I've struggled with my sexuality my whole life, here and there I've had opportunities to lose my virginity and for whatever reason I never took them. Now I'm getting much older and it's getting harder and harder for me to get into those situations again, at my age women expect me to initiate more and be aggressive with my sexuality and tbh I just dont know how to do that. It's like the sexual part of my brain is inactive or so inexperienced that it doesnt "turn on" in these situations. I need help, how do I train myself to be or think sexually enough to recognize opportunities and take advantage of them? I want to learn how to flirt without being creepy and turn conversations and situations sexual. I've always been an outgoing person too and I have little problem making friends (Male and female) everywhere I go. I dont have much of an issue socially, it's being sexual and being confident in my sexuality(with barely any experience) that's my problem.