Why did RP'ed guys started rejecting and criticizing '' She's not yours, it's just your turn''?

NightwingTRP · 2021-02-03T12:29:57+00:00

Red Pilled Guys are claiming that it's wrong and unhealthy?

Please cite which endorsed guys are claiming this is wrong and unhealthy. List usernames in reply.

Anybody who is not endorsed has not been vetted over time and their remarks should be viewed as "red-pill-in-training" so they can get things right and get things wrong. So if there are no endorsed guys claiming this, then you have your explanation.

The folks saying "it's wrong and unhealthy" are not red pill and are incorrect in their assertions. Report such posts as "not red pill advice."

RedCoquette · 2021-02-03T13:03:18+00:00

Forget the who, what's their point? Do they even understand it?

Properly understood, TRP is just a toolkit. It's not an ideology. So it's okay to say hey, this tool doesn't work in this situation, or I think it's just broken. I've seen numerous posts from randos here disagreeing with "texting is only for logistics." Is that the "official" RP take? I dunno. I do know there's stuff in the sidebar that's more nuanced than that. But if you're taking this stuff 100% literally, you're doing it wrong. Do you think a community full of clever neologisms is always speaking literally? Do you think a community that tries to understand sexual strategy for half of humanity vis a vie the other half is using a scalpel to slice open all the outliers that may contradict what works 95% of the time? Fuck no.

SNYIJYT is useful because it emphasizes outcome independence, which is essential to the RP. "She's not yours..." You don't own her. You are not entitled to her affection. "It's just your turn." Key word: just. You didn't lose a lung. No one died. The girl just moved on. Reasons: who cares, but probably hypergamy. Get your shit together and find someone else.

RStonePT · 2021-02-03T14:33:40+00:00

You're mistaking Red Pill™ with red pill as praxeology

Bulldog mindset is one example

and a normal, red pilled response from me The comments in this one are very telling.

There is a glut of people who called themselves redpill between 2016 and 2020 because it was the trendy thing to do. They have no idea what any guy before them did and just put a paint job on their standard mark manson mike cernovich 2.0 grift.

What you're seeing isn't a rejection and a criticizing of the concept, what you're seeing is demographic pandering in order to secure private community income. The kind of guys who are balls deep in an idealistic women centric worldview eat shit like this up.

"I'm not a bad guy like that [RP] asshole who broke your heart! I'm a nice guy and you just need to know this" will see the message of "that phrase is evil and bad and nihilistic and you're better of with MOAR OPTIMISM" and lap it up like a lactose intolerant cat with a milk bowl. Hell, even this back and forth is just me .e.g. skirting the line between the beef-for-pageviews business model and productive infotainment.

So when you see this stuff, just realize it's all kayfabe, its all theatre. Did hulkster beat ric flair? Did he actually believe the statement is false? Who cares. (PROTIP, the answer was no, he just wanted a collab to talk it out and 'meet in the middle' whatever the fuck that means) Just focus on stuff you can replicate and let the talking heads talk.

P.S. He's not close with anyone red pilled, he had a brief period of collaborations where he decided chasing 21 Con clout was more important than helping men and we have since all parted ways, insofar as anyone can be on the internet

themostgianthorse · 2021-02-03T13:53:58+00:00

Haven’t seen anyone criticize this.

I did see a rather astute guy on here rephrase as “it’s just HER* turn”.

This is more pragmatic so I updated the phrase for myself.

TheStumblingWolf · 2021-02-03T14:49:00+00:00

One could argue that it applies to everything in life. Nothing is truly yours forever. Nothing is forever.

I've never seen anyone of significance on the RP sub claim the classic sentence wasn't true though.

usedtimecapsule · 2021-02-03T13:23:19+00:00

Because they are probably betas who found their unicorn

BlondeHornyElf · 2021-02-03T22:37:47+00:00

becuz it's a hard one to accept.. while you're in love and a girl loves you it rly seems like this unshakable beautiful perfect thing. it appears to u like the universe was created just so people could fall in love and have that feeling forever. doesn't that seem decent? like a good way to justify all the suffering of the world? that we could at least have love?

until you get your heart broken or until you get fucked over enough times it seems like a disservice to yourself to just give up on your idealistic view of love prematurely. what if you're wrong and u just listened to a bunch of miserable losers online and lost ur opportunity to fall in love for real? u would be the cuck in that situation, and men will almost always wish to avoid getting cucked.

it's not irrational to reject that statement, but only personal experience will really prove it true or false for you. u might get lucky and then proclaim to everyone that idealistic love is real and that red pillers are the scum of society trying to ruin it for the pure of heart, etc., etc.

but what i will say is women really are like that so just don't get married prematurely and get the government involved in fucking up ur life. be god damned sure that's what u want becuz when a woman turns on u her cruelty and indifference will be completely unfathomable to you.

Title	Why did RP'ed guys started rejecting and criticizing '' She's not yours, it's just your turn''?
Author	antioch94
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Comments	27
Date	February 3, 2021 12:06 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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