What to do if she cancels?

_whistler · 2015-08-24T23:39:28+00:00

I just rescheduled for tomorrow night

...uh, see her tomorrow night?

externity · 2015-08-24T22:47:27+00:00

Shouldn't have rescheduled so willingly, let her bring it up tomorrow. Basically it.

evilquesadilla · 2015-08-24T23:16:17+00:00

At least she called to reschedule. Many women just flake.

Don't worry about it and stick with the new rescheduled date. In the future, if you like, have plan B. Plan B can be another chick you're going on dates with, or something you want to do, like hang out with your buddies, whatever.

If a chick flakes, just do your thing and have fun.

For example, when I used to go out dancing regularly, I would setup dates at a club with dancing. If she flakes, I'd go by myself and have a good time dancing with other women anyway. This is the easiest to do, because it doesn't require anything.

Or sometimes when I'm on a roll I'd have a few numbers I could call. If a chick flakes, I'd call around and see which one of the other chicks I'm seeing wants to hang out and do something.

Wolfwoodd · 2015-08-25T14:04:11+00:00

Don't get upset. Say, "no problem" and reschedule. Then CALL her on the day of the date to confirm (or the day before). If you talk to her on the phone, then it drastically decreases her chances of flaking.

Based purely on my own trial and error.

Title	What to do if she cancels?
Author	counter_intuition
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	August 24, 2015 10:42 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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