10 Quick Tips You Can Use Tonight!

TheTeufel-Hunden · 2013-09-12T00:07:58+00:00

What does this have to do with cooking?

Soulcal7 · 2013-09-12T10:16:07+00:00

Great little briefing! Thanks for the tips :)

twobackedbeast · 2013-09-12T18:12:27+00:00

Constantly looking around is not a good body language

I look around constantly just because I like to know who/what is around me and whats going on. Not in a nervous manner but I'm almost always looking at everything around me. Why is this bad body language?

ChrisFabiani · 2013-10-22T17:10:18+00:00

Definitely agree with point number 9. Women are EXTREMELY socially intuitive. Don't think they won't notice you trying to hit on every single woman in the room.

If they see you briefly talking to lots of people though, INCLUDING guys, they will think you're generally a friendly person. It will increase your social proof which is massively important when it comes to attracting women. Sometimes using this alone can get women to approach you without you even looking at them.

Chris Fabiani,
London, United Kingdom,
Website Owner,
http://iAttractedThem.com

2013-09-12T14:24:11+00:00

I'll try this on my GF tonight and report back!

rambopr · 2013-09-12T14:33:17+00:00

Good post! I always keep my body language neutral and cringe when i see guys do otherwise. Like if youre both at the bar waiting for a drink, make a comment without facing her, maybe tilting your head her direction just enough so she can hear better but not enough that youre even looking at her. Make her earn your attention via conversation and then you can turn and face her. This is powerful initial body language. The alternative is to turn and face her, face lit up with excitement and say hey whats your name (as she thinks "ugh here we go....") (unless she digs you right off the bat haha.)

Little tricks like these really make a man sexier and will become part of you once it becomes natural.

As for eye contact, ive had to switch from contacts to glasses and its altered my vision so im having to relearn this. I used to use my eyes like a champ on everyone, now i kinda stare at their nose and it works but its not as seductive. Working on it tho. (I went from afc to a true natural, back to afc now im gettin natural again haha. Big life changes)

megustaelgato · 2013-09-12T17:28:13+00:00

Staring at someone is a bit hard for me. My left eye seems to wonder sometimes when I am tired. xD It sucks, but I can somewhat control myself. It happens mainly when I am tired after a long day or when I am nervous. Any one experience that? I think that physical impairments fuck my game up. I am scoliosis and my posture is bad. D: Under-bite also doesn't help since I don't have a perfect smile. What would you recommend op. You seem to be great with the ladies. ;]

Noogleader · 2013-09-12T20:56:32+00:00

What about a guy with a slight lazy eye? Rule #1 gets hard for me cuz of my damn eye.

ShinInuko · 2013-09-17T21:44:46+00:00

Wanna know how to talk to anyone?

"Tell me more."

"Please go on."

"[insert a sentence or two of whatever you're talking about], what do you think?"

Every guy asks the girl questions about her self. How many people ask for her thoughts? I mean, hell, most people are just absolutely packed with opinions on everything but keep it to themselves because, of course, no one freaking cares about what you thought about so-and-so. But doesn't it feel good when someone asks for your opinion? You're damn right it does. If you know nothing else about a woman, you can be pretty sure she, like most people, have formed an opinion on everything she's been exposed to.

There's a very good chapter written about this concept in "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. I highly recommend the book as a whole for anyone looking to develop better interpersonal skill sets.

watermelons666 · 2013-09-12T12:14:54+00:00

Any examples or suggestions of open ended questions

theginger3469 · 2013-09-12T17:08:00+00:00

Sex with mediocre women is only cool for a little while, then you wake up and sneak out of her house in hopes she didn’t remember anything about you. Go out, find the two most attractive women in the bar and try to talk to them.

This right here is good shit man. Mediocre women are easy as hell and it does get old. I want stuff to be proud of.

2013-09-12T07:59:57+00:00

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