Today, I went to walmart to buy a couple things. I didn't really plan on trying to pick-up any girls. As I was walking down the walkway, I see a fine girl standing there by herself with her shopping cart. I intentionally walked past her, as she had her back to me. I then turned around and approached her.
I said something like "Hello. You are cute. How are you?" She smiled and said thanks. I introduce myself, she acts in kind. I make a statement about her shopping, she begins talking about coffee, and where she lives, etc. I tell her what I'm up to and my lack of cooking skills. Sometime during the interaction, I walk away momentarily to see a product on the shelf.
I make a statement or ask her what she likes doing. etc. Number closed. She texted me. I texted her. Will see what happens.
And I got rejected four other times. Rejection- when I approach or speak to a girl and get little to no response.
1# Rejection
A few moments after the first successful interaction, I see another sexy girl in walmart, and try a similar type of approach. I said hello to her, "hi!" forcing herself to smile and pushed her cart down the isle away from me.
#2 Rejection
I was walking by two girls and spoke to them. Both of them ignored me.
#3 Rejection
A girl was walking towards me in the isle, I said "hello". She smiled and kept walking.
#4 Rejection
Out side of walmart, two latin girls walking past me. One was on the phone and the other girl noticed me checking them out and smiled among themselves. They walked past me about 30 feet. I thought to myself, "fuck it," and I turned around. I cat-called them and they turned around to look at me. I pointed at one of the girls and gestured her to come here. She was like "me?" I said yes. She complied. I started talking and I noticed that she wasn't responding normally. I asked if she spoke spanish. She nodded. I spoke a little spanish and told her how beautiful she was. Then I went for the number close.... REJECTED!!
I really want to get more rejections. I also continue to learn from my mistakes because getting the girl is the goal. "No's" are the way I get there.
[–]LexNihil 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
1,2 & 3 weren't rejections, they just didn't play along. Not the same thing.
Other than that, ATTA BOY! Fail forward faster! ;)
[–]Howtalliswall 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
you are doing just fine.
Ignore the naysayers coz thats what they do
I also did the "get more rejections" it is an awesome exercise for building confidence and desensitizing one. It's all about the law of averages and this will get you ahead of the keyboard kasanovas!!
[–]Chamizo4 4 points5 points6 points (4 children) | Copy Link
The cringe in this post is way too high.
[–]StillRedder 6 points7 points8 points (3 children) | Copy Link
Bruh, wanna swap some steam games?
No? Didn't think so. Unless your comment is constructive, I wouldn't post anything.
Was his post filled with neediness? If so, how? And if you've dealt with neediness, maybe give him some pointers on how to deal with the same problem.
Are you angry now? Good. Use that energy to look inside yourself and find the reason you'd post needless drivel, cutting down a man trying to build himself up.
[–]Ca1isth3nicS 2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
U can swap steam games?
[–]Chamizo4 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
So much rage and hate in such few sentences. Calm down bro.
Hes being cringey and akward. Simple.
In this kind of cases it's better just to be direct instead of giving such cliche positive advices.
And so on.
Those are really dangerous advices with this kind of people.
I've seen in many times, they will just keep going bindly doing akward shit, but hey! people are giving good positive feed back, I should just keep it up! one day everyting gonna magically change!
No.
Just No.
I'm a big fan of short sentences straight to the point, but since you want a constructive advice for him, here is my 5 cents:
Rejection is something that just happens, its not something you are looking for it, willing for it, working on it to happen.
Looking for a "rejection" is the totally wrong mindset to beging with.
When you approach a girl, from the first seconds, first impression gonna talk everything about you, what intention do you have, what are you thinking, how do you feel, how insecure or secure you are, if you are being serious or not with her, if you are just playing around, trolling, sad, desperate, etc. Just in seconds, after all, we men are logical, on the other hand, girls are...well....really sensitive and good reading your body language, voice tone and so on, in just a matter of seconds.
What the fuck do you think girls gonna feel from you if you just go out of the blue to expect a reject or just "lets see what gonna happen" vibes.
No dude. From the start, before approaching a girl, you have to feel it, you have to be sure you REALLY want to know this amazing girl that makes you feel atracted, you have to go all in with the right attitude to meet her, its do or die. They gonna feel your strong energy, your rage, your desire for her.
You cannot go with a weak attitude like: "Oh....ok, its going to be another rejection....but I'm going to take it anyway, the more rejections I get, the more inmune I get to them, hurr durrr dude....its going to be awesome"
No, it doesnt work like that.
Girls gonna insta avoid you, 100% sure guranteed.
Rejection is something that just happens in the process of going all in with that women you like, and when it happens, you learn from it.
That's it.
This shit about looking from rejections originated from all those PUA try hards, trying to sell a new topic to all those insecure guys out there.
But it does nothing good but just hurting your self steem.
When you are having fun and just being yourself, and your life is good and you are in peace with yourself, rejection means NOTHING at all.
Work on that.
Anyways, I'm totally down for some steam games swap, I still have some humble bundle keys around bro. Hope you have some games that are interesting for me.
GL guys.
[–]PmNudes-orMotivation 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
You're correct but I don't think op, or anybody really, aims for rejection. It's more of a "Hey, you might fail but it's okay and if happens to the best of us, don't let it discourage you and learn from it instead"
[–]uniquan 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
good vibes
[–]ToughWorldSon 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Every rejection you are one step closer to a success!
[–]GodOfFissures -1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
Is this even true?