Will she be faithful while I'm in basic?

bmer92 · 2016-09-05T16:35:18+00:00

This questions been anwsered 1000 times not just here. Your going into the military. She will be alone unmonitered. DO NOT MARRY HER DO NOT EXPECT HER TO NOT CHEAT ON YOU

2016-09-05T18:16:45+00:00

Everyone ITT:

are you fucking crazy OP

OP:

but guize this one's speshul

Borsao66 · 2016-09-05T17:12:59+00:00

"If there's a doubt, there is no doubt." - Sam in Ronin

RedPillPrince · 2016-09-05T16:39:16+00:00

Don't LTR her. Keep in contact but don't put all your eggs in one basket. Especially when it will be an LDR soon. Don't get cheated on by an HB6 you'll hate yourself for it. After basic you'll be able to pull better chicks. Not saying next her but don't tie yourself down when you are just starting a new journey to self improvement.

JackGetsIt · 2016-09-05T16:41:00+00:00

Always be weary in upgrading plates. They're plates for a reason.

Concerning marriage:

Don't get married regardless. The conversation should always be 'do I want a LTR or a plate?'

If you are dead set on marriage you need to be asking yourself: have I mastered redpill concepts, dread application, do I know the laws of my state, do I have a good lawyer, do I know her well and do want to marry an HB6?

edit. I want to add the only reason you would ever upgrade a plate is because you are losing value or getting lazy in meeting new women and you want to settle. Neither are a good reason and will probably perpetuate and then you lose the plate as well.

RedSkeller · 2016-09-05T17:21:51+00:00

If her parents are still faithfully married you have a shot.

BoyWhoreWithASword · 2016-09-05T17:52:00+00:00

No she won't.

quicklogaccount · 2016-09-05T17:56:51+00:00

Disclaimer:
Is she by chance your only plate? She's not a plate. Stop calling non-labeled relationships "plates".

Ok, let's think about it for a minute, shall we?

"So, she's one of many" / "ok, I want to know if I should dump her or not either way".
What is it about her that makes her worth of dropping all others or make you don't want to pursue others? Are you an "hb6, but smart and getting her associates" yourself? Is that honestly all you expect from relationships, sex and women?
Yes? Ok, you can think of LTR.
No? Yeah, thought so.

"Yes, I'm not a fuckboy, she's great, wada wada"
Think of red flags.
Is she an attention whore?
Does she makes changes on her appearance "for herself"?
How quickly did you lay her? By the way, if you didn't, forget it.
Is she a very sexual woman?
Does she love bombs you a lot?¹
Did you get to hear the cry for help from a damsel in distress? Was it quick?¹
Did you get to hear "what would I do without you" a lot? Really early on?¹
Did she tell you of her abusive whatever on the first date or dates?¹

Well, I won't go listing all the red flags. If she doesn't have them, I suppose it's worth taking the shot.
The ones I've marked with ¹ are borderline tell aways. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE, literally. Being so attached she "wants to get married" isn't a good sign on a plate. Maybe if she's REALLY naive.

nastynickdr · 2016-09-05T18:27:53+00:00

Think about getting married AFTER you are done with military. Unless you are fine with being a cuck.

casemodsalt · 2016-09-05T16:34:41+00:00

This is your call dude.

Blerks · 2016-09-05T19:00:17+00:00

Ever heard of a "Dear John letter"? If it only happened rarely there's wouldn't be a label for it.

Split up, let her and yourself be free. If she really wants it to happen, she'll still be around when you're done. If not, you dodged a lot of grief.

feminazis_stalk_me · 2016-09-05T19:14:41+00:00

Don't worry. When you come home, she will be just the way you left her - freshly fucked!

TrimHer · 2016-09-05T19:23:48+00:00

Why would you want her to be? You're her easy ticket out of Bumfuck, USA. You will be meeting women all over the world. The parent coordination is her move to get your parents (mom) in on tying you down. Don't fall for it.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-09-05T20:17:21+00:00

Will she be faithful while I'm in basic?

When there is doubt...there is no doubt.

YungBoi16 · 2016-09-05T20:35:17+00:00

Go marry her. Don't listen to anyone here. Go to relationship subreddit next time. Fuck off idiot go marry some ugly hb6 and get divorced raped.

Snooze212 · 2016-09-05T21:15:56+00:00

I'd only LTR and marry if she was a -3/10. That's your only option brah.

RedOkra · 2016-09-05T23:24:33+00:00

My LTR did while I was in basic while she was writing me letters. It's so common its ridiculous. Yours is different though, right?

Lok_Die · 2016-09-06T01:28:43+00:00

BEEP BEEP BEEP

ALL HANDS, ABANDON SHIP, ABANDON SHIP.

Of all things you could do, getting married or getting her pregnant is the incorrect choice.

When you leave home for basic, keep in mind that the last thing you want for an added stressor is some needy bitch wrecking your emotional state over the phone.

nodoxsavefreespeech · 2016-09-05T20:27:37+00:00

Jody gonna get that ass.

And for fuck's sake, you better NOT give her any money.

Trpnewgey · 2016-09-06T02:38:09+00:00

She told me she might be pregnant. I think we'd have good kids together, but I'm not ready to be a dad. Really scared. Glad I signed up, at least TRICARE will cover the birth

Title	Will she be faithful while I'm in basic?
Author	Trpnewgey
Upvotes	1
Comments	29
Date	September 5, 2016 4:21 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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