What is best TRP principles for messaging (sms)?

McVaghunter · 2018-04-23T12:20:36+00:00

Hello Mr Millionaire, there's an article in the side bar about using dating sites. Read it, it's free.

PvRed · 2018-04-23T12:26:00+00:00

No matter how well you think you look, there is always something to improve on. You should always be critical when evaluating yourself. You can always be bigger, leaner, better at game, etc.

Now as for your text game, I usually do 2-3 messages to re-establish slight rapport then just logistics for any plates. I usually call the girl after the texts to do that because that's my preference.

Try texting with fewer words as well, take your post for example, a lot of it contains filler words and irrelevant information, like your piece about your vocal pitch. It doesnt impact your text game whatsoever, and comparing yourself to other men shows weakness and insecurity

Best of luck, and keep trying

fnordsnord · 2018-04-23T17:07:50+00:00

The best TRP principle for text game?

Use text only for logistics and game IN PERSON.

Triadis3 · 2018-04-23T12:45:58+00:00

You have an n-count of one.

You've maxed your looks and wealth, that leaves only frame and game, which are obviously your stumbling blocks.

Step 1 - Get the fuck out of the braincel sub. Surrounding yourself with thirsty ego protecting excuse driven virgins is overwhelmingly counterproductive... if this is the group you believe you belong in then you're mindset is wrong right out of the gate.

Step 2 - You have zero self confidence, despite being a good looking built rich dude. Your frame is nonexistent, you have little self esteem. You are allowing an external factor to drive your internal self doubt. You really sound like an intelligent low spectrum guy (Who the fuck gets their voice pitch tested?) that can't realize the reason you can't put it all together is that it is in your nature to compartmentalize things, then tear the compartments apart further to try see the basic easily understood principles behind the function.

The issue with that is that interpersonal relationships are complex, symbiotic and organic.. they flow. They don't work when you slice them up. Men do. Action is necessary, not analysis. So to get comfortable with people, you have to go talk to people. Take the "I want to fuck you so bad right now" pressure off. Chat to people you have no vested interest in. Old men, kids, elevator passengers, hot chicks you see.... give the PUA/ lines/ and scripts a fucking break and just have a little snippet of conversation, then leave. No number close attempts. Back and forth banter with no subtext is what you need to get comfortable talking to people.

Step 3 - Related to the prior paragraph, I'm willing to bet your thirst and neediness come off you on stinky waves of desperation visible to every woman within a 5 mile radius. Thirsty needy guys get no play because a girl thinks," If I'm this guy's ONLY prospect, and he's trying so hard he's tripping over himself, I better blow him off because I don't want a guy no other girl apparently wants." Preselection and too much try hard.

So outcome independence is your friend. It doesn't matter if you end up dating/fucking/marrying or getting told to fuck off by this one girl, there are plenty more who'll jump at your offer of an application for the position of being a ride-along in your awesome life. You must live within your own frame, and cultivate amused mastery over all. If you're not comfortable in your own skin how can you expect anyone else to get comfortable enough with you to get naked and naughty?

Step 4 - I really think you're pedestalizing women. YOU are the fucking prize, not them. If you put women up on a pedestal, they have no choice but to look down on you. And no woman wants to fuck a man she looks down on. Take your seat at the head of the table, kid. It's your life, and you're killing it by most metrics. Irrational confidence is an apt theme here. Also consider fucking an escort/whore/hb5 to get back in the saddle and realize there is nothing special about women, so stop treating them like they are.

As you're finding out, looks get the number, but game gets the pussy.

I could be wrong, you could be just an arrogant uncalibrated asshole, too. But even if that's true, might as well try the advice I just gave you, right?

vodkasodalimez · 2018-04-23T15:56:52+00:00

I call bullshit. There is no way to not get laid if you have that body plus being rich, especially not in Serbia

mrpoopistan · 2018-04-23T16:52:02+00:00

Opening up text game works best if you have a thread to pull at. Since you've indicated you met them through day gaming, you either needed to take good mental notes from the conversations or you'll want to check social media profiles real quick and try to find an underlying theme.

Almost all women fashion themselves around one identifiable signal that they transmit to the world (and then proceed to bitch about being pigeonholed for). That's where I've had my greatest success finding a thread and pulling at it. It helps if you're a quick read.

Nearly anything that indicates you bothered to pay attention puts you about 98% of all other guys. Mind you, we're not even talking serious RTFM-type attention. We're just talking a cursory read.

People have self-truths, and they love it when people catch their signalling of those self-truths and commented. It needs to be a small comment, because it's an opener not a dissertation.

Also, you're not anywhere near as maxed out as you think you are, because women give perceived high SMV guys a lot of room to fail. If they're going into ghost mode, you're definitely missing something.

Yonski3 · 2018-04-23T12:26:35+00:00

It ALWAYS ends with me getting number and girl either ghosting me or not responding via text.

this got nothing to do with your "text game". there Is no text game. we use text only for logistic purposes. if she ghost you it means you failed to leave a good impression on her when you meet her irl and that should be your focus.

robtormar · 2018-04-23T22:24:03+00:00

Have you tried calling to set up dates? I've had success with this in the past, but I've found it depends on the age of the woman.

Also you might be not be building as much attraction as you think when asking for a number. Getting a number is just a small part of the equation, strong attraction must be built in the process too. Aside from looking good as you say, are you being charming? funny? MEMORABLE? How long are you waiting to set up dates after getting the digits? This depends on how and when you got the digits and how the interaction went. For me I like to set up dates asap. If you meet a chick through day game try setting a same night date or following night. Remember texting a chick you havent smashed should only be done to set up dates and nothing else. It also seems like you are refusing to take some advice in the comments below and you are kind of sounding like a bitch "WHY ARE THEY GHOSTING ME WAHHHHH" I can picture you getting butthurt and crying when this happens.

Anywho if I were to take a guess you are probably lacking personality since it seems you boast so much about your looks/wealth. Work on your charisma

Duad-mib009 · 2018-04-24T00:58:56+00:00

Dude I think you just give way to many fucks about getting laid. If you actually just chill and chat with women you'll realize most of them are lame as fuck. Once you get to that epiphany you won't care whether you fuck or not. Youll be able to see all the red flags and problems that women bring with them. At that point they'll want you to care, then with everything else you claim to have going on youll be fighting them off left and right.

Title	What is best TRP principles for messaging (sms)?
Author	EsteraMC
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Date	April 23, 2018 12:08 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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