This will probably be more of a rant than anything else but i'm pissed off. Honestly I have no idea why its so fucking hard for me to get girls. I'm an attractive guy (https://imgur.com/a/XmCwC), I dress well, I have money because I do door to door sales during the summer and make 50k, drive a nice car (2011 Audi S5) I feel that i'm pretty damn good in social situations, i'm 6'2, and i'm in college. Yet here I sit on a friday night. No girls to hit up,no plates. Like, why am I not getting women? My approaches always end in one of three ways: 1. No response when confirming/ trying to make plans (happens 15 percent of the time) 2. "Ya, maybe i'll hang out on Thursday, i'll have to see!" (happens 60 percent of the time) 3. A solid yes, then a flake (happens 25 percent of the time)

I feel like a big part of it might be the demographics of where I live. I live in Provo Utah, aka bluepill haven. People get off their Mormon missions and go full blue pill, they're all horny and want to get married so they can have sex, so they put pussy on a pedestal and start complimenting and validating girls left and right because they think it will get them women. The good ol "If I throw my net in the water 1000 times, eventually i'll catch a fish". And for the most part, they do. And they get married. But they fuck over guys like me that aren't willing to abandon my self respect. Girls here have 1000 guys (even attractive ones) hitting them up and validating them all the time. Why would they pay any attention to me when i'm not doing the same thing?

Of course, i'm not going to shift the blame of the situation to where I live. I know i'm far from perfect. My biggest problem is social proof. My friend circle is dwindling because literally all my friends are getting married, or have serious girlfriends. Also, my fitness isn't to the levels that it has been in the past. I'm working on this, but it shouldn't be anything detrimental. I've still got muscle, and I'm in relatively good shape.

If I wanted I know I could go out right now and hook up with 5's and 6's. I have a couple trying to hit me up. But i'm not into that, I want cute girls that i'm actually attracted to.

Anyway, feels good to type that out if nothing else.