Let me start off by saying I'm [21] very new to any sort of seduction/dating. Only slept with one girl before, who I was in a relationship with, and I am generally a shy person.
On Saturday night (Feb 19) I went to DJ a house party at a house I'd never been to before (My town is kind of small, so I end up at the same houses a lot.) I arrived on time, but there was almost no one there, just the house members. My friends were nowhere to be found.
I introduced myself to the house members, and set up my DJ equipment. I was opening, so there weren't many people dancing, but things got cracking later in the night when my other friends were playing.
I ended up dancing with one of the house members I had met earlier. We had been giving each other eyes throughout the night (I probably stole more glances than I should have). No dirty dancing, but it was physical (swing style, if anyone is familiar).
Near the end of the night, she came up and asked me my name again (a good IOI?). Being a shy guy, I usually wuss out and fail to act on potential situations, so I decided I would man up and ask her out before I left.
As I was heading out, I thanked her for hosting (which elicited a big smile) and asked her if she wanted to get coffee. After a slight hesitation, she agreed, and I got her number.
I keep focusing on the things I should have done differently, and am having a hard time thinking about everything that went well.
How should I proceed? I'm new to this, and totally flying blind. Any suggestions, Seddit? Thanks for your help.
TL;DR: DJed a party, met/danced with a girl, she agreed to get coffee and gave me her number. WTF do I do now?
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