Ill keep this short; Dad was an Ex con. they dont talk about personal lives too much, so as a kid i was often snapped at for being "Nosy" trying to talk to him and never learned how to have a proper conversation because of it. Mom only talks about herself and what SHE likes.

I NEED a list of generally accepted GTKY questions normal people use. My biggest hurdle in life is deepening connections and from what i understand, i gotta get past surface level subjects?