I realize that I might be busy physically (I don't meet too often, don't text too much etc); but when I meet a girl I'm fully present in the moment, and am emotionally available (I like cuddling, making jokes, laughing, good conversations, but also rough sex).

I picture an emotionally unavailable man as someone stoic, doesn't laugh that often, doesn't put effort into conversations, idgaf attitude (outside the bedroom attributes)

Should I change myself like this?

I think the second type of man might not be as 'fun' or 'entertaining' but he would seem as someone 'hard to win' for women. That is why they like him. Which one is better, idk