Okay so this is my friend and this is his situation , his wife when angry at him decides to go on multiple days trying to ignore him like dread. This can last days and it happened a few times on one occasion he found a text from a guy on her phone and turns out it was a potential guy she wanted to marry but didn’t happen and she considers him an ex even though they ain’t been together. She chats to him for apparently to get validation and continue her tantrum with my friend. My initial though was that’s cheating emotionally and personally I’d have demoted her ass but he married and has a kid so what’s your guys opinions and what do you think should be done.