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How to be emotionally unavailable?

July 5, 2022

I realize that I might be busy physically (I don't meet too often, don't text too much etc); but when I meet a girl I'm fully present in the moment, and am emotionally available (I like cuddling, making jokes, laughing, good conversations, but also rough sex).

I picture an emotionally unavailable man as someone stoic, doesn't laugh that often, doesn't put effort into conversations, idgaf attitude (outside the bedroom attributes)

Should I change myself like this?

I think the second type of man might not be as 'fun' or 'entertaining' but he would seem as someone 'hard to win' for women. That is why they like him. Which one is better, idk

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Title How to be emotionally unavailable?
Author badboyyy112
Upvotes 3
Comments 7
Date July 5, 2022 4:30 PM UTC (8 months ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/how-to-be-emotionally-unavailable.1122914
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/newTRP/comments/vs1xpr/how_to_be_emotionally_unavailable/

[–]BlackjointnerD 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bruh wth kind of question is this... Don't be fucking emotionally unavailable and dead inside on purpose. Being stoic has nothing to do with that.

[–]319Skew 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You post often. Hit the side bar.

[–]Lifesquestions5 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, keep doing what you are doing. are you looking to adopt new psychologically problematic character traits? thats really weird. Keep beeing alive and emotionally engaged, just don't be needy, that's all.

[–]MusicgoonV2 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's a great way to be unlikable. Don't be a robot.

[–]Here4th3culture 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s about not letting other people effect you. Doing whatever you want is the energy you want. If you wanna laugh fucking laugh. If you’re intentionally not laughing that’s fucking weird

[–]knowingly_diligent 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It should be whatever comes natural for you within a masculine frame. Build your masculine frame with the right internalizations. To start, intention and congruence is paramount.

I personally think most game strategies are bullshit — what works for someone else isn’t always going to work for you.

Your question indicates that you’re attached to the outcome. While we all have to play some form of 5D chess with women’s emotions, your goal should be to weed out women that don’t like you because you have value.

[–]DreamyPervert 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You don’t want to become the man you’re considering. You simply want to be less invested in girls than they are in you.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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