WARNING: To be honest with you, this article is a long-read and really only for guys who are serious about getting the girls they've always wanted. If you're not serious about it, this article isn't for you.

A lot of you have been asking me how you can get better at pickup now that you can’t go out for the next few weeks/months…The truth is, there’s a lot you can do to get better at game while at home so by the time all of this is over, you can come out guns blazing and start getting the girls you’ve always wanted IMMEDIATELY.

This really is an amazing opportunity for you to become a much smarter, sharper, effective player, and if you follow the 8 steps below on how to master game at home, you will be seeing social dynamics at a Matrix/Neo-level of understanding and execution (seriously).

Here you go…

🔸 STEP #1 - Watch infield video recordings & breakdowns with your main “sticking point” in mind
Most guys watch infield video recordings and breakdowns without a real purpose.

Quite honestly, they’re just watching for entertainment purposes.

This is one of the WORST ways to learn pickup and can actually be a HUGE waste of time.As counterintuitive as it sounds, you need to have a specific MINDSET when watching infield and take a more ACTIVE role instead of a passive one.

If you have a sticking point that is keeping you from the results with women that you want, watching someone who is already good at what you’re trying to fix/improve is one of the fastest ways of learning/fixing/mastering it as soon as possible.

Is your biggest sticking point opening? Watch an in-depth infield video recording and breakdown of someone who is opening successfully over and over and over again in all different situations with different girls.

Watch his technique-delivery, voice tonality, vocal projection, eye contact, facial expressions, body language, overall vibe, etc…You can literally fix your sticking point INSTANTLY by seeing someone else do it while making notes of how you can replicate it and get the same exact success. Whether it be getting attraction, connecting with the girl, qualifying her, sexualizing the conversation, bringing her home, and everything in between… watching the infield video and breakdown of someone who already perfected it is one of the fastest ways to break past your current sticking points and move on to the next level of your game and results with women.

🔸 STEP #2 - Debriefing (breaking down and analyzing) your past interactions

Stuck at home and can’t approach any new girls at the moment? There’s a way that you can learn A LOT about the girls you’ve approached, gamed, dated, etc. in the past… breaking down your past interactions. Assuming that you have been debriefing/writing field reports / breaking down and analyzing your interactions from the past, now what you can do is actually break them down with your current understanding of game.

When I read my old field reports from when I was a newbie and intermediate, I see the interactions MUCH differently than I saw them back then.I’m able to see the subtleties, mistakes, inefficiencies, etc. that were invisible to me at the time. With my higher level of understanding, I can think to myself...

  • “Why did the interaction go down that specific path?"...
  • "What could I have done differently?"... "What would have happened if I said/did this?"...
  • How could this have changed/fixed things?...”

I encourage you to open up your old field reports that you probably haven’t seen since you first wrote them and try to break them down as if you were coaching the younger, less-experienced version of yourself.

🔸 STEP #3 - Writing & rehearsing material

Are you still starting conversations and don’t know what to say / run out of things to say?

There is a very simple and straight-forward way to ALWAYS know exactly what to say.Writing and rehearsing material! Using the techniques you’ve learned from me and SPU Daniel, you can write material that is personalized and custom-tailored to you that fits your game, character, values, beliefs, identity…You can write and rehearse material for your techniques that include different openers, hooking techniques (push-pulls, negs, disqualifiers, cold reads, etc.), connection techniques, qualification techniques, getting her number techniques, pulling techniques, etc.

You can literally write down everything you would say from open-to-date-to-close. Once you have your material written down, practice it in your room, in front of the mirror, around your house...Writing down and rehearsing material really is the only way to get over the “I run out of things to say” sticking point.

🔸 STEP #4 - Mentally rehearse the fundamentals with specific scenarios in mind

This is one very good exercise that instructors never seem to teach: Literally sitting down in a chair, closing your eyes, and mentally REHEARSING and practicing the fundamentals in your mind.I literally mean from saying “hi” to the girl all the way to having her in your room and on your bed.

Question... do you know EXACTLY what to say to move the interaction through all the stages of a pickup? Do you even know the stages of a pickup by heart? If not, it's no wonder you don't get the consistent results with women you've always wanted. If you’re doing this exercise and think to yourself, “Wait - I don’t know when the girl is ready to be pulled” or “Wait - I don’t know when I need to stop joking around and be genuine with the girl so I don't become a dancing monkey,” you BADLY need this exercise. You should such a clear vision and solid understanding of what an interaction looks like from open-to-close, whether it’s what to say, what signs to look for from the girl at each stage of the pickup, things to watch out for, etc.

I guarantee you if you can’t do this in the comfort of your own home, you 100% won’t be able to do it in real life when the nightclub is blasting music in your ears, crazy lights are blinding you, her girlfriends are trying to steal her away from you, her guy friends are trying to tool you, you’re on the crowded dance floor, drinks are being spilled on you...Start by mentally rehearsing the fundamentals at home so when it’s game time, you’re ready.

🔸 STEP #5 - Verbally drill fundamentals

Being able to verbally execute your verbal techniques in the right window of time is VERY important.

Make sure you have your lines, techniques, and routines dialed in and sharp the moment you need them. This goes back to guys not knowing what to say or do. Every night they go home alone and think to themselves, “I keep running out of things to say!” Again, just write down what to say and rehearse it.

🔸 STEP #6 - Mirror time

One of the most important things about game that not many instructors speak about is something called "technique-delivery."“Technique-Delivery” includes things like eye contact, facial expressions, body language, voice tonality, vocal projection, etc... It is what makes the technique seem natural, organic, and engaging.If you know what to say (verbal techniques) but you are boring, too quiet, too timid, not expressive enough… it doesn’t matter if she can’t even hear you or you can’t even keep her attention in the first place.

As weird as it sounds, I spent literally hundreds hours in front of the mirror rehearsing my lines, routines, and techniques so I can see exactly what the girl sees. Mirror time will literally polish your techniques up so they come off “natural” and “organic” instead of seeming “canned” and “robotic.”Can’t have someone film your interactions? This is the next best thing, and best of all, it’s easy, it’s free, and you can do it literally whenever you want.

🔸 STEP #7 - Practice with wingmen

Want to make the exercises and practice listed above even more REAL? Practice with your wingmen.If you have any close wingman that you normally go out with, but you both can’t leave the house, no worries!Video chat or call them up with the intention of practicing/rehearsing/mastering game virtually. Tell him what you want to work on, ask him what he wants to work on, and practice/rehearse with each other.

This is a step beyond the solo exercises listed above and is a lot more “real-world,” practical, and best of all, you can get feedback from him that you can use to get good even faster.By the time all of this is over, you and your wingman will be LIGHT YEARS ahead of every other guy and “pickup artist.”

🔸 STEP #8 - Studying game theory related to your sticking points

this is the one that brings all the points above together, and quite honestly is the most important one.All the points above are about thinking, breaking down, and practicing game at home. However, if you don’t know what REAL game is, how are you supposed to think, break down, and practice it the right way? It’s like in Brazillian Ji-Jitsu - if you don’t know the theory and techniques that you’re supposed to use in a fight, you’ll just be rolling around on the floor trying to squeeze heads.

Believe it or not, this is actually what 99% of so-called “pickup artists” do -- they spend their entire lives jumping into conversations with girls hoping that she’ll like him, and hopefully they end up going home together.I call this “hope game” and it is by far the weakest way form of game when it comes to meeting, attracting, dating, and sleeping with the women you’ve always wanted. This is LITERALLY most guys’ game plan and at the end of the day, they wonder why they’re not getting any better or why after YEARS of being a “pickup artist,” they never get good at pickup.DON’T let this be you. Just make sure you study the RIGHT theory and learn from the RIGHT people - most theory shared around groups and in videos will actually make your game worse and move you in the wrong direction. Stay healthy and stay surgical,🖤

*P.S. - If you want to learn everything you need to practice and master game at home using the steps above, private message me now. I have something special for you.

Gabriel