A year and a half dry spell. HELP ME!

aloha_niigah · 2014-12-11T06:30:20+00:00

Answer these four questions honestly first:

What do you do for fun? How do you spend your free time? What do you do to relax/unwind? What is something you're really good (or just good) at?

dysrhythmic · 2014-12-11T11:19:31+00:00

There might be a MILLION things that cause this. I'm 21 and I have even longer dry-spell but I learned a shit ton and (until recently) it was just enough for me, to see how I change and how people react to me.

Do you do cold approach? If yes (or even if no) do you actually lead interactions?

are you happy with waht you do in and with your life?

Do you try new things and experiment? Do you challenge your comfort zone?

Maybe you focus too much on just sex and girlfriend therefore being very outcome dependent?

I can't answer for you, only you can help yourself.

dirk_e_diggler · 2014-12-11T22:54:37+00:00

I've said it before and I'll say it again:

That's a very broad question. Read the side bar, read Models by Mark Manson, read The Rational Male. If I had to summarize seduction in one phrase: be outcome independent, but be interested.

Title	A year and a half dry spell. HELP ME!
Author	jordan20x1
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	December 11, 2014 5:32 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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