What to make of this?

horologist2018 · 2018-11-21T20:17:48+00:00

I would reply with "ah okay" and leave it at that.

Why "Ah okay?"

Because it makes it seem like you didn't really read her message. "Ah Okay" isn't really a response to much of what she said, it's basically just acknowledging that she texted you; which is IDGAF.

bama79rolltide · 2018-11-21T20:19:10+00:00

Make other plans. Don’t respond at all.

Kamiwari727 · 2018-11-21T20:49:18+00:00

Hunt for other kittens, but don't completely forget about her. Hit her up in a week, casually banter with her, then pull the trigger and suggest something else to her.

You don't have anything to lose.

You have to persist a little. But that "a little" is very important.

AwakenedSovereign · 2018-11-22T01:44:03+00:00

You texted this chick Tuesday for plans on the weekend?

And you've seen her twice?

Never make plans that far in advance with such a new girl.

I'd go so far as saying never make plans that far in advance period, but if you know her well or there is some special context like she will need an event ticket, then ok.

Game is like music. The secret all singers & musicians rely on is called rhythm - or "the gap". Like the lull right before a dope bass drop on your favorite remix. It is this moment of absence/longing that allows people to feel Desire for the payoff.

When you schedule so far in advance like this, you are saying some things to women:

1) I am thinking about you today and eager to see you again even though it won't be for 5+ days

2) I let exactly one day expire before texting you to make plans again

3) I want to lock these plans down early because I know you might flake or change up on them (irrational; she will do that anyways if she's gonna)

4) I am a nice guy.

The correct formula for arranging dates is this:

Text. Meet. Gap days. Text. Meet. Gap.

Not text, meet, plan next. Text, meet, plan next. This robs her hamster of much needed fuel and as we all know, a bored hamster leads to dry pussies.

dilulabra · 2018-11-21T21:05:33+00:00

Respond like you wrote in OP, and do not contact her again unless she reaches out first. When girls declines your call (for whatever reasons), its up to her to make up for it, by suggesting alternative date or else she's not interested/wants you to chase her. Both are bad and should be ignored.

Irtotallynotrobot · 2018-11-21T23:13:39+00:00

This seems fine to me on her part. She's saying she has work to do and anticipated plans with friends. Am I missing something that she's doing wrong? I think my response would just be to get busy with other things and reply in a couple weeks maybe.

Title	What to make of this?
Author	Swish94xx
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	November 21, 2018 8:14 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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