So, to get straight to the point I recently added my ex on Facebook, thinking nothing of it. She reached out either that day or the next and started conversation, saying she didn't think I would have added her and so on. We've been talking ever since.

I still have something for this girl. I'm afraid to make the wrong move and push her away when I've been given an opportunity.

I would say we're both initiating conversation but I will admit I've double texted and reached out about the same as she has.

I don't want to vomit my feelings on to this woman as I've been told that never works. I wanna genuinely reattract her. She lives an hour away and I don't currently have a vehicle but I was told videochatting can be used as a date until I replace my car. So, I guess my question is:

Should I just chill when she doesn't respond to me right away? Let her reach out more? I was also told that it's best to have her do all or most of the reaching out and, if she does, set up a time for us to videochat or talk on the phone and not to keep texting all day as that doesn't build attraction.

My insecurities are coming back with this woman and I dont want that to become a problem. What do I do?