2nd date advice

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-05-28T18:44:25+00:00

The more you prepare, the more you pressure yourself to perform well. Don't think about performance and just be the authentic you (there's nothing to memorize when you are just you).

Remember that you are there because you want to learn more about her and to see if there is really any chemistry.

**Trust yourself. Nothing is more unattractive than a person who acts/manipulates to get what they want because they can see right through you that you aren't congruent when you put on a performance.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-05-28T20:08:57+00:00

Get to know her. Screen her for more than her physical beauty. But enjoy the date. She's still essentially a stranger by date two, as are you. That early into dating I would focus more on poking her mind than her body.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-05-28T21:16:00+00:00

Take her to a sex location..then make out on the bed and do all the pre-sex consent talk and all that.

Have fun!

Intelligent-Hat-5528 · 2025-05-28T18:54:16+00:00

have some topic for good conversation

burncushlikewood · 2025-05-29T01:47:45+00:00

There's an escalation ladder, DiCarlo escalation ladder, essentially it's a system for progressing through with kino while interacting with women. I suggest you take things slow and not pressure her or anything, be patient and show her you're willing to wait. This will help offset her anti slut defense, just get to know her better as a person, and treat her as such

JackSquirts · 2025-05-29T23:32:47+00:00

Whatever you did in that first interaction, is exactly what got you to this next interaction. Start fucking with the formula and thinking too much about it, you'll be more likely to fuck it up. Just go, be the same guy who intrigued her to begin with, make a bold move or two (escalate, but don't be a creep), and pull back here and there.

Title	2nd date advice
Author	CleanAd5120
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	May 28, 2025 6:40 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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