's a fair chance you have a ton of baggage- literal and figurative-…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 11:40 PM
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