Where can I learn game?

tag2man · 2015-08-01T08:59:19+00:00

Listen. This is important.

Don't learn lines. That's not a new revelation. Even if you get good at them and learn pages upon upon pages for numerous situations, you will still get caught out. Not only that but you will develop a false confidence by learning the canned material. I know because I did. Eventually I stopped using them because I had gained a certain confidence in myself. However it wasn't authentic. I was subconsciously undermined by the belief that whenever I failed it was because I didn't use canned lines. Even if I didn't learn the line specifically, I would parrot things from FR's from seddit and trp. Ultimately I crashed because I lacked a true sense of self. Instead I invested in a contrived identity created from FR's and pick up books.

I've started again without canned material. Although it is painstakingly slow, it's unlikely that I will fall into a BP remission again. I agree with the rsdtyler suggestion. Build a solid identity that you craft yourself and is intrinsically you own. Read self development, train, pursue success in your life. Then with a very strong internal framework and sense of self you should start sculpting how you interact with others so as to maximize the chance of success with every interaction.

Simply, a tree can only grow as high as it's roots are deep.

to_say_the_i · 2015-08-01T03:59:53+00:00

Any "game" you learn should come from you developing yourself as a man and earning that higher value. However, if you want a quickstart, RSDTyler is good. He goes over non-canned, natural game. I find him helpful because even though he's a chubby, balding, pasty ginger, he absolutely destroys.

SovereignWings · 2015-08-01T07:57:21+00:00

There is an adage I've seen on the main sub many times. PUA teaches you how to spit out canned lines. TRP teaches you how to build your own value and figure it out for yourself, which ideally means you always come off as authentic. Kind of obvious which one you should aim for.

Title	Where can I learn game?
Author	reckttt
Upvotes	6
Comments	5
Date	August 1, 2015 3:57 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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