I broke up with my ex over text and I was kind of cold. She went crazy and sent me more than 50 messages begging me for closure and I left her on read.

The truth is she was an horrible gf and didn't deserve any niceness at the end nor closure/validation. But now I'm the "bad guy".

And now researching on reddit seems like being the bad guy is the worst thing you can be after a relationship ends. Why?

Should I had faked being nice when I dumped her and gave her closure so I don't end up as the bad guy?