Something I've noticed with regards to women's interests, is that their interests are almost entirely based on how others perceive them. They have almost no solitary interests, and the ones they do have are purely based on feels.

Let me ask you something. How often have you been involved with a girl, and she has shown zero interest in something you consider important. It could be a hobby, or sex, or a fetish, or even something she has expressed possible interest in. But she does not make the effort to share in your interest, or even actively avoids it.

Then, you find that she has done a complete reversal with others, taking great interest in that thing with other men, or after you broke up. You find yourself wondering "did I really mean that little to her?"

The answer is yes. You lost frame, and in her mind you became absolute trash. You know that isn't the case of course, but in the emotionally driven mind of a woman, once you lose their respect they find that making ANY effort to share in anything with you is actively painful to them. I've seen discussion on TRP about how women hate having sex with their husbands, but this extends to every interest, not just sex.

If you hold a woman's attraction, anything you take interest in she will naturally follow. If you lose frame, anything you care about is painful for her to indulge in. There are very few things women actually show interest in, and all of them are based entirely on social standing and context.

Either you are worth her time, or you are not. But if you see a woman's behavior do a complete 180, accept it and move on. She stopped caring the moment you broke frame. She just didn't realize it until later, because to admit it openly is to admit to herself how fickle and callous her own emotions are.