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[–]MotiMorphosys4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you have to ask a bunch of random people you don't know who to pick for long term, you're definitely not ready for long term. Head over to the sidebar..
[–]Lousycabbage0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Idk why this isn't higher.
[–]ur8moms6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re 22 and thinking of long term chicks?! Plate both and start an LTR in late 20s or 30s
[–]playball20202 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
girl 2. that 7 year gap doesn't seem that big now because she's still "only" 29. but when you're 29, she'll be 36.
girl 2 seems like a much better match for you age wise (and likely maturity level).
also im a face guy. a 4pt differential is WAY too large.
and... if you and girl 2 doesn't work out at least she has some time to find another guy.
girl 1 is already 29 and if you guys go a few years, she'll hit that wall fast and be screwed
[–]wilkins_micawber1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Need your age to decide.
[–]BruhMoment458861 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Too young to settle down. But I'd go for girl 1. The youth and beauty is worth the 2 or so points docked from other fields.
Rn the age gap doesn't seem too bad but wait until you're 30 and shes almost 40. Shes going to have different life goals than you too because shes older. A 5/10 face will look like sloth from the Goonies when it starts getting saggy
[–]billKarlas1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
old stuff is a problem bro. having a baby could be a problem in the future+ a younger one is always cuter.
[–]Cancermaxxed 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girl number 2, it's not even close if you compare your imaginary numbers. She is younger, better looking and has above average intelligence and personality. (???)
But you are still a kid at 22, looking to settle down. 22 is where the fun is just starting. The first girl could be your mom.
[–]beingamannotadayjob0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Young one, you both have a good vibe? No red flags? Can you actually imagine being with her?
Ask yourself some serious questions. I’m in an LTR too but sometimes I miss being on the road and being with other bitches
[–]The1ndex0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Long term - younger one.
It doesn’t matter much for you today, but when you hit 30, and you girl is going on 40, you’ll be kicking yourself.
[–]zboo1h0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Myself.
[–]TrenTookMyBalls0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
2, easily. Can't fuck a personality or intelligence. I'm a face guy, and a chick 7 years older is going to have less appeal long term.
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