First of all. My primary language is not english so I'm sorry for spelling mistakes.

Okay, here is the thing. This girl HB9 started following me on instagram and I had no idea who it was. After a period of time, I realized that she was pretty hot and I followed her back, liked some of her pictures and stuff like that. Within two days, she had added me on Facebook and I realized that we had friends in common and that she lived in my town.

I told myself: what the heck I'm asking her out. I did this mainly because i don't like to start conversations over internet or texting. In my opinion, you cannot build the same attraction over the phone as in real life with kino and all that stuff.

Anyway I asked her out and she seemed to be happy about it but within a few days she flaked (told me that she had forgotten about celebrating her friend that day). I guess that she was nervous, I personally don't think that many guys have asked her out like that so I told her: "if you think I'm being too hasty let me know ;)" (was this a mistake by the way?)

She replied : "maybe a little ;)." so I told her that we would just take it slow and get to know each other first by texting.

It's been a week now and we've been texting a little. Judging by her texts, she's not super interested you now, when she texts you 24/7, she responds well tough. The annoying part is that I feel like I'm the one leading the conversation mostly of the time and here I am now.

What are your thoughts on this seddit? Would love to know because I've never experienced anything like this. greetings!

TL;DR: she added me on facebook, followed me on instagram but does'nt seem that interested when i'm contacting her.