Hi All,

Swallowed the pill about a year ago (I am so glad) and have been implementing RP techniques with great success.

Until recently....

Three weeks ago, I messaged a girl on Facebook who looked interesting to me, turns out she is the ex gf of some dude from the gym I used to go to. We got to talking, and quickly bonded over the fact that said dude is a crazy, jealous, and psychotic dude. After some short discussion with this chick, I started demanding things from her... "Give me your number, I want it." & "You and me were hanging out, you seem interesting."

Usually this mentality of demanding things from woman, gets me what I want, but not with this one... She went on to explain that both of her last 2 boyfriends (the only boyfriends shes ever had... shes 20) treated her like absolute shit.... they were overly possessive, jealous, and would straight up tell her that she didnt deserver anyone better than them. She explained this to me and insisted if I want her number, or her to hang out with her that I need to ask nicely. I refused and said no, that's not my style to ask for permission like that, and she insisted on blocking me. I told her "I dont care, go for it" to which she quickly changed her mind. I told her that I admire her need for respect from men, and decided to be ask her for her phone number, and if she would be willing to meet face to face. She agreed to both, and we hung out last sunday.

Before I proceed, let me mention that I fucked up on something.... her and I texted way too much the week before leading up to our hangout session... This was all pretty much on her because she was the one reaching out every single day, and the one random time I decided to reach out first I got this reaction: "Wow I actually got a text first today! I feel so special." During these interactions I instilled some redpill beleifs of mine about marriage and the like and she was totally understanding, although in disagreement. However, she went on to say she would want to marry someone like me (RP works)

Fast forward to the "date".... We met at a beach with a very long pier and when she arrived, i told her i wanted to take a stroll down the pier... She agreed, and we had casual conversation before approaching a spot on the pier to look over the railing and watch people surf / fish off the pier. During this time I began to initiate kino... I grabbed her hands and inspected her nails, and i brushed her hair away from her face, and I even stood behind her at one point and smelt her neck... After our 2 hour interaction, we walked back down the pier, and I grabbed her hand to hold it because I wanted to.... she was super receptive to all of my physical touch. We then parted ways after both agreeing to wanting to see each other again.

Shortly afterwards, I received a text from her telling me "I love the way you smelled my neck on our first meet up... I just wish I made it smell better" I laughed and said I couldnt resist as her feminine energy was captivating and I couldnt control the desire to smell her. She laughed and said it was totally fine....

Here is where I get confused....

Every since then, we havnt spoke at all.... I have not received any spontaneous texts from her. I sent one goodnight text on monday night and she responded "hey! we havnt talked all day! I am so sad... goodnight!" to which I ignored. Tuesday went past and I reached out to propose our second date options, and she told me he was busy... I told her no worries and we will talk later.... I got no response. This morning I woke up and sent a generic "good morning, have a good one" and she finally responded back 6 hours later apologizing for being non-responsive and spacey and that she has been really sick (despite the fact she went out with friends last night....she mentioned this in the text apologizing)....

anyway... my question is wtf is going on? Was she really uncomfortable with my touch and is lying? did I fuck up somehow? Is she really sick and just not on her phone?

I dont get it.

Can anyone shed some light?