I heard many times about the abundance mindset and how important it is to have it when it comes to dealing with women and people in general. I wanted to share with you something I did a couple of months ago, that reaffirmed that perspective in my life.

The one little thing I did was removing all my past crushes from all social media both ways (unfollow and remove follower). There were quite a few collected over time to be honest. It created so much breathing space, no more temptations to look up how they are doing. I can't remember names of some of them unless I concentrate hard now. I was surprised how quickly all the empty parking lots were filled with fresh contacts that I could filter again and again.

I did it three months ago. I was a bit unsure whenever I should do that, because I hoped that one day they would change their mind (they wouldn't). It was a spontaneous idea that I decided to use.

It looks like I have an attention capacity that was fully booked.

Have you tried something similar?