I'm 19 and go to community college. Majority of the people here are not goal driven, nor do they strive for much other than drinking beer and having a good time until they start there jobs after college. I've made a number of friends like this. However I want to find others that are similar to me and will hold an intelligent conversation.

"Hang out with 4 and you become the 5th."

Where would I find people like this?

Lastly the guys that are striving to do well in school are more often than not super awkward betas (that didn't make it to uni) that do not have decent social skills and can't even talk to a woman.