M28M i used to hangout with a guy from my scool 2-3 years back. I know him more than 13years life. I used to overshare all my personal life insecurities weakness my gf sexual past the things i wish i could do etc all. I regret all these things now. The thing is i trusted him like a brother. But now only I realize he was enjoying my misery my losses as he has no life and he never will be. He was jealousy as fuck when i had a gf and having sex etc. he was jealousy when i wasnt in misery. He was jealous when im moving forward in my life improving myself having tattoo etc. i realized these and i step by step cut contact with him saying im busy with my job etc. i regret now telling all my stuff for a lowe key hater, and by hanging with a this type of nowhere going dude my life has been idle for 3years, as every move i was gonna take has beem stopped by a his sarcastic comment. Bugger wanted me to wallow in self pity as hime.

My problem is how to handle jealousy comment throw at you as sarcasm as a man? How to stop waiting for validation from otjer men? And how to act when they question your actions or make fun of them? How not to be appera as an easygoing beta joker who anyone throws sarcasm at you but not respect? How to be more assertive and comfortable when i do whats best for me? Most importantly how to deal with a snake who know your past and many secrets? Please helpme🙏🏼🙏🏼