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Hooked (F close) up with a lady friend of my best friend. Get her number. We spent the other day at a party with friends. She texted me "you always catch me on days im wearing a dress tehehe" (last time the dress played a part in the F close). My best friend, her, and I all went to the party together. I leave her be for the most part since I don't want to be all over her, flirt with other women, and avoid making things awkward for my friend. The girl and my friend are way back friends from childhood. My friend has joked about wanting to help get us together, but lately he hasn't brought it up so I myself can't help but be self conscious about it (whatever the reasons may be I tend to jump to worst possible scenario, like she said something to him along the lines "im just not that into him").

The lady seems down but in social settings doesn't at all (basically flirts with every other dude there how I am with the girls and then when we are alone in the hall pulls me to make out, we fuck in the bathroom, etc, constant hot & cold) which I'm thinking is her taking ques from me, but also just checking herself, or she's just not that into me?

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Anyway I'm just having fun at the party, I've been working out a lot lately and am very happy with my body so I went into the pool in just my boxers. Every chick was basically eye fucking me... except the one I came with. (Either she knows she has me and doesn't care, she doesn't want to be overt in front of our mutual friend, or she's just not that into me) Fast forward we drop my friend off at home and she says "lets go to the strip club". We go and 2 people from the party (guy X and girl Y) meet us there.

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Still just having fun, doing my thing. End up having some lesbians give me money to dance for them. Flirt with girl Y, but for some reason the girl I've been with this whole time is basically ignoring me and hanging out with guy X. I try not to let it get to me and how I deal with it is just to continue to do my own thing and use that jealousy to fuel my fun. Girl Y ends up leaving and she was guy X's ride so he asks if he can go with us. We all leave and go to a bar and now the girl that I was with is saying she's tired wants to get food and go home. I say food sounds good and she basically is like yeaaa nahhhh. I don't take that too personally (I've had plenty of women tell me they won't sleep with me that night and end up fucking 30 minutes later) but guy X, who at this point is almost black out drunk, asks her if she can take him home since they live near each other. Shes agrees. Now I'm a little jealous even more. Go outside spend time with a few girls I just met. Guy X and the girl I'm with come out and are like yeahhh we're leaving in a sec. So I just go inside pay my tab and leave.

I chalk it up to a waste with the girl I was with and am not going to waste any more time or resources on someone who isn't really interested when I have every chick around interested. But the whole time I can't get her outta my head, like wtf did I do wrong? I played everything "perfect" from my point of view, but obviously I did something "wrong". But whatever get over it have fun..... The night is still young.

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Then I get a text from her:
11:30 pm

"Damn didn't even say bye."

12:04

"But anyways thank you for the beers and what not by the way."

(I didn't buy here drinks it was more I bought a pitcher at the strip club for everyone when we first showed up)

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I sent her a text the next morning saying I thought she was leaving, and then asking about our mutual friends belongings he misplaced. She responded quick and dry followed with radio silence.

Her 12 oclock text came across really passive aggressive almost like I missed a que from her or something and she was mad I didn't figure out a way/ place to fuck her again that night? Idk that followed by the radio silence and weird way she acts around me in public settings is something I've never dealt with. Other than when I was blue pilled and didn't know anything about RP, and with women who weren't that into me and were looking to branch swing. It's really messing with my head and confidence.

What happened? What did I mess up? How to proceed?