We have all heard this one, you are in some form of relationship, mostly a LTR and she goes something like "Share your emotions, be more emotionally available, stop being so cold and emotionless, tell me more about how you feel and so on". Fell for this one once and it didn't end well for me. I shared how I felt and then it all got turned against me. Now, in a new LTR again getting hit by the same shittest.

"You are so cold, it's like you don't even care, you don't open yourself to me, I don't know if it's going to work out if you keep being like that" and so on and so forth.

I know that what women say is not what they really think or want and that it's all a code and not the literal meaning of the words but I need some insight here from someone more experienced. What does this shit even mean. Is it nothing but a shittest or is it some kind of comfort test that I don't get (I've only heard about these but never learned much about them).