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6 Harsh Truths that Will Make you better with women

IntrovertedBadass

October 14, 2016

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Title	6 Harsh Truths that Will Make you better with women
Author	IntrovertedBadass
Upvotes	41
Comments	8
Date	October 14, 2016 2:00 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]Gustav_Sirvah 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]Aeon199 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]IntrovertedBadass[S] 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey there, There are many ways to work on your psychology. Mostly working on your psychology means working on your limiting believes. What I’m going to tell you might sound a bit hocus pocus, but it does work. “whether you believe something is true or believe something is not true, in both cases you are right.” It means you will search for confirmation of what you already believe. As much as you might have difficulties believing what I just said, IT IS TRUE. In your case, the fact that you are semi autistic, means to you that you have nothing to offer, right? But do you believe this to be a helpful believe? And do you believe it will help get better with women? IT WONT. I’m sure you have MANY things to offer. I know of a guy in a wheel chair who is a real ladies man. Most men in wheel chairs think they have nothing to offer to women. And so they don’t get results with ladies. But this man, has different believes and as a result he has great results with women. I also know many men with Asperger syndrome that learned to be successful with women. They all started by changing them believes. Of course I don’t know you personally, so my advice might be a bit off. But based on what you have written, this is the most relevant advice I could give you. Here are 2 things you can do to start your process. 1) Brainstorm a list of 100 reasons why you are awesome/what you have to offer to women. Just brainstorm and don’t stop until you have 100. Don’t be critical in this stage. Anything can go. It’s a brainstorm so NO ROOM FOR CRITICISM. The purpose is to get your mind going. It can even be little ridiculous things like “like I have nice eyebrows”. It really doesn’t matter. Make sure you have 100. 2) Read your list of 100 a few times a day. It will make you feel better and it will start the process of you FINALLY realizing that you have MUCH MORE to offer than what you thought. 3) Pick your top 3 from your list and make an affirmation that starts with: “I’m incredibly attractive to woman because of 100 different reasons. And the top 3 are: (insert top reason 1, 2 and 3).” 4) Loop this affirmation in your head 5 minutes in the morning and 5 minutes in the evening for 90 days. And you will have changed you believes after 90 days. 5) You can also, if you want, loop them in your head every time you feel like you need more confidence. (the beauty is that because you don’t say them out loud, but instead you say them in your head, you can use them whenever you want: at work, in the car, when walking, et) Hope this helps.

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