Recently I have been doing well at banging girls the same night from bars/clubs. I am over 6 foot and on steroids so I have high SMV which makes it easy for me to attract girls. However when going on dates with girls I seem to do really bad. Part of it is that I haven’t gone on enough dates but I end up not enjoying the date and the conversation feels forced.
I enjoy going out on the weekends with my friends and talking to girls but dates feel boring and I am not able to bang girls I go on dates with. However I really want to get better at dates but not sure where to start. Are there any good resources/date structure to go over. My first date is always 1-2 drinks at a bar across the street from my apartment. After we finish our drinks I invite the girl to have another drink in my apartment.
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Appreciate the advice my mindset is definitely a problem. However I still have a hard time enjoying the date and conversation. I think I just need to have a more relaxed attitude and focus on self amusement
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