Absolutely terrible day game

glutinfree_babycakes · 2014-04-06T17:22:49+00:00

Baby steps, man.

Start out by just saying "hi" to people you walk by. Then, make small remarks or compliments to people as you're walking around.

I always find it easier to approach or talk to people after I've been talking to others. Trying to go from cold silence to a great conversation with someone is difficult (at least for me). So, I'd give it a try and see if that builds up your state for approaches.

Mavenix · 2014-04-06T19:40:16+00:00

Read this guide. It explains how to slowly progress, it's very good and it was gilded.

Apex_of_Attraction · 2014-04-06T20:26:06+00:00

Like the RSD stuff goes, I'd make it so that your only criteria for success is that you approach. That lowers your expectations or the demands for yourself to such a degree that you give yourself permission to fail.

I also have a win some/lose some mindset, so I told put too much emphasis on the outcome, and instead always just focus on the process.

To be more present though, I always try to be aware of my breath throughout the day, and put my "awareness" in my feet before initial approaches.

Beyond that, it might be that you're placing too much importance on the context of the interaction. Because your setting the context of the conversation with her as you hitting on her it has a potential win or lose outcome. Instead, just be social, and if it hooks then change the context. Otherwise, the pretense is to just be social.

Warm up with short and sweet sets. Just start talking to everyone. Even by only talking to girls that's a subtle form of putting them on a pedestal (as if they were the only gender worth talking to?).

IMO nothing beats the six step process that you're probably familiar with. Remember you're not picking up girls. You're just being social, screening for girls you like, then asking out the ones you have chemistry with. They have to prove themselves to you as much as you feel you have to somehow "prove" yourself to them.

Hope that helps.

Kind regards, Darragh, http://www.apexofattraction.com/about-darragh.html

Title	Absolutely terrible day game
Author	NAILGUNSODOMY
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	April 6, 2014 4:50 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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