why do women do this

mrpthrowa · 2017-09-05T15:10:59+00:00

Those women knew

They do this for two reasons:

1) Crab mentality - they don't want her to have fun.

2) They wrap it in "save that girl" feminist mentality.

Nothing you could have done in the moment, may be hit her up later on. You could have prevented it by working out who her group of friends are and getting accepted into the group beforhand. It's a lot of work.

Also, this happened because of poor logistics. Did you have a plan for her? to get her to your own corner, or flat or whatever. You let one thing happen out of your control and it screwed you (well, not really)

RedSkeller · 2017-09-05T15:26:18+00:00

Not really much you could do here. I saw that you blew her friend off a bit, and you really have to game her friends as well when needed. They just have a pack mentality but it would've been disarmed had a friend or two stepped in and started chatting them up.

Kisstafer1 · 2017-09-05T15:32:37+00:00

Happens to the best of us mate. They're just jelly af that they aren't getting laid and want their friend to stick with them

Shtafoo · 2017-09-05T14:46:20+00:00

Get a wingman! Makes these situations a lot better to handle.

brinkleybuzz · 2017-09-05T19:16:23+00:00

why do women do this

They were looking out for their friend, who would have been known thereafter as the thot who got fucked in the bathroom during a party.

how do i avoid this in the future?

You need to learn the art of isolation.

Next time tell the chick that it's hot and you want to get some air. Take her by the hand, lead her out and when one of her friends says something reply "it's cool, we're just getting some fresh air". Then keep walking until you get some privacy.

quicklogaccount · 2017-09-05T19:31:59+00:00

1 - The chick you were picking isn't completely known as an empowered sexually liberated chick and her friends worried that she would become known as such by acting as such;
2 - You're below her friend's standards and they thought she was only with you because she was a bit on the drunk side;
3 - Her friends are conservative and shamed her out of doing what she felt like.

Shit like that is bound to happen, don't bother. You get a bonus if something like this happens:
"can we have a talk with you?" (sees you properly) "oh, don't bother (giggles)".

carlito_suave · 2017-09-05T16:02:24+00:00

U probably dodged a case there bro.

max_peenor · 2017-09-05T16:12:35+00:00

ASD is sometimes crowdsourced.

Bloody_Rayne · 2017-09-06T03:56:21+00:00

Should've just said "I go wherever she goes" and not accept them to ruin your day.

Title	why do women do this
Author	spliffgang
Upvotes	9
Comments	34
Date	September 5, 2017 2:41 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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