My guy friends try to get me to do things they wouldn't do.

example 1.

My friend will notice a girl and tell me to approach her and then when I say no I don't think she is cute or you do it. I get called a pussy even though I have approach a shit ton of girls and have only seen my friend do 1 or 2

example 2 There is a girl at work who is a slut who wants to fuck me and my coworker. My co-worker is always telling me to do things with her or ask for naked pictures from other girls at work but when I tell him no or him to do it, he just makes an excuses like.

example 3 (the one that made me realized the pattern)

Last night at a party, a friend of mine told me to slap a girls ass who was dancing in front of me and he will do it too. So I do it the girl laugh and smiled, I told my friend it's his turn and he gives some stupid excuses.

is this some type of compliance test or shit test ?