When I leave TRP for a week or two,

Jugurthajones87 · 2019-08-13T04:12:47+00:00

Well yeah. There’s a lot of negativity in this scene, lots of angry guys. That’s why I left the first time. The problem is, when I leave it for a while, I forget to apply the red pill in my life with predictable results.

The trick is to dip in and out without getting caught up in the negativity and without letting it slip out of view.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-08-13T13:17:29+00:00

There is a fuck load of toxicity here.

The Redpill is basically a collection of different observations, all coming from different times, guys and places.

All put together in a sub it becomes condensed. Paints a much more extreme, black and white picture than reality.

Let this stuff be a tool box. A bunch of learning that is internalized and surfaces when you need it.

The majority of guys who post on the main sub probably don't interact with women. A lot is just mental masturbation and useless theory.

A fuck ton is just sad.

Balance. If you're happier off the sub, keep it to reading once a week or fortnight. After a while you've read everything there is. Very rarely is there anything new offered.

Go discover what makes you happy. Strong 'Alpha' type guys aren't sitting reading Reddit Redpill daily. They don't give that much of a fuck. Let go

youcancallmedada · 2019-08-13T03:42:07+00:00

Not really. I’m always pretty positive.

red_philosopher · 2019-08-13T04:56:03+00:00

We are what we repeatedly do. It's hard not to get caught up in it.

[deleted] · 2019-08-13T06:55:36+00:00

I leave regularly and come back. It’s a good idea, but the truths are the truths. Sometimes the repeat questions and constant bitching here (worse than women sometimes) gets to be too much.

Keep reading, but make sure you are practicing it.

ThinSpiritual · 2019-08-13T09:27:00+00:00

I've been around for 2+ years. TRP doesn't address all of my questions, and some of them I don't think TRP is the answer. Regardless, TRP offers a lot of useful tools and perspectives in life.

I think the key is just to retain what works for you instead of believing everything as science.

i-am-the-prize · 2019-08-13T14:31:19+00:00

I'm unable to "leave" My wife keeps shit testing me, comfort testing me, awalt'ing me. I get in my zone, mission focus, think things are on auto pilot and bam, out of nowhere: I'm on point again.

The longing "why can't i take off my armor" post by one of the sidebar guys' readers creeps back into my head every now and then - but each time, with less/no self pity, just "them's the facts/the way of the world" and I'm stronger for it. Now that I know its my lot in life, and I'm no one's plow horse, I do it for me, I relish it. Because I am strong.

The more I'm "resigned" to knowing there is no escape the more I realize, no, it's not an escape I'm after, its transcendence. Corny, but I am motivated by the internalization of some of our basic tenants, little by little some are becoming part of me, or put another way, I'm rewiring myself to encompass them.

And I'm better for it, and will push onward. No anger. Occasional pangs of wistful ignorance, but that was for the weak me. Not the strong me, not the new me, not the true me.

I am the prize.

embracingtheredpill · 2019-08-13T08:17:32+00:00

Absolutely. This space on the internet, sadly, has not been, for a while, a happy place, even though the intent of TRP was for happy men to congregate together, to discuss love, sex and relationships, and be more. Now more and more it is the purview of the angry incel, so 99% of the comments are trash, and come from an angry, misogynistic, defeatist place. Get what you need and then move out, come back to refresh, but eating from the toxic trough is only going to make you sick. Out in the real world, red pilled men live very happy lives, and do not indulge in anonymous internet flame wars about without effort, endless theoretical debates with no impact on their lives (looks v game). Join me, here outside, the sun is out, I am reclined with a drink on my stomach, and I see a volumptuous fine lady smiling at me...I think I'll go talk to her

TheStumblingWolf · 2019-08-13T09:15:27+00:00

If you hate women, for any amount of time, it's a reflection of something inside of you. Feelings like that don't just come out of nowhere. Women are just women, whatever your problem is it's not their fault. Probably have some anger phase left inside you or something.

send_it_for_the_boys · 2019-08-13T09:16:51+00:00

I kinda have this happen, I have a frame and a way that seems to work well for me but it gets jumbled up after reading on here sometimes. Just remember to take all this with a grain of salt and do your best to ignore the things that don’t matter or help you out here, I’ll skim through here on my work days when I’ve got some down time rather than getting on Instagram or Snapchat and seeing people whining about their issues and begging for sympathy, there is good advice on TRP what I prefer to do and you may find helpful is I just google my questions and you can find redpill posts that way or there are many other good “masculine redpilled” based sources out there with solid advice & facts to learn from.

LightyFarron · 2019-08-13T11:03:17+00:00

No surprise,trp sometimes sound like an incel circlejerking stuff

Title	When I leave TRP for a week or two,
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Date	August 13, 2019 3:30 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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