So, I'm a newb on TRP, less than a month probably. I've started to read and do some research. I have been struggling in relationships with women, and most recently felt I got played. I had hooked up with a nice MILF, that was far more experienced sexually than me. What I mean by that is that she has done everything (BDSM, Anal, etc.) and has taught me a thing or two. I'm not sure if I want an LTR with her, but I did want to continue the FWB setup we had.

Several weeks ago, she pulled a complete 180 on me and moved me strictly into the "friend" zone, thus I became one of her orbiters! This really screwed with my head, because I was still doing all the same things with her, just not getting any of the benefits!

A couple days ago, after some reading I sent her the following text: "If a woman sends a guy a text and asks, 'are you like all the other guys?', what does she really mean?" Holly shit, did my phone blow up with some inquisitive questions: "who sent that to you?, "where did you meet her?", etc...

Now today, she sends me a couple of texts saying 'she still has feeling for me and just had to bury them for a while'. (Shit Test?) Also, asking me if I would go help her pick out carpet and paint this week, but wouldn't give me a specific date or time. (Shit Test?)

I kept things short and sweet in my responses, and didn't commit to anything. My question is when is a good time to pull the trigger again, if I want to fuck her. I can sense that I turned the tables, thanks to TRP, but I also feel that if I jump right back into bed with her, then I'll just be back in the same boat I was a few weeks ago. Or am I being a bitch and not really understanding the end game?