Why is this so hard?

beta_no_mo · 2017-10-06T20:08:03+00:00

So you haven't tried and you've already determined that she won't like you.

How well is that working for you?

_the_shape_ · 2017-10-06T20:22:49+00:00

I need some advice on this because I am trying to fuck this girl I saw at the bar.

I'm not necessarily telling you to compromise the quality of your approaches/interactions, but I am telling you that your quantity has to go much further up than "this (one) girl". You're too focused on one chick.

I think because I am black I can't use the red pill to its full extent.

The red pill isn't racist, unless there's something about self-betterment in general (which is essentially what TRP comes down to) that strikes you as racist?

Westernhagen · 2017-10-06T21:30:09+00:00

"Why is this so hard?"

Because you just woke up and you need to take a piss.

DadOnDabs · 2017-10-06T19:47:07+00:00

Are you educated classy black or hood rat trash black? White girls junless they are the ghetto hood rat type) will go for black guys if they are educated and dress well.

Chief_Leji · 2017-10-06T21:32:28+00:00

I'm black too. Honestly I'm not into white girls, however, I have had quite a few of them show interest in me. I think you might be psyching yourself out; you're already conscious of their perception so you are telling yourself they don't want you. I will admit we might have to work a little harder to make girls comfortable as opposed to exerting dominance, since we are already seen as such just based on stereotypes. But beyond that there shouldn't be that much adjustment to be done.

To create more comfort; smile more, approach a girl head on don't approach from the side or the back, and don't hover around her. if you want to talk to her talk to her. Anything typically seen as creepy can be perceived as dangerous on our end.

Another thing is that culture trumps race as far as attraction goes. I know some black guys who are in white frats or hang around those type of guys. They dress like them; boat shoes, dad hats, polos, etc. and talk like them and get a lot of white girls. It's about their ability to be able to relate to you and getting the sense that you guys belong to the same "tribe." People will be drawn to what is familiar. But that's just to increase your chances.

I have a street background and i still carry some of it with me in the way I dress, carry myself, and even talk depending on who I am around. I still generate attraction with some of the preppy white girls but maybe that's because I present some kind of edge factor for them.

Overall I think attraction is attraction. The nature of women doesn't change too much from race to race. Femininity will always be attracted to masculinity. Most of the girls I've dealt with have told me that I was not their "type." Type doesn't matter as long as a high quality man is being presented. The only exceptions is if the girl is racist or something.

XQXdaGod · 2017-10-06T23:48:57+00:00

The fuck? Being black has nothing to do with it. My friend gets so much white pussy because girls want to try that black dick. He's in shape and well spoken so if you're being ghetto trash it's not gonna help you but race isn't the issue.

LeftAndRed · 2017-10-07T02:28:15+00:00

Start Here

It’s very doable. I only pick up white chicks. You need to be aware of your stereotypes and how they impact your first impression. Make sure to give a SWPL in your open. Counter your negative stereotypes and become “exotic”

Oftowerbroleaning · 2017-10-07T00:08:51+00:00

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Title	Why is this so hard?
Author	XQXdaGod
Upvotes	3
Comments	28
Date	October 6, 2017 7:34 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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