Advancing

hunterpua · 2019-01-31T08:24:08+00:00

"Can you keep a secret?"

But theres no magical line that will turn everything around so that she's totally into you again.

The most that line will get you is her responding back to your text because it'll pique her interest hard.

But you still need to be able to respond to her response in a way that you restart the buildup of her attraction for you.

And I can't tell you what that response is because there are a million ways she can reply to "Can you keep a secret?"

So ultimately you'll need to learn and develop the skill set necessary to be good at game and for this situation you might have to just let it go so that you can get more experience with more girls in order to improve your ability to handle these kinds of situations and avoid them altogether.

Also, don't seduce one girl at a time. Its bad for your improvement and for your psyche. It just makes you needy.

I always say, "The first thing to worry about when you get a girl's number is getting another girl's number."

If you had a bunch of other girls queued up then you wouldn't care so much about this one right now and you will naturally act non-needy so you would have been less likely to turn her off in some way plus you'll get good with girls much faster when you go through them many at a time.

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Rico114034 · 2019-01-31T14:13:41+00:00

What I do when I get a females # call/text and there's no response.

Wait 5 days and text: 'Hey sexy, how was your weekend?'

When you start out with, 'hey sexy' you r starting the communication in a sexual way while inquiring about her life.

If she still doesn't respond put her # on ice for a month then text:

'What been going on trouble'

daygamebeast · 2019-01-31T15:36:27+00:00

right now she is not answering my texts

Ask yourself this: How long do you think she goes without looking at her phone? Assuming she is not sleeping, etc... how long does she go without looking at her phone?

Think about girls you know. An hour? 20 mins? 2 mins?

She saw the message and didn't respond. Time to move on. It happens to all of us... but let her go.

Is there any kind of way I can save this before I dump it? What would you recommend me to do? Do you know any lines that might work ?

No.

And here is why: Imagine Chad Thundercock. He has 18 girls "in rotation. He meets a girl. He sends her a text. She doesn't respond. He is still talking with 10+ of the other girls. He doesn't even notice she doesn't respond.

If you do notice... you're not Chad. It doesn't make you a bad guy. But if you're not Chad, you're not talking to her... she is busy talking to Chad. Let her go.

We are all more/less "Chad" depending on the situation with the girl. With this girl, you are not Chad, or she would have responded to you in an hour... or within the day.

Let her go. Go meet 5 new girls... and start working you way into being Chad.

myhoeacademia · 2019-01-31T08:34:46+00:00

For a more accurate & helpful advice, could you give more context like how the interaction was when you exchanged numbers as well as your texts to her. Not only thru your perspective but hers - the way she was acting, her verbal & nonverbal cues~

Title	Advancing
Author	Isaacmanuel1999
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	January 31, 2019 7:26 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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